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Before you broke up, you felt that you could still be friends after breaking up, and when you really broke up, it was really difficult to be friends again, first of all, you have loved each other, and there must have been times when you hurt each other, so isn't there a saying on the Internet? After breaking up, you can't be friends, because you have hurt each other, you can't be enemies, because you have loved each other deeply, so you can only be "the most familiar stranger"...
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No matter how good things are, they will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, there will be a day when it is forgotten. No matter how much you love, there will be a day when you will go away.
No matter how beautiful the dream is, there will be a day when you wake up. What should be given up will not be retained. Never let go of what should be cherished, and you can't be friends after breaking up, because you have hurt each other!
and not to be enemies, because they loved each other dearly.
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It takes courage to accept a breakup, and having the courage to accept the fact cannot be delayed!
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It doesn't have to be, it depends on both of you in the end. Now I just can't do it with her friends, strangers, and I think it mainly depends on what the reason for the breakup.
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OK, but unlikely to be very good friends
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Once a partner, will never be a friend now.
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I feel that after a breakup, it is difficult to be friends.
Maybe you can only be a stranger. It's the best.
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I find it difficult because I have a grudge.
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It depends on whether the two people really love?
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In fact, in my personal opinion, if you break up, then you must not be able to be friends again, because if you have been a couple, it is basically impossible to choose to be friends, and those who choose to be friends must be respectful to each other when they are in love. Therefore, when they break up, they can choose to be friends, and it can be said more bluntly that there is no love between them at all, so they can be friends, and it is impossible for two people who have really loved to be friends.
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Some people say that it is okay, even if they can't be lovers, at least they care about each other in the name of friends. Some people say no, lovers after a breakup have pain in their hearts, and there is no way to become friends at all. In fact, some people do become friends after a breakup, and some people really don't have the means to become friends.
Most of those who became friends chose to break up peacefully because they didn't love that much, and those who couldn't be friends mostly loved deeply and had no way to continue to be friends after the breakup. People who have loved deeply have a deep wound in their hearts. In love, quarrels, tears, breakups, in a relationship, the more attentive you are, the more poignant each picture is.
Even if they broke up later, whenever they recall the good things they used to be, their hearts still ache faintly. That pain made each other dare not and did not want to have anything to do with it.
Because every contact is like pouring salt on a wound, which will make the old wound unhealed and the new wound recur. They are afraid to connect, they are afraid to know each other's news. After a breakup, they often don't want to know how the other person is doing.
Because they are afraid that the other person is doing well, and they are afraid that the other person is not doing well. If you live well, you will be unbearable, and if you have a bad life, you will feel sour. So don't know at all, just want to be separated from each other, and everyone will be happy, and the end of the world will be from now on.
Everyone is well. You have to let go of someone before you can start over. No matter what happened in the past, everyone can't just live in the past.
If you have been thinking about the past and have been coiling around the people of the past, then you will not be able to go back to the past and will not be able to reach the future. You must always learn to say goodbye to the past, and you must always learn to say goodbye to the people of the past, so as to start a new life. Forgetting about the predecessor is the least respect for the incumbent.
The best life is never a memory, but a reality. You can only live well with your current one if you forget about your ex. Otherwise, there is an incumbent around him, and he is worried about others, and this kind of behavior is not a kind of disloyalty.
The world of love is too crowded to accommodate three people. What gives you happiness is never the past, it is the people around you at this moment. After a breakup, don't be friends.
After a breakup, there is no way to be friends at all. Be grateful for those who were, but also let go of those pasts, and then, cherish the people around you. The best, never the predecessor, is the current one.
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If it is a peaceful breakup, then it is definitely possible to continue to be friends, but as ordinary friends, it is also necessary to maintain a reasonable distance and distance.
It's very stiff when you break up, so don't be friends, just don't get along with each other.
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Yes, of course boyfriends and girlfriends after a breakup can become friends, because there are more friends, and the road is easy to walk! And the two of them have been together, and they know each other much better than others.
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Of course, you can be friends after breaking up, the most important thing is that two people must meet in life after breaking up, so if you become friends, it looks more natural and comfortable for two people to meet.
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This situation is mainly about dividing people. Some people break up when there are not too many problems and contradictions. After breaking up, you can still be friends, and you can be an ordinary friend. We will be able to keep in touch with you in the future.
But some couples will have a lot of problems that cannot be solved. So it's hard for them to be friends after they break up. And it will be very embarrassing. So according to your own situation.
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If you've broken up, it's best not to be friends. If you break up, you should completely forget about each other, so that you can let go of this relationship as soon as possible and start a new life. If you break up and continue to be friends, you can only make yourself think of this relationship and the past days when you were together, which will only make you torture each other and not start a new life.
Finally, I wish you all the best and a happy life every day.
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If two people break up peacefully and have not caused much impact on each other, and they will still help each other in life, then they can certainly be friends.
A breakup like that of a noisy and noisy breakup that ends up hurting the other person is not going to be friends.
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I can't be friends anymore, because two people who love each other, even if they break up, will have a good impression of each other, so if you are friends, it is also a harm to yourself.
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I can be a friend, but there is no need.
