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You shouldn't be saying it so absolutely.
It's okay to be separated from him for a while, to see if you will miss him in the future, in fact, there are many times when we find that we don't love anymore because we get bored with it for too long. And you also said that he is very good to you, it is because you give too little, that is why you feel this way! It's not easy to find someone who spoils you, so cherish it!
But if you find that you don't love him at all, make it clear to him and don't contact him again.
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The first thing to do is to clarify a problem
What are you with him for?
And what was the reason for leaving him?
Weighing the weight, I think you'll have an answer for yourself
Affection, even marriage, is not a shackle
Man has the freedom of man
Since he chose you, it means that it is possible to accept the fact that he can't be with you, and if he can't accept it, it's not your fault
Don't blame yourself
But I suggest you take the time to talk to him properly
It's better to talk
Let him know what you think
Let him know what exactly you can't accept from him
If he can change and become what you imagined him to be
You might still think about him, after all, it's been so long
But it really doesn't have to be together in order not to hurt him
If so, you chose him in the first place, I think you have hurt a lot of people, whether it is chasing you or chasing him, isn't it?
Since it's already hurt, I don't care if I hurt it again
Raise your head The days are still long
Supplement can not be lost, has now been lost
If you turn back, can you promise not to let him lose a second time?
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You have already hurt him badly when you proposed to break up, and the only way not to hurt him is to completely disappear from his world and never appear again. Time will heal a person's wounds, it just may take a long time, but it's better than torturing him!
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Then it's up to you! Would you rather hurt him or hurt you! (You hurt you and you hurt him in the end!) )
Love is a one-person affair, not a two-person affair!! (movie line).
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Choose the right time and place: Make sure you have enough personal space and time for this conversation. Avoid bringing up in public or when the other person is feeling down.
Stay calm and honest: Stay calm and sane in the spine of the conversation, articulating your thoughts and feelings before wildpotato. Be honest with the other person why you feel the relationship can't continue.
Listen to the other person's feelings: Give the other person a chance to express their feelings and listen to their thoughts and feelings. Respect their point of view, but also stick to your own decisions.
Avoid accusations and negative evaluations: Try to avoid blaming the other person in conversations, and don't make negative comments about their qualities or behavior. Focus on the issues in your relationship instead of blaming the individual.
Be respectful and sympathetic: During the breakup process, maintain respect and compassion for the other person. Try to use a gentle tone and phrasing to let the other person know that you still care about them but think breaking up is the best option.
Avoid dragging your feet: Express your decision clearly and avoid giving the other person an ambiguous impression. This helps to reduce the pain of the other person and makes it easier for them to accept reality.
Give each other some time and space: After a breakup, give each other some time and space to adjust to their new lives. Respect the other person's privacy and don't contact them too often.
Keep in mind that a breakup is a complex process, and everyone feels and reacts differently. Despite your best efforts to avoid hurting the other person, a breakup can still take a toll on them. The key is to try to approach the process in a respectful, honest, and compassionate manner.
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The way men and women love is also different, girls want romantic love, and boys often give plain love.
But he may not give you roses and flowers, but he will make you breakfast every day; He may not be sweet-talking, but he will take care of you when you are sick; He may not bow his head to you first every time to apologize, but in fact, he has also thought about how to bow to you ten thousand times.
Sometimes, just because he doesn't meet your expectations doesn't mean he really doesn't love you.
2.You're so insecure.
I believe that every relationship starts because of love, and because of love, it brings two strange men and women together to build the most intimate relationship in the world.
But if a girl is insecure, it will be easy to suffer from gains and losses in the relationship.
At the beginning, I wanted my boyfriend to say "I love you" to myself 10,000 times a day, I wanted to know my boyfriend's whereabouts all the time, and I hated to be connected with my boyfriend like a conjoined baby, which was quite normal, and my boyfriend would regard it as a sweet bondage.
But after a long time, most people will not be able to stand it, feel suffocated, and have no room for themselves.
So, when he was drinking with his buddies, in order not to make you think too much, he would tell you that he was working overtime, and you unfortunately knew that he was actually drinking, you would be very hurt and feel cheated, and the deceived was that he didn't love me enough, so he lied to me.
