What it s like to work in a small city back home

There is a difference between returning to your hometown from a first-tier city to develop, a family with a background may develop better, if you return to your hometown to start from scratch, your life may not be much better, the income of second- and third-tier cities is incomparable with first-tier cities, and the smaller the city, the more serious the so-called relationship network, a very small thing will encounter a difficult situation, I think if you are good in the first-tier city development, don't go back to your hometown to develop! After all, there are more opportunities for development in first-tier cities! ‍‍

I am very depressed, I feel that my soul is not in my body, I don't know that I have traveled to **, and I often sigh that my soul is locked. Looking at the outside, it is good everywhere, but there is a feeling that the beautiful scenery is imaginary, and there is also a feeling that there are no rivers and lakes without you.

There are only tens of thousands of days in this life. I can spend a few days with my parents. Learning some skills outside and coming back is no worse than being in the field. As long as you are willing to endure hardships, you can succeed anywhere.

Chengdu Mansion is a hard-working person and an entrepreneur. Chengdu is the first choice, and the resources, talents, consumption, housing prices, and prices are well balanced. Chengdu Prefecture, the new first-tier city overlord. It is the city of choice. The world's strong second-tier cities have a bright future.

I just came back from Beijing, and the local wages were unacceptable, and they shrank sharply. Adapting to the state of mediation as soon as possible.

It's true that my mental state is not as energetic and aggressive as in the big city. At that time, there is a goal every time, set yourself a business goal, or set yourself a monthly and quarterly goal. Every time a small goal is achieved, I am very happy.

But that's no longer the case. My life is laid-back. I had a very casual life.

The life of 8 to 6 in the morning has been maintained. It's calm, I don't need to do anything change. You don't need to learn a lot.

in order to keep up with everyone's pace. Sometimes I miss me in the big city. Maybe I prefer me with a fighting spirit.

Life is all the same, it's not the same how you live. You think that big cities have more resources, more opportunities, fairer, more free and open, but if you don't make good use of them and don't work hard at all, then it's useless to stay in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou for the rest of your life.

I feel that it is better to take 18,000 from a first-tier city than to take 35,000 from my hometown, there is not so much pressure on life and work, I can absorb the air without pollution, my life has become regular, and I am no longer afraid of traveling! ‍‍

Life in a small city is too comfortable and boring, and most of the time you have relaxed your own standards. Life can be struggled to**, and you can enjoy it, the key depends on how you choose.

I just came back from Beijing and felt very relaxed in the month, the company of my family was very warm, the air in my hometown was very relaxed, the pace of work suddenly slowed down, I felt uncomfortable for a while, and then I had half a year of hesitation, after all, there was less competition, and my income had dropped a lot, and now I figured it out, after all, family together is the most important thing, family affection and old friends, the taste of hometown is really good!

The pace of life is slow, life will be more comfortable, there is a little spare time every day, during this time most people will choose to hang out with friends, or have a beautiful meal in the snack street, and there will be more contacts between people. Consumption is also relatively low. The happiness index is higher.

Good environment and high air quality.

I don't have to be so tight anymore. Because the cost of living in a small city is low, the cost is low, and I don't have to pay rent, life is really enjoyable. And I feel like I'm suddenly becoming less struggling.

It's just that I don't have the kind of courage to struggle. Every day is very nourishing, I go to work every day, I go home after work, and I can even eat lunch at home. If you want to eat dinner at home, you eat it at home, and if you don't want to eat at home, you go out with friends.

Although the salary may not be comparable to the salary in the big city. But due to the low cost of living, being able to save some money and buy yourself one or two skincare products that you want. You can also buy a set or two of clothes.

And if I were in a big city, I wouldn't have thought about it at all. Because at that time, most of the money was paid for rent, water and electricity, and it was spent on eating, and the food was not good. But at home, you don't have to worry about it at all.

Parents will cook the meals. Even if the parents don't do it, even if they go out to eat, the cost is much lower.

