If one is the person you love and the other is a house, what can a girl choose?

Updated on society 2024-02-08
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm a boy, and what I want to say is: it's not a question of picking a house or a person, the question is whether that girl has the conditions to choose! If you have the conditions, you will pick the one with a house, and enjoy it ready-made; If there are no conditions, people will be picked, and potential stocks will be cultivated.

    What I want to say is that in terms of marriage, if a girl wants money, don't look for a poor boy who has no money for a while and waste other people's feelings; For the sake of affection, true love must endure temporary hardship.

    Women are picking men, but at the same time, men are also picking women! If you are not good, how can you choose an excellent other party.

    A woman's capital lies in youth and beauty, but youth and beauty will not last long. If it's just for money, a man won't really put his heart and soul into you. The color decays and loves relaxation, and love relaxation is graceful.

    Men's capital lies in wealth and career. A self-motivated man will not lose these things over time, while a woman will lose her youth and beauty.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The future needs 2 people to fight together, you shouldn't be so irresponsible to throw all the problems to him, see the truth in adversity, do you want a man to accompany you for a lifetime or a house?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I will choose the person I love, after all, the house can be earned by myself in the future.!

    But those who love can't earn it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Big head. If you're idealistic, go with the guy you like.

    If you're real, then talk to the rich one.

    I seriously despise those who only choose money, because they are very short-sighted, and the hard life seems to be behind, and you are too unassertive, and it may be in vain to talk to you.

    Marriage is such a thing, as long as you are sincere, you can't resist anything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course it's people, you don't have to think about it at all, if you choose a house, you won't regret it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Choose the one I love and give up the house.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Most people will choose a house, and a few will choose love.

    Who called this world so realistic.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    We have two houses in our family, and I will choose love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Divorced, the house and the people are not yours.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If he is willing to work hard, you think you can work together to buy a house in the future, then don't listen to your parents, you must have a house to get married, love someone is the most important thing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I was able to do what I wanted in a big house without any constraints. You can live freely in it, cook or do yoga, etc.

    Because when I was young, there were a lot of people in my family, and we had my parents and then my brothers and sisters, a total of three. It added up to five people, and the house was not big at that time. So there's basically no room for movement, and certainly no private space for everyone.

    At that time, a large family lived together. Of course, I am very happy, because my parents are very diligent people. And at that time, they could make money with a job, and the life at home was not bad, except for a small judgment in the house.

    The food cooked by my parents in our house was very delicious. No matter when? They would always bring out delicious meals for our three brothers and sisters to eat.

    I felt that the family was happy at that time. But I don't have my own independent space, so I've always wanted to have such a space since I was a child.

    Now that I'm grown up, I've made that wish come true through my own efforts. When I have my own space, I feel a lot happier because I can really cook what I want to eat in my room. If you have time, you can cook and plant flowers.

    Of course, you can also read, write or something, and sometimes you can listen to **, in short, once I had my own empty house, I think it is beautiful.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I choose a suite, a person I love, but if he doesn't love me, then I won't lose.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love, I've never had a concept of a house.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If I don't get married, I choose a lover, and when I get married, I choose a house.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    For me now, I would choose a house!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it were me, I would definitely choose a house.

    I'm the kind of person who doesn't have a lot of security, so I don't take the initiative to pursue someone I like, and I don't get tempted easily. So, I will never choose someone I love, because I feel that I am suffering, I don't want to be alone to give silently like this, I am not so great.

    If I really have a house and someone who likes me, I might choose someone who loves me.

    And a house is different. I have a house, which is equivalent to an extra layer of protection and dependence, and this house is mine, and the current housing price is so expensive, think about it, you also know what you should choose.

    So if it were me, I would definitely choose a house. Life doesn't need you to be so great, everyone has to live their own life first.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If I had to choose, it must be a person I love, in the vast sea of people, it is really not easy to meet a right person at the right time, the house is everywhere on the street, but the people on the street, how many are the people you love? Therefore, I think that a person I love is much more precious than a house.

    The person you love has a temperature, as long as it is the right person who loves the house, the house can bring you a sense of security, and the person you love can also bring you, and even bring you more. If it were a house and a loved one, I would not hesitate to choose the latter. If someone I love happens to have a house, that's a great thing.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In the era when houses are very high, a house is indeed very important, especially in big cities, a house is millions, for a working-class person, it is impossible to buy a house, although everyone is working very hard, but it is still so far away from buying a house.

    So that many people looking for friends have to find someone who has a house, in fact, there is nothing wrong with this idea, after all, a house requires us to work hard for many years, and some people even work hard all their lives, and they can't buy a house in a big city.

    But no matter when, we also have to know what we want, if a house can be compared to a lover, it must be a choice of house, but sometimes a house is not worth their lover, then I would rather choose a lover.

    In fact, I think that no matter when, if two people don't have feelings, it's really meaningless to be together, even if you live in the best house and look at someone you don't like every day, I think you must have the heart to die at that time.

