As a girl, how can you be open minded?

1. Learn to look at the same problem from another perspective, learn to put a problem behind you and rethink it after a while.

2. Know how not to consider problems because of the close relationship between the decision-maker and you (not because of people or because of things).

3. Learn to see the correlation between each problem and other things.

4. Don't be too idealistic or materialistic, such as not doing your own evil, not doing what you are good for.

5. Increase your horizons, do not focus on your own interests, and at least know how to observe some things that you have not paid attention to in the past. Either associate it with something you're interested in, or temporarily shift your interest to something.

6. Increase the amount of reading information and broaden your knowledge. Try to start a journal and write down how you feel each day, and the next day will be much more comfortable.

7. Learn to reflect on the aftermath of the event, rather than letting the memories go back to the back of your mind and never thinking about them again.

For example, one of the most common types of brown or black rats is the presence of which most people would resent to exist. But it puts aside the waste of food, and at the same time can effectively suppress the number of insects around (such as cockroaches). Then the first time you see this rat is not to kill it without thinking, but because of the environment you are in to consider whether to eliminate or control it, then you have learned a certain degree of openness.

And if there are more cockroaches than rats around you, then if it were me, it might be a few days to delay the extermination. You know, rats prefer high-protein insects as food to food, clothing, and paper.

Of course, most of the time we still go to buy cats or mouse traps

This problem has little to do with men and women, and there are many narrow-minded people in men.

If you can ask this question, it shows that you have slowly matured.

Of course, it takes a lot of practice and experience to expand the mind. When a person endures too much. The world is getting wider and wider. Naturally, I will be more open to the small things around me. Open-mindedness is actually a sign of maturity.

For now, the easiest thing is to think more empathetically. In people's interactions, conflicts are often caused by small things.

Put yourself in someone else's shoes. I slowly understood.

Than an example. I used to be in the fifth grade of elementary school. Someday.

The class bell rang. A few of my classmates haven't returned to the classroom yet. One of the students tied the front door of the classroom through the inside.

At this time, the students who were about to go back to the classroom pushed the door and found that the door could not be opened. Classes are coming soon. The teacher is coming soon.

He was in a hurry. Kicked the door open. Of course, everyone sat in their seats and waited for the teacher to start the class before the teacher came.

But when the teacher came, the door was broken.

Of course, these are all manifestations of when everyone was still young, ignorant, and immature.

But in real life, when we are jealous of some trivial things that are not worth mentioning, think about it in reverse, how can it not be a manifestation of immaturity.

If everyone could put themselves in other people's shoes, there would be no embarrassing situation for everyone.

The above short story what do you think the teacher will do and what to do. Is it to deal with the students who are holding the door, or to deal with the students who are tied to the door?

Of course, the result was that the teacher punished both students severely.

Open-mindedness is a state that can only be achieved through one's own continuous efforts after experiencing many things. Don't you see a lot of adults around you who can't look at it? Sometimes they get angry or depressed about small things, and even some things you don't care about, but they don't give in, right?

I think if you encounter some problems in your life or study, and you don't mind it, so you are very confused and depressed, you should not be anxious to feel that you are too cautious, and do not be frustrated because others say that you are too stingy. Remember that everyone has their faults, and everyone has strengths. Come on!

Don't know why you're asking anonymously.

Dear, it's important to have a good attitude.

Don't worry too much about the gains and losses in life, and be patient with everything.

Get up in the morning and take a deep breath, look at yourself in the mirror, the corners of your lips go up, and smirk a few times.

I like every friend around me with my heart.

Hope for the answer.

Don't take everything too seriously, don't worry about small things, and be calm and calm about big things.

If you have seen a forest, you will not be amazed at a tree; If you have been to the sea, you will not sigh towards a river. That's it.

1. What does it have to do with the trouble you encounter in your studies and the hard work of others?

2. Are you jealous when you see your classmates working hard with grades that are lagging behind you? Is it an abomination? Or are you afraid?

3. If it is jealousy, it is because people feel that time is urgent, and the time has come to take a look; If it's hate, it means that you have a psychological problem, no matter how hard people work they are, it has nothing to do with you, and the quality of other people's grades is also impossible to be affected by you, the key is still yourself; If you are afraid, then you should work hard from now on to get into a good school and worry less about your parents.

4. Down-to-earth, start from me, listen to light ** when you have nothing to do, go out for a walk or chat with classmates and friends, don't give yourself any baggage, don't think about this and that every day, only adjust your mentality, work hard, and in the end there will be corresponding returns.

If you keep a good mood often, slowly, you will definitely become an open-minded, open-minded person, and a popular and noble person.