Small cities are close to parents, there is little pressure to survive, stable work, life is not turbulent, and there are few entertainment activities, which can easily make people lose their fighting spirit. ‍‍

I think we have to analyze this problem according to the age group, if it is just when he comes out of society, he will really feel very fresh, everything outside is so free, after all, we have been closed at home for so many years, and we go to school all day long, so to be honest, we are for the outside world.

You can be very curious, even if you grew up in a big city, you may be curious about the outside world.

Well, in this situation, the first time you leave your hometown to live outside, there is more excitement because you have never lived alone, so you enjoy this feeling, and you also want to know if you can live well. Whether it's work or the people you meet, you will be very surprised, because it is a new experience for you, and it is very different. I was like that when I first came out of society, I felt very new to everything.

But now that I have been wandering outside for many years, I think that it is very bad for a person to work hard outside, and it will make people feel very lonely and lonely, because sometimes whether they are happy or lonely, they can't find anyone to talk to. There may be some friends and colleagues around you, but after all, they are not sincere, and those friends who have met in the workplace can't go far. So there is no way to tell them what is in my heart, and that feeling is very lonely.

After a long time, there will be a sense of wandering, a sense of instability, or want to return to our hometown, back to familiar people, that will be our destination. Some people feel that staying in a big city is a very happy thing, because the conditions are very good in all aspects. But the real kind of person who has been wandering outside for a long time, on the contrary, will miss his little hometown, although my hometown is very broken, maybe he has nothing developed, but he is really the most haunting place in my life.

A question sent a long time ago, and there are still very few replies now. At the time of this question, I was really planning to work alone in an unfamiliar place. And now, I have adapted to the new working environment for more than a month.

I found that life is not as difficult as I imagined, so I can relax and feel a little warmer, and I can feel at ease in another country. The original working environment is still similar to university life. The four of us lived in a two-bedroom, two-living room house, accommodation arranged by the company.

So we got off work as if we were in college, and we started the following classes. Those who should play games play games, those who should play ball play together, and those who should go out to play.

Of course, it is done on the premise that the work is done conscientiously.

I used to think that this kind of life was very good, I was quite satisfied with my work, and I was quite happy with my life. The surrounding people and things, the environment and the atmosphere, are good. During that time, I felt that it was the gift of life.

I often hear my old classmates complain about the unsatisfactory work, and I feel more and more fortunate and cherished when I am like this. If I hadn't left my old company in an accident, I wouldn't have reflected on how ignorant and unmotivated I was at that time. I won't say the reason for leaving, anyway, when I left, many people didn't understand or support it, I left a sentence to keep my grandfather, and then slandered the life and death of the country, or left by chance.

It must be very hard and tiring to leave home alone, this experience can be said to be very poignant, and a person working outside is full of sadness, and sometimes there will be a lot of difficulties.

Looking for a job alone, renting a house alone, eating alone, shopping alone, staying at home alone, and living alone in a daze is lonely, and life must be very bitter. I learned to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and I learned to do anything. We all have to grow up, we all have to grow, and we all have to face it alone.

The process of a person leaving his hometown to seek survival in a foreign country is very difficult, and he must have extraordinary perseverance and clear goals to be able to persevere.

Whether young people should choose to work in a big city or choose to return to their hometown to work in a small city depends on everyone, at least in my opinion, this thing does not exist and how to choose, it depends on whether you want to live a more comfortable life or choose to live a tiring life, this is everyone's own decision. <>

Big cities are better than big cities, but small places are also better than small places. If you don't say **, it must be so good that there is no shortcoming. For those whose home is not in the big city, the choice to struggle in the big city is likely to be alone outside, if their work is very busy and hard, it is really physically and mentally exhausted every day, and when they return home, they are still alone, and the home is likely to be rented, the pressure on all aspects will be greater, but there are many opportunities in the big city, maybe you can realize your dreams, and all aspects of material life are better than small places; Small cities will certainly not be as prosperous as big cities, and many things will not be available, but relatively speaking, the pressure will be much less, and the wages will be relatively not so high, but the price level will be low.

So it's good in its own way. <>

It's really lonely to work alone in a big city, there are no relatives and no friends around, it is difficult to have friends in the workplace