    So I think no matter when, you still have to base yourself on love, and don't give up your love for a house, so I think it's really not cost-effective to exchange your life for a house.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It depends on the situation. If the person I love loves me and he loves me, then I will definitely choose him. Because I can work with him to buy a house in the future, but I can't work with the house to find someone who really loves me.

    There is no greater fate in the world than if you love him and she loves you, and this fate cannot be measured by money, it cannot be offset by the value of a house. So I will choose the one I love.

    But if the person I love, he doesn't love me, then what's the use of him, it's better to have a house, at least when I'm tired, I can have a home of my own. What is the difference between guarding a man who doesn't love me and guarding a piece of wood that a man builds, who doesn't have a house to give me much comfort.

    I feel that a woman will want to ask each other for a house before getting married, which is the premise of marriage, but if it is true love, even if the other party does not have a house, I believe that this woman will follow him without hesitation. Because this is a common problem of women, she truly loves people and would rather taste the ups and downs of life for him.

    Why are many women said to worship money? Why would a house be required as a prerequisite for marriage? I think it's all because of a sense of insecurity, because she didn't get the promise of love for a lifetime from the other person, or she didn't feel that the other person would love her for a lifetime, so she urgently needed a house to give her a guarantee.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is no need to think too much about this, of course, it is to choose a house. Because if you have a house, you have a home, and the house is your own fixed property, and with a home, everything is possible.

    Just because you love someone doesn't mean you love yourself. Love is nothing but a momentary impulse, an irrational choice. When we become very rational, we will feel that love cannot be eaten, and it cannot bring us satisfactory material enjoyment.

    When we are struck by love, we will realize how foolish it is to choose love.

    After all, now that housing prices are so high, how difficult it is to buy a house, and it will almost cost you most of your life's salary. If you choose the person you love, it means that you have to struggle for half your life. How short is a person's life, how can there be so much time for us to struggle.

    After choosing a house, you have a nest and a foundation, so that you can struggle with peace of mind. In this way, you can find someone you love, or someone who loves you.

    Feelings can be cultivated, but if you don't have a house, you need to spend half your life struggling.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There will be love, there will be bread, and if I meet someone I like very much, then in front of love and the house, I will definitely choose the person I love. Because there are so many people in the world, it is really not easy to meet a person you like, and since you have met it, you should cherish it.

    But they have just started working, and they don't have a house or a car. The two of them still love each other very much, work together, after so many years of hard work, the two of them finally bought their own house, and they live happily ever after. At that time, the family was very opposed to the love between the two of them.

    I introduced a lot of rich men to my sister-in-law and let my sister-in-law know, but my sister-in-law rejected them. If my sister-in-law hadn't refused at that time, she might not be so happy now.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I will choose the one I love. The house can be available at any time, and if the person I love leaves me because I chose the house, I will be very miserable, and I will regret it for the rest of my life, and I will not be happy for the rest of my life.

    The house may be a representation of home for many people, and in my opinion, as long as the loved one is there, my home is there. Where the loved ones are, there is home. I can work with my loved ones and buy a house together.

    But until then, I won't leave someone I love just because someone else gives me a house. Even if my lover has no money now, I will not give up on him. All the property between us needs to be created together, and I won't let him work alone.

    There are many things that cannot be bought with money, these things are precious and fragile, and once they are damaged, it is difficult to recover. Love is something that many people can't ask for, and how many people marry people they don't love for life. Since God has let you meet, why don't you cherish it and give up something so precious for something else.

    House, money is something outside the body, a person has such a long life, as long as two people work hard, what they want will come one day. But without that person you have in mind, no matter how much money you have, no matter how much room you have, you will not be happy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is no second answer to this question for me, I choose to be with the person I love.

    Even if you can't afford to buy a house with the person you love for the time being, you can work together with two people, and you will have it in the end. Even if you can't put down roots in the big city, it's a good thing to go to the countryside and live an idyllic life. However, even if your house is bigger and bigger, you will be lonely and lonely without the people you like living in it, and not sharing a room with the people you love.

    In fact, this is the choice between material and love. Some say they would choose material things and would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle. Even if the other party doesn't like him or he doesn't like him, he won't live a poor life.

    Naturally, everyone has their own ideas and intentions. But I think that a person's life is very long, and it is really uncomfortable to be with someone you don't love for a lifetime, and it is difficult to guarantee that there will be no dislike for him in the process! And it's better to be with someone you like.

    And I'm not a materialistic person, I pay more attention to spiritual beauty, and I don't like to care about what others think. It's good to live an ordinary life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In cliché parlance, money can be earned again, but there are not many opportunities to meet the right person. If you choose a house, then the person you love will leave you, and you don't know if you will meet someone like him who you love so much. So this choice is really risky, and if you choose the wrong one, it will put you in a particularly painful situation.

    The house is not needed for the time being, but the strength of two people is greater than the strength of one person, the house is gone, we can work hard together to make money, earn the money of the house again, and we will buy a bigger house. After all, people are emotional animals, and they are much more important than that cold house.

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