Does this make the person I love feel insecure?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes. I feel like you're in love! I admire that you can be so persistent.

    You can first give him some breath through the email, and just joke with him at the time, even if you are afraid of peeping, it's okay to make a joke! Let's see how he reacts, what do you say?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That depends on what is put in the first place:

    1.Put "love" first; Well, it doesn't matter what kind of person the other party is, even if it's a robber. I just love him. I'm going to go with him ......Even if it is to die together, I am willing to ......

    2.Put "profit" in the first place; The other party is the head of a unit, the director of the public security bureau, who is particularly safe, and can give the other party 100% security, but you have no money, you have no power, and the right is an empty shelf. I just won't go with you......

    3.Put "benefit" in the first place; I don't care if he has or not, I don't care if he has power and power, as long as he guarantees my safety and I am not wronged and threatened everywhere, I just follow him, no one can stop me, I am just a "cow" ......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    O man shrouded in aura

    Occasionally, I don't worry about whether he feels safe

    I'm even worried about whether you're feeling safe

    Let's chase an ordinary man

    The man shrouded in the halo is so insecure...

    As for the matter of the mobile phone number, it can be said that just find an excuse to fool the past, and generous men will not pursue these trivial matters

    On the contrary, you take the initiative to chase him, and you are not worried that you will not be able to catch him, but you are worried that there will be a lot of people chasing him in the future, what will you do then? ~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Generally speaking, girls chasing boys can be successful quickly, but it depends on what kind of boy he is, if he is not interested in girls, then there is no way.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If your relationship is deep and texting doesn't make him feel conflicted, you can send it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There's a song that says that.

    Love to say. Love to do.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the other person is a very insecure person, we should give them enough love and attention to make them feel our love for him, so that they will feel at ease and not feel insecure.

    Every insecure person is a very unconfident person, they are afraid of losing each other, but they dare not say their thoughts to each other, always behave particularly hesitantly, that feeling will be very uncomfortable, for such people, we should give them more care, give them more warmth, let them see our sincerity, so that they will not feel insecure, and they will feel more at ease, will not suffer from gains and losses, and will have more trust in us.

    If we meet an insecure person, first of all, we should give them some care, let them open their hearts, accept us, so that we can really go into their hearts, and we must also show enough sincerity to give each other more love, so that the other party can feel our love for him, so that they will feel that they have a dependence.

    In the process of getting along with each other, in addition to a sense of security is trust, only when these two things are done, the relationship between the two will become better and better, so when you get along, you must give each other more trust, give each other more confidence, and let the other party see the future of the two of you, so that he will feel more down-to-earth.

    I hope that everyone can become the happiest person, he is a very insecure person, we also have to give them some trust, give them more care, let him grow with us, so that we can have a particularly happy relationship, and insecure people are very kind people, as long as we give him some warmth, he will feel very happy, so when we are together, we must boldly say our love, let the other party know how much you love him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you meet someone who is extremely insecure, you should give this person enough security, and the two people should also communicate more and let the other party know what you think in your heart, so that he will have some sense of security and will not suffer from gains and losses.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In life, you should help each other more, and when the other party needs you, you should immediately reach the other person's side. The second is that when the other party encounters difficulties, you should guard the other party's side.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should give him enough security, and at the same time, you should let him know that you love him, and you should also show more in ordinary times.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you must give the other person enough security and take care of the other person's feelings.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If he always makes you feel insecure, first find the cause and then adjust the symptoms.

    Let's break it down:

    It is very likely that he is not the most suitable for you, and you have problems getting along, perhaps because you are not particularly harmonious in the process of getting along, and the last reason may be that you are not suitable for each other, you may have differences in three views, or some other problems that cause you to get along with each other.

    All three of these reasons may cause your boyfriend to not give you a sense of security.

    Workaround:

    Case 1:So in the face of this situation, you can promote a better relationship between the two parties in this relationship, and find a more harmonious way for both parties to get along, so that they can get along more harmoniously and make each other more secure.

    Scenario 2:But if it is really that you have problems getting along and will lead to estrangement, then it is very likely that you are not suitable for each other, and if you can't bear the torture of this insecurity, then you can only separate from this relationship to find someone more suitable for each other.

    In short: in a relationship, a relationship is the most important foundation, so when you encounter problems in getting along, your relationship is your last guarantee. But when you don't have feelings, then your relationship is very fragile and there is a good chance that you will be on the verge of failure in the face of challenges.

    Therefore, when you find that there are many problems when you get along with each other, then it is very likely that you are not suitable for each other, and you may have different views, or there are conflicts in the way you get along, which will lead to a lack of security.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A quick knife cuts through the mess, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello friend. Security is never something that others can give you, and the need to be loved and noticed too much will make your love exhausting. After all, the most important feeling of being together is:

    Comfortable. If the relationship is constantly draining each other's energy, it is better to end it in style.

    No matter how you try to feel safe from others, it's futile, and it's useless to over-please or threaten to break up.

