Wonderful and terrible little practice

Since I read the article "Wonderful and Awful", I have been very inspired and have a lot of thoughts, and the article has given me a deep impression, and a feeling that resonates with the author is born.

Two different ways, but both for the same purpose, that is, to want their children to thrive. There are two different ways of love, one is the power of father's love: warnings, reminders, are stern, and do not let children go astray; The other is the power of maternal love:

Praise and encouragement are gentle and make children feel more confident. These two forces are intertwined and guide the child's growth correctly. The power of father's love allows children to persevere in the face of difficulties and dare to face up to their own shortcomings, and the power of mother's love gives children self-confidence, which is a source of inspiration and a sense of achievement.

A child is like a seedling, and mother's love is the sun, sprinkling her own light on the seedlings and making the seedlings break out; Father's love is like a drizzle, sprinkle the dripping raindrops on the seedlings, let it absorb the rain and dew, so that the seedlings can grow strongly, and after the seedlings absorb the essence of the sun and the moon, they will grow into a towering tree. Of course, under the blowing of the two winds of father's love and mother's love, children can only carefully grasp the boat of life, and only by not being blown down by any wind, can they reach the end smoothly and become a world-famous person.

My parents are the same, my mother is very considerate of me, does everything I want, helps me buy good food, helps me buy beautiful clothes, cares about me very much in life, as long as I cough, my mother will make a fuss in fear, for fear that I will get seriously ill. I also have a strict father, I grasp my studies very tightly, if I make a small mistake, my father will criticize me harshly, he ignores the fatigue of the day every day, every night to urge me to review my homework, my parents are also for a common purpose, that is, I hope I can grow up healthily, grow up to be a productive person, now my grades in the class are also okay, all thanks to my parents' careful care of me and the teacher's education, so I also want to be the same as the author, inspired by the love of my parentsStrive to row the boat of life in the sea of life bravely forward, become a brave boatman, and become a person who contributes to society.

Omit some of that yourself!

A promise of love. Each of us lives in two kinds of love, the first is the loving love of the mother, and the other is the strict love of the father, these are all love, but the way of love is different!

I remember when I was a child, every time I fell, my mother would pick me up, pat the dust on my body, and ask me if it hurt. And whenever this happens, my dad always asks me to get up on my own.

When I grew up, my mother still loved me so much, and my father was still so serious. Sometimes I was almost cold-blooded, I remember last week, I didn't wear good clothes at school and caused a cold and fever to 40 degrees, my mother quickly took me to the hospital to see a doctor, but I came back and was "K" by my father.

I once asked my mother, "Daddy doesn't care about me at all, did I pick it up?" My mother was very angry when she heard this, and asked me in turn

Do you know why dad fasts every time he celebrates his birthday? I knew about it, but I shook my head blankly. Mom went on to say:

When you were a child, you had a serious illness, when you were transferred from Yantian Hospital to Shenzhen People's Hospital, Shenzhen People's Hospital refused to take you in, and after Dad begged hard to agree**, because it happened to be Dad's birthday, Dad said at the time, he was not superstitious, but if you were cured of your illness this time, he would eat fast every year on his birthday. ”

When I heard this, I suddenly realized, my blood boiled, this is a promise of love, my father actually loves me, but the way of love is different.

The family of the author of the text, "Wonderful and Terrible," is very similar to mine. Something like this happens a lot in my life.

My father was very strict with his children, and in my memory, no matter how hard I tried to do something, he could always find fault with me in one way or another, and I never heard my father praise me. My mother, on the other hand, is a typical motherly figure, with her shining eyes, always finding the good and shining points for me, so every day I can hear my mother praise my words. This way, I will start the day with more confidence.

I remember when I was in the second grade, the first essay assigned by the teacher was "Beautiful Landscape". I wrote "Beautiful Xiangshan", and I described the red leaves, green pavilions, bluestone roads and sightseeing cable cars I saw when I visited Xiangshan, and described them in many praise words. Although the essay was short, it was the first essay I wrote.

After my mother read it, she praised me vigorously: "Oh, my little fan can write essays, how beautiful you describe Xiangshan!" Amazing, amazing, like an article written by a little writer!

The teacher graded me as "excellent".

I was in the same mood as the author of the article, looking forward to my father's praise and appreciation. I clearly remember the scene that day, my mother said to my father, "Look at it, my son's essay is really good, and he has won an excellent one!"

At that time, my father watched, and I waited for my father's praise with great excitement and anticipation. But my father said disappreciatively: "Writing so short is also called an essay?"

It's just a matter of sightseeing, just like keeping a running account. The teacher gave you a "excellent", because he was embarrassed to say that you, but just encouraged you to write well in the future, what are you proud of! Mom listened to Dad's words and immediately became angry.

quarreled with his father: "Is there a father like you?" Just know that pouring cold water on it, you can never see your child's progress!

My excitement and anticipation were exchanged for a sneer from my father. I was so sad that I didn't think my dad liked me at all.

Year after year, I grew up day by day in such a loving environment of "loving mother and strict father". Now that I think about it, if I only had my mother's appreciation, and without my father's strictness and pressure, I would not have improved so fast in all aspects. Now I think that my father loves me very much, but he loves me in a different way than my mother.

He is strict with me, because he wants me to turn his "strictness" into "motivation" and push me to keep improving.

There are many feelings in life.

Answer yourself, think about it, and come out.

In the text "Wonderful" and "Terrible", the author argues that there are two ways of expressing love—that is, maternal love and fatherly love. I also believe that there are two ways of expressing love.

I'm not the same as the author. The author has a kind mother, and I have a mother who is very strict with me; The author has a strict father, but I have a father who always encourages me.

When I did well in the exam, my mother would say to me, "I did well this time, so I will continue next time." And my father would happily say to me, "I did well in this exam, tell my father what you want!" ”

When I didn't do well in the exam, my mother would say to me, "Look at these places, and the questions are quite simple, but they ...... wrong."Dad would say, "It's okay if you don't do well in the exam, you just have to work hard." ”

My strict mother and encouraging father gave me encouragement and admonition.

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Your adoption is what keeps me going.

o( o, remember to praise and adopt, help each other.

Big brother, please send the original request of the text as it is.

The intramural basketball game is really exciting and memorable; But when I returned to the classroom, I was in a terrible mood with a single-digit report card.

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