But here's what you need to do:

1. Don't get angry when you are wronged.

2. Don't care about a little thing.

3. Don't be sad when you encounter setbacks.

4. Don't be jealous of others' strengths.

5. Do what you like and forget "it".

6. Collect stories and quotes about an open mood often.

Here's wishing you a heart wider than the sky, happy and happy every day!

Why do you feel so unhappy when others are struggling to write?

Do you feel unhappy that someone else might do better than you through hard work?

That's a bit too much.

Although it is important to prepare for the exam, there is still a certain element of luck.

So you'd better calm down, there's nothing you can't think about.

Eventually tortured himself to the point of exhaustion.

Wanting to do everything is like holding on to the clouds overhead, which is an unrealistic expectation and no one can do it.

It is very simple to resolutely stop your troubles, completely change your fate, and achieve true happiness!

Starting today, let go of all your worries and focus on helping all kinds of lives within your ability, even for the smallest things.

Accumulate a lot, gather sand into a tower!

The future will be blessed with incredible and immeasurable blessings!

At the same time, we will increase our great wisdom rapidly, and gradually, we will transcend "what we see", and we will no longer be tormented by worldly suffering, coveting all kinds of so-called beauty and rejecting all kinds of so-called suffering, everything is actually natural.

In this way, you can break the puzzle, and at the moment, you can experience the unprecedented, incomparably cool happiness.

Your problem is not that you can't be open-minded, little pot friend

I don't know exactly what trouble you're in. I was in this situation when I was in the middle of the pack, and I was more than good at the top. But several of the worse grades than me caught up with me, and I was nervous.

It mainly depends on the mentality. For example, it is easy to say that it is easy to calm down, but in fact, it is very difficult to really do it. In fact, the so-called high school entrance examination is just too terrifying, just an exam, the content is nothing more than what you have learned, but your usual grades determine your position in the class, but the high school entrance examination determines your future position.

With a little attention, a calm mind, do what you should do, how to review and how to study, and put the time many times, there will definitely be no problem.

Hey, classmates, you should focus on yourself, complete your daily study tasks (set by the teacher), and review tasks (preferably set your own goals).

If I see someone with poor grades studying, then tell myself, "I also learn, and I learn better than you, more than you, and more serious than you, then I can maintain an advantage, and if I see a person with good grades in school, take them as an example, and one day I can surpass him!" ”

Remember the saying, "God rewards hard work".

I used to be able to review an entire book a day. It's also a joy to be a "top student"!

Don't waste a minute or a second on irrelevant people.

Every day when I get up early and before going to bed, I shout to myself, "I want to go to xx key high school!" "This psychological suggestion will give you a lot of strength, don't underestimate it.

Now the students of the high school entrance examination used to be zoned when they were promoted to junior high school. The high school entrance examination is the first real entrance exam, and it is normal for you to be stressed.

In fact, the high school entrance examination does not change much in life. In addition to going to a technical school, whether or not you can go to college after high school is between the two. What major you study in college will basically determine what kind of work you will do in the future.

Many things from junior high school to high school are useless, and those that are useful will be relearned from another perspective. For example, Newton's laws, junior high school, high school will also learn. If you don't learn well in junior high school, it's certain that you will struggle in high school, but you can still make up for it.

It is true that studying is a lot of time, but everyone is working hard, but there are still differences in grades. First of all, you should find the reason from the time, do you go to bed before 12 o'clock, do you get up after 6 o'clock, if there is, you don't study hard enough. If not, then you don't have to care about other people's hard work, you have to sleep no matter how hard you try.

Then I listened carefully in class, what I had to do, and don't do anything that has nothing to do with my studies when I'm about to take the high school entrance exam.

As for the learning effect, this is actually different from person to person, and it is impossible to force it.

There is no solution, follow the step-by-step process, put your mind into learning, and live a little more enrichment, so that you will not suffer from gains and losses.

You should have a position for yourself, what kind of high school you want to go to, how far from your goal, how much time and energy you should spend to achieve your goal, you should focus on your things, only ask about the hard work, not the harvest.

For example, they can only get 50 points, and if you work hard, you can get 60 points, and you can pass the test, and if you work hard, you can get 70 or 80 points, and they won't pose a threat to you.

You don't have to focus on people who are worse than you, they don't threaten you, you have to focus on people who are doing well, they're your competitors, and competing with them makes you stronger.

Life is full of troubles in the world, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

"People are not happy because of me, but I grieve for others"

That's normal psychology. , because my grades are not very good! Seeing others working so hard, you will feel afraid that others will catch up with you!

You can limit yourself to a certain amount of time every day to study, and when you're done, you can do other things you like!

And in fact, the people you see working hard are the same as you when you don't see them!