    The only one who can save you is yourself. If you're feeling insecure in your relationship, try these methods:

    First of all, you must understand that your various anxieties in terms of feelings have nothing to do with the outside world, but with your own heart. Explore the source of your anxiety and think about what makes you insecure. Think about your demands in a relationship, whether it is vexatious, or the other party is too selfish and inconsiderate.

    Accept your emotions. Please accept yourself who is afraid of losing the other party because of insecurity, on some issues, you can communicate with the other party more, don't be unreasonable, you have to understand, everyone is very busy, except for Zhang Xinzhe, who can be your man 24 hours without sleeping, no one can be on call 24 hours a day to reply to your messages.

    Don't rush too close. Everyone's requirements and definitions of distance are different, maybe you feel warm to stick together all the time, but the other person may feel that there is no freedom. So no matter how close your relationship is, don't spend all your time with each other, they won't be moved to tears because of it, but will want to get out of the relationship the more they want to get out of it.

    How can a person who can't get along well with himself have a way to be with another person? Maintaining a separate space from each other is the key to a long-lasting relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe you experienced something when you were a child, or maybe your personality is like this, so you will be particularly insecure, you should change your mentality, you can do something you like to do or learn some skills, so that you can become more secure.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is very likely that it is because of my low self-esteem, so I still feel insecure many times.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because you haven't met the person you love, your heart is still empty.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Actually, as a normal person, we will have a lot of thoughts, which is very normal, but even so, when we love someone, we still need to know how to give up our thoughts and become brave, love may happen for no reason, but it will not let us have it casually, on the road of love, for our own happiness, we must take the initiative to make the road smoother and take the initiative to approach, so that you can have it as a person, everyone's first reaction is to want to be with each other, In order to achieve this goal, some people will take the initiative to pursue it and make it possible for each other, some people want to be close to each other, they often act without any expression, or even pretend not to like it at all, for fear of being discovered, trying to hide your heart, even if you want to get it again, later, it will be difficult to have a story with each other.

    Feelings, the pursuit of a person, that's only a small part, more importantly, but after two people are together, no matter how long we are together, everyone still has the right to make new choices, if you want to make the other person not want to leave, it is very important to let the other person feel love all the way, in order to achieve this goal, in this process, every day, you have to take the initiative to care for each other, often give them some affirmation, occasionally give them some sense of ritual, let them believe that you still love him, you want to continue to love him, when you are loved, Your heart is always filled with security. The person you love will not always worry about gains and losses, and will feel that it is very right to choose you, so that in the future, you will be willing to stick to it, and you will not have any other ideas, and take the initiative to plan for the future for a long time.

    If you really love someone, you will want to get married, so, for the sake of the person you love and the person you love, you must plan your future as early as possible, such as which city to choose, what kind of house to live in, integrate into each other's circle, life is half feelings, half reality. The people who love you, because they love you, even if they accompany you to suffer, they will not complain, but the premise must be that in your eyes, they can see your future, if you never talk about the future, have no plans for the future, and never even think about the future, even if you love again, the other party will still feel that you are not a good choice, because in that person's opinion, your love is not firm, you can't make it more stable in the future, no matter how hot the love is, it also needs a sheltered roof and a place to perch, The more you can take the initiative to talk, put everything into action, and let the other person see your efforts, the more likely your relationship will continue.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you love someone and want him to feel safe, then take the initiative to care for him, take care of him, and be the first to appear when he needs you. I think that person will feel safe with you.

    If you want a person to feel safe, it's actually very simple, take the initiative to care for him, and be the first to show up when he needs it. Then when the other person needs you, you will immediately respond to the other person, and if you don't want the other person, you will feel very safe.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    To love with a sense of security, you must have your own dreams and career.

    In the case of girls, careers will make women more attractive and confident.

    As a woman, you must have a clear goal and direction, and you must have your own career.

    Learn to run your own business well, when you have a successful career and are financially independent, this is the most down-to-earth sense of security!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    To love someone is to have him in your eyes, to have him in your heart, to think of him in everything, you have her in your future, you will consciously work hard to struggle, to be positive, all because you love her, so you have to give her a sense of security, you have to prove that you love her very much, you have to take action, not just words, because girls are very insecure, she not only needs to hear, she also needs to see.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    1.You must establish a clear value, you must be clear when someone asks you, you must learn to make your own decisions and actively solve some things when they appear, and don't follow the crowd without opinions, so everyone will feel that you are particularly insecure, so you must be confident.

    2. Don't be too emotional, you must be rational for the establishment of a sense of security is also a very critical thing, couples try not to break up at every turn, so that the other party will feel particularly unreliable, and is insecure, you must learn to manage emotions, you also provide a good sense of security to the other party will be more.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, love is a thing, if you are in love, the sense of security will be relatively lacking on both sides, because after you fall in love, there are more things that taste of it, and then sometimes people are easy to think cranky. Everyone may have a little bit of gains and losses, as long as you are attentive, you can't avoid it, but in fact, it doesn't matter, he is just a seasoning in your Anqing. You have to give yourself a sense of security.

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