Who is so lacking in friends that they have to be friends with their ex?
I think that if two people can calmly let go of the past, they can be friends. However, even if you think it doesn't matter, it's likely that your respective current will care about your friend's relationship, and your family may feel embarrassed and awkward, so in order to avoid embarrassment, it's better not to be friends.
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Hello. You can still be friends after breaking up, after all, you were very happy when you were together, since you can't be a husband and wife, then be a good friend for life, bless each other, grow each other, I hope mine will help you!
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This depends on the personality of both parties and the situation they got along with at the time, some people do a good job as friends, but many people can't, especially after both parties have new friends, maybe the other party will mind.
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Under normal circumstances, I think that you can't be friends after breaking up, mainly two people have already been in love, and they compare and understand each other. If you keep in touch all the time, then it will also mean that it is not easy to start a new life, and even if you find a boyfriend and girlfriend in the future, but the boyfriend and girlfriend know that you have been in a relationship and have kept in touch, it will be very insecure.
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I don't think I can do it, since I broke up, I should go to a new life, and if I am still friends, there is no way to share many things from the perspective of friends.
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Dear, this depends on what you think, if you want to think about whether there is a chance to get back together in the future, then you can treat him as a friend. I don't have a good feeling for him anymore, so there's no need to be friends.
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I don't think two people can be friends after a breakup. Because if people who love each other very much, after breaking up for some force majeure reasons, they may still have thoughts about each other, they may hate each other because of love, and they may also leave some scars on their hearts, so in these cases, it is obvious that they cannot become real pure friends.
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After separation, some people can still be friends, because they broke up peacefully with each other, and there is no hatred at all, and they can still be connected after becoming ordinary friends, just need to keep a proper distance.
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I think it's necessary to divide the situation, if you have a very ugly quarrel when you break up, and both of you are unhappy, then you will definitely not be able to be friends, if the two of you broke up peacefully, and both of you felt that it was not appropriate to be a couple, then you can be friends, because you must know each other very well, so being friends is the best choice.
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Of course, you can be friends when you break up, and you can be very good friends, after all, it's better than once, you already know each other very well, and compared to those ordinary friends, you will have a more emotional foundation.
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It's impossible to be friends. If you break up, you will break up, and it will be a thing of the past, saying goodbye to the bittersweet and sour of the past. Then this experience doesn't want to try again.
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If you break up, you can still be friends, if the two are happy to communicate together, there are no obstacles, and you can become friends. It's always better to be friends than enemies.
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You can still be friends after a breakup, but you still can't keep in touch often, even if you are a friend, you can help him when you need it.
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Of course, you can be friends, because you have experienced each other in love and know each other, if you break up peacefully, you will not delay each other, and you can help each other after being friends, and support each other in life.
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I think if you break up, you still can't be friends, after all, two people have had intimate contact, and when they meet, there must be a gap in their hearts, so since they have broken up, they should give up decisively, and they shouldn't drag their feet anymore. Be friends.
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You can still be friends after a breakup, and if two people maintain a good attitude and see through everything, they can get along as friends. After all. Much better than the enemy.
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If you break up, you can still be friends, because you have already known each other as lovers before, since you can't be lovers, you can still be friends.
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If you break up, you can't be friends, because the relationship between two people has broken down and you can't be friends. So it's better not to be friends.
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I can't be friends after breaking up, because I hurt each other, I fell in love with a boy who was three years younger than me for half a year, and when I broke up, he went to the station to see me off, I didn't say goodbye to him, he stuffed my headphones and let me listen to the song it was listening to was "You are the love of my life" I threw away the headphones and got into the car without looking back, and he didn't contact me at all after that, I think he really hated me. How can you be friends.
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After a breakup, you can be friends, after all, although you have broken up, you still have a certain emotional foundation, and you can be some ordinary friends to help in ordinary things.
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Whether two people can become ordinary friends after breaking up is a very complicated issue, because everyone's situation and ideas are different. But in general, it is not easy to be an "ordinary friend".
In some cases, there are very good breakups with each other and each other is happy with each other's decisions. In this case, the two people may still have a close friendship and be able to get along the way they used to.
However, in other cases, maintaining a friendly relationship can be difficult. For example, if the past breakup was very painful and there are still negative emotions between each other, or the breakup was sudden, making each other feel confused and betrayed, etc. In such a situation, being a regular friend can easily cause pain, embarrassment, and conflict.
Therefore, whether or not you can be a regular friend depends on many factors, including your past situation, expectations for the relationship, and your own abilities. Moreover, even after the realization of this relationship, maintaining the friendly relationship during the burial period of the Long Hall requires continuous effort and communication.
Finally, don't feel frustrated or blame yourself if you and your ex can't be true friends. Everyone's situation and emotions are different, and we must respect each other's feelings and choices.
What are the family reasons? If your family is dissatisfied with him, then his temporary avoidance is understandable, after all, he is denied by your family, and he will have low self-esteem, and he needs time to think about whether he can give you happiness in the end. Use a way to make sure he can see it, text message or QQ, tell him your attitude, say that you love him, you don't want to marry him, you are willing to wait for him, and then give him a while, I think he will take the initiative to come to you when he understands it. >>>More