But it's not that he doesn't love you, it's just that he also needs personal space.
Why does home hurt people", it is said that the main meaning of love is not to let us find a partner who can stick for a lifetime, but to let us understand that we are an independent person, and a partner is a person who is as independent and important as us. Moreover, these two independent people can get along very closely.
Therefore, the best love is to be independent of each other and dependent on each other, rather than tightly entangled with each other like a silk flower and rely on each other to survive.
3.Love is not once and for all.
Some people have studied that the life span of love is only 18 months, and it will return to ordinary after 18 months, some people get married while love has not disappeared, and some people choose to separate in a place of chicken feathers, but there are also people who live a plain and trivial life into a poem.
When I used to watch celebrity interviews, I often saw the host asking, how do you keep your relationship fresh. At that time, I didn't understand why the host was particularly keen to ask this question, and how could feelings still need to be kept fresh, you like me, I like you, that's good.
Now I understand that love is never once and for all, and it is not a strong and deep love that bursts out at this moment, such love will continue forever.
Rather, love, if not managed, will be consumed little by little until it disappears.
Therefore, at the beginning, you swore a love alliance, and after it was dull, you didn't manage it carefully, and you didn't make the ordinary days interesting, but the tasteless eclipse day after day, then, you may slowly feel that he doesn't love you enough.
4.Don't think about it, he just doesn't love you enough.
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You already love him very much, it's not that you don't love him enough, your boyfriend broke up with you, you can only say that he really has a problem with his brain. Judging from your description, he should still have feelings for you, but he doesn't love you enough, how to say that he is a person, there is really no way to say, this kind of person I suggest you let go.
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It shows that his love for you is not so deep, and he will not care too much about your feelings, when I meet such a boy, I think it is fortunate to break up with him, because you will not be happy with him, it is best to stay away from him, so that you can not be hurt.
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It's because he doesn't love you enough and likes you that he will break up with you. But he knows that you love him very much and treat him very well, even if you break up, he still has a guilty feeling for you, and he pays attention to you and wants to know if you are doing well after breaking up.
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Your boyfriend abandoned you or your boyfriend broke up with you, it's because your boyfriend doesn't like you now, or the relationship between the two of you is not particularly good, so they will break up directly.
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It's not because you don't love you enough by your boyfriend, you have given enough love in this relationship, but your boyfriend doesn't love you that much, and the reason why he chooses to break up with you is because he is in love with another girl.
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Sometimes it's not because I don't love you anymore, I break up, the boy says I still love you, but I don't like you to separate, because two people always don't feel it when they're together, they can't like it, they may love you very much in their hearts, but they just don't want to be together.
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Since he said he didn't like you from the beginning, why did you still fall in love with him? The relationship was unequal from the start. You've always been on the underdog.
And for him, he will be happy if you treat him well, and he can get rid of you at any time if you treat him badly. You are so humble! And he doesn't really love you, it's just the feeling of being in love, and he doesn't want to go on with you at all!
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Being broken up is often, not because of not loving enough, but because not cherishing enough, often many people don't cherish it when they have it, and cherish it but regret it after separation, but it's too late.
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Yes, when your boyfriend mentions breaking up, he doesn't love you so much, in fact, this is also a good thing, the fate of the two of you is over, you should accept it calmly, and you will meet better ones in the future.
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I think there are many reasons for two people to break up, it may be that two people have different ideas about life that are not suitable, or you put too much pressure on each other and the other person can't bear it, which is all possible.
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In fact, the root cause of all separation is not enough love. Someone who doesn't love you anymore. Anything can be a reason to break up.
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It means that you haven't let go of it at that time and started a new relationship.
Now you need to know one thing, and that is, you don't have to be afraid to break up. No one will dislike you! You don't have to grieve yourself for this reason. In the future, someone will still like you, men are not all so superficial.
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Because since you choose to be together, you must love each other, and you can't erase your feelings with a breakup, so you want him to explain that you show that you have given him your feelings.