Take the initiative to reach out to the boy you ve been friends with, right?

Updated on society 2024-02-08
62 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's ......Now he is too unstable, he originally wanted to know who you were, thinking it was the one he used to be so nervous, but then he remembered who you were, and it turned out that the person who didn't feel it ignored you, it's that simple!

    If you get too close, you may fall prey to his longing for her! It doesn't matter if you are friends, but if he will tell him how miserable he is, I think that's a red flag, don't take it too seriously! If you really like him, wait for him to "come back" for a while, and then take your time!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There's nothing wrong with that, since you have met for the first time, someone has to take the initiative, you can't always wait for the boy to take the initiative. If you really have feelings for him, reach out to him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is said that amorous people are easy to get hurt, you don't care too much about it, don't always think about it, it's good for a long time, don't text him now, it's annoying to be too active, you should be silent for a while, ignore him for a few days to see how he reacts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you really like someone, then you have to know how to pay, there is no free lunch in the world, and some opportunities are missed and gone, so you must seize the opportunity. But if you want to have fun, then it's another matter, which means it's just a momentary thought, I personally reserve my opinion on your state for the time being, if there is anything else to add me) Thank you!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's good for girls to take the initiative. If you let the boy know that you love him like this, you like him.

    He won't cherish it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What's wrong with that, you can be a very good friend with him!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you like it, try to chase it.

    But if he doesn't feel anything about you.

    Forget it.

    So as not to troubled yourself.

    Love is the word.

    It's hard to understand.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm afraid I don't like you, or I should go back!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How do you get a man to reach out to you? Learn these three ways and you'll get twice the result with half the effort.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Learn these tricks and let the man reach out to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't want to be with you that much anymore, and I want to end this time-wasting relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The guy who had a good chat suddenly disappears, teach you a trick and let him take the initiative to come to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Men slap men in the face, and then give a sweet date, men will remember the desire to conquer what they can't get! If you want a man to cherish it, give him some difficulty!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You are attractive to a man, so he will naturally take the initiative to talk to you. Of course, sometimes, men may think that you are too cold, and your parents will solve it by communicating with them.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Like you, love you, and will naturally take the initiative to contact you.

    If not, I personally feel that according to this man's personality and hobbies, you will be the most beautiful person in his heart.

    Second: brush the sense of presence, but not to attract excessive attention, but to let him discover the point you want to show, don't do it deliberately.

    Third, don't be a licking dog, girls have to have their own patterns.

    Exquisite life + interesting soul.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's hard unless he falls in love with you or needs you in some way. In fact, if you don't contact him for a long time, it already means that he doesn't care about you, at least he doesn't have you in his heart, so you must first try to get his attention and make him fall in love with you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    lives beautiful, beautiful and confident, indulges in his lust, half-pushes and half-covers his face.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you want to get away with it, keep the feeling of being separated. Don't be too proactive.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let him like you, or fall in love with you, as long as he is interested in you, it is possible to reach out to you. Your question is quite broad, so I can only go so far.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Some people will feel how much they love each other in a relationship, which is generally reflected in how much they invest in each other, the more they invest, the more they love him, but at the same time, people are also looking forward to a point of hard work and a harvest, when you value this relationship more often, you will feel that you have invested more things, but on the other hand, if you want to make the other party value this relationship more, you have to let him invest more things for you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Regardless of whether he borrows money, borrows a lot of money, it is strange that he does not contact you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No. Because this man doesn't care about women at all.

    Of little consequence. Just don't refuse, don't take the initiative, such a man is the most hateful, and he simply doesn't respect people. A woman would pursue such a man.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    As a woman, I don't think it's better to be this kind of man!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This question is not comprehensive, is he calling you 100 ** a day, thinking about you doing nothing all day long, you are happy??? You can tell him what he might not know.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on how much she likes him, and it's nothing if she likes him to take the initiative.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Find out the truth and then make a trade-off, because after all, what you see is only a façade.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You should break off with him and can't take the initiative anymore. Generally speaking, a woman who takes the initiative is not a good woman.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Don't always contact him.

    Beware of him hurting you. Anyway, if he knows what you want.

    The answer will be given to you, whether to continue or to leave.

    You can't be in too much of a hurry, calm down.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's nothing to talk about, as long as he doesn't refuse, sometimes be cheeky, hehe, hey (like me).

    And ah, maybe he's embarrassed to take the initiative to find you, looking forward to you.

    Have faith.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    But sometimes hang him (every once in a while) to see"Happiness is earned by oneself'

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If the person who sent the message doesn't reply, don't send it again!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Okay, maybe you'd like to, and so would others.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In my opinion, it is best for girls not to take the initiative to contact boys first, although he is very introverted, but he also has his own thoughts about blind dates, and many boys who seem honest on the surface will have richer ideas. If his parents are happy with you, they will communicate with their son to exchange their ideas, and if the boy is also interested in you, he will naturally contact you. If you take the initiative, he will definitely think that you have a crush on his family background.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you like it, ask him out and talk alone, introverts can't let go of their parents in the presence of their parents!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you are interesting to him, know him so well, take the initiative to contact him, if not, can you still be friends? As long as you believe that you are not for his family's family lineage, good luck.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I have been close many times, and generally if the man is interesting, he will take the initiative to contact you, and the woman does not have to be too passive.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It depends on how you feel about him, if not, don't take the initiative, but if you have, there's nothing wrong with you taking the initiative. Fate is something you have to grasp by yourself, don't wait for fate to pass by you before regretting it. I don't know if it's useful for you to say this, refer to it for yourself (there is a saying that men chase women across mountains, and women chase men across the veil. )

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    There's nothing to worry about, he's very introverted! It's up to you to take the initiative ......Hehe, you can refer to it, and it......'s hard to type for a long timeDon't forget to give points

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Let's get in touch, it's up to people to make things happen, and it's up to heaven to make things happen.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I think for this kind of introverted boy! If you like it, you have to strike first! Otherwise, you'll miss out! If he doesn't like it, forget it! It's better than doing nothing at all! At least you'll be able to die in the end, right?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Since you asked, I guess I like the man. I've had the same situation. It's the man who is very busy in business.

