What is the attitude of a blind date woman who is willing to contact but does not take the initiativ

1. The utilitarian nature of the blind date is very clear and strong.

2. The blind date is a stranger and has no emotional basis. The man's economic base plays a decisive role.

3. The two parties on the blind date are basically unsuccessful in free love.

4. Both parties on a blind date are generally older and have certain social experience.

5. Blind date women are basically very materialistic, and they pay great attention to the man's conditions (appearance, economic income). Some men with good conditions can find a beautiful woman in their 20s in their forties and fifties. Most blind date women are so-called insecure, that is, the level of the man's economic conditions.

If the man's conditions are very good for the blind date woman, he will soon fall in love and marry the man. Otherwise, the talks will be long and nothing will come of it in the end.

6. The society is very realistic, blind date love marriage is more realistic, and the man's economic income is the pillar of the whole family. The blind date woman's economic needs are tactful or direct, they will be revealed, and their gentleness and thoughtfulness need to be paid by the man's economy.

7. If the concept and values of the blind date are appropriate, they will talk, otherwise they will refuse euphemistically, and both parties should not waste money and time.

9. On the first side of the blind date, at most a cup of tea, don't spend too much. After all, the blind date is a stranger, if you are satisfied, you can talk, if you don't like to find a reason to leave, even a cup of tea money will be saved.

10. No matter what the result of the blind date, it is best to report to the introducer, and there are some things that the introducer can say better.

11, if the blind date is successful, it is the best, everyone is happy. Even if the blind date is unsuccessful, be natural and generous. The blind date is a stranger, and both parties have not invested too much, and it is okay to be a stranger if they don't succeed.

Sometimes he knows that if he doesn't take the initiative and is not responsible, he probably doesn't have much interest in him, and raises him as a spare tire, but he forcibly comforts himself, "She is reserved" and "She must be interested in me, otherwise how could she agree to go out with me, she also accepted the gift I gave".

If it is reserved, it is impossible for two people who know each other for the purpose of blind date, and they can't hold hands for so long together; If you are reserved, she naturally understands that being too reserved is easy for people to mistake and lose you, so she must also know how to grasp the strength and give you appropriate feedback, such as making a little food, taking the initiative to buy no popcorn when watching a movie, and preparing a little care for you....

Moreover, blind dates are not as passive as falling in love, if you do so much and can't get much in return from her, you can pass by her and don't have to waste time.

You can ask her directly how she feels about you, if she cares about you, but she is embarrassed to take the initiative, or she doesn't know how to take the initiative, then you need to take the initiative to contact, make an appointment to eat, play, etc., most girls are more passive and don't like to take the initiative very much.

Most girls are shy and introverted, and they generally don't take the initiative in emotional matters, especially if both parties on a blind date have no emotional foundation, that is, strangers You can take the initiative first, and then drive her to take the initiative, and slowly it's fine.

Since you don't take the initiative on a blind date, then you take the initiative to contact him and take the initiative to go on a date, if he rejects your explanation that there is no drama between the two of you, but if he agrees, it must be due to his personality.

Isn't it normal for me to not take the initiative at this point? Whether a girl believes that a girl is your girlfriend or not, he may not take the initiative, the girl's personality itself is very passive, so if you don't take the initiative as a boy, then you will take the initiative.

If you have a crush on her, then you should take the initiative, after all, most girls are reserved.

If it's not because girls are introverts, then it's possible that they're not interested in you!

Girls are more shy, and it's better to take the initiative yourself.

In the process of blind date, although I have good expectations and hope to be recognized by the other party, sometimes the other party is not very satisfied with myself, and he will show himself in some actions. ......Specifically, if the girl feels bored with the boy during the blind date, she will show three situations in the specific behavior: leaving early for an excuse, being absent-minded during communication, and lacking a smile during the blind date.

1. Leaving early under the pretext is a concrete embodiment of the girl's interest in the boy.

During the blind date, if the girl is very satisfied with the boy, she will be very willing to be with the boy and communicate well with each other. ......But if a girl feels that she is not interesting to a boy, she will not want to be with the boy and will leave early under the pretext of excuses. At this time, the boy should understand that the girl is not interesting to him.

2. When girls feel bored with boys, they will be absent-minded when communicating.

If a girl meets a boy she likes on a blind date, she will be very willing to communicate with him and talk about each other constantly. ......And when a girl is not interested in a boy, she will behave absent-mindedly in the process of communicating with him, neither taking the initiative to bring up the topic, nor actively responding to the boy's topic.

3. The lack of a smile during the blind date proves that girls are not interesting to boys.

The smile on your face is crucial in the process of communication between people. ......For a girl on a blind date, if she is satisfied with the boy, she will keep smiling throughout the blind date process and make the boy feel very comfortable. ......But if a girl feels bored with a boy, she will lack a smile on her face and be very cold to the boy.

When this happens, the man should understand that the girl on the other side is not interesting to him, and this blind date should be over.