    So I took the initiative, but I contacted every two or three days. Just talk about boring topics as you normally would. Something.

    Just be an ordinary person. If it's suitable, it's together, and if it's not suitable, it's nothing, so let it be.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    There is no topic in the chat, and the woman should also take the initiative to say something. I just talked until there was nothing to say, and the woman was bored, and then she turned yellow.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you feel good about your blind date, you should take the chance. If the man is more introverted, the woman should take the initiative. After all, you have to fight for your own happiness.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Since you feel good about him, then you ask him out. If he's really the kind of honest person you think. He won't misunderstand what you like about his family conditions.

    If he feels that what he likes is what he likes. Then don't let this kind of person go. Even if you get married later, you won't be happy.

    Because the person he talks to will feel that it is his conditions, not his people.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I think it's necessary for you to get in touch with him, because if you're going to live together in the future, you're going to have to get to know a lot of his habits!

    Honest people are obedient... If he likes you, it's okay.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Let's talk about it! You're like a friend.1 Don't think about it so much.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    It's better for girls not to take the initiative for this kind of thing.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    If you like it, you will be brave enough to pursue it. Otherwise, if he doesn't contact you all the time, he won't have a chance.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    All in all, it's ......It's not good to have an affair with a guy casually......Maybe that boy cares about her in his heart, but he has work at hand, entertainment or something, looking at his eagerness to explain, maybe he likes this girl and doesn't want to leave a bad impression on the girl. He said that he was going to see his wife, first, he wanted to see what the woman's reaction was, so that she could make corresponding countermeasures, which was to capture the old man; Second, he may actually have a girlfriend, in which case I think that girl should keep her distance from him. Boys who want to have both fish and bear's paws must not .........The above is a personal recommendation.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    The first situation is yes, I care, maybe because he has his own business, he has to be busy, or he wants to deal with his own business, or he is afraid that he will not dare to send a text message because of the delay of the girl's affairs, and since he takes the initiative to send it, he will reply that proves that he cares.

    The second case is angry.

    I'm a boy.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    A man who doesn't take the initiative to contact you is not worth your worries about him.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to not know each other on the other side. There is no male or female who chases who first in emotional matters, and now it is not a feudal society, as long as you have feelings for him, you can say it first, that is, if you say that people are unwilling, at least you dare to say it. It is happy in my own heart.

    There are too many things to regret in life, and you will lose a lot in an instant. Seizing the opportunity is your own rush to your own happiness. Hehe, do what you love to do and express what you think in your heart so that others will know.

    I wish you happiness.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    If you like him a little bit in your heart, take the initiative, so as not to miss it, he may not contact you, he may not have a good impression of you, maybe because of shyness, maybe he is a person who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, give each other a chance, so that he will not regret it.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Yes, there is nothing wrong with taking the initiative, but looking at this situation, the other party is not very positive.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    He adds you to explain that he doesn't reject you, he doesn't contact you, he doesn't know your mind, in case he shows his mind and is rejected by you, then he is not very hurt, so you should prompt him to fight if you like it, and be robbed by others, don't regret it.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Usually a guy will chase you, and if that guy has a crush on you, but if that guy is the shy type, then you have to give him a hint that you're not that unapproachable, if you have a crush on him, of course.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    You don't have to be a man to take the initiative, it's the same for both men and women, and things are up to you to grasp and fight!

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    If you like him, you must take the initiative, or you can't be preempted by others.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    If you like him, take the initiative. If you don't say it, then he will think that you are not interesting to him and give up.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    What kind of initiative is it to take the initiative to chat for a day. If you want to talk, you can talk.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    Why not? Personally, I think that girls should let go of their reserves, let go of their coldness and take the initiative to contact boys who have a good feeling. Because everyone is equal in front of love, although it was often said in the past that men chase women in the mountains, and women chase men in the veil.

    But what do we young people have to scruple about under the belief that love is greater than heaven?

    You have to know how small the odds are that a person will meet someone you like. You have to think about it this way, if you meet a boy you like, and you don't take the initiative to pursue it, you don't confess to her, and this marriage is missed, will you regret it in the future? Know that love does not wait, and if you hesitate because of your timidity and shyness, then I am afraid it will be difficult for you to meet love again.

    In the face of love, each of us should abandon feudal traditions. It is not easy for people to meet a person they like in this life. Since you have a crush on the guy, it means that he is something you admire in some places, and it is the dish in your heart.

    Not everyone can give you a heartbeat, and they can make you feel good. When encountering a difficult situation, maybe you take the initiative to contact it, and a marriage begins. On the contrary, if you miss it because of a momentary hesitation, it may be a lifetime.

    Sometimes, there's nothing wrong with being proactive. A little braver may turn out to be really different. At least there will be fewer regrets in your life.

    Don't dare to take the initiative to contact a boy who has a good impression for the sake of the so-called reserve, try to contact and see the other party's reaction, maybe he has a good impression of you like you, and he is worried that he doesn't know how to approach you, so that the two of you don't have a chance to achieve a good marriage.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    A girl I think she should really take the initiative to contact some boys who have a good feeling, after all, why don't you know how to pursue what you like, so I don't think I will regret it at least, if you don't go, it may have nothing to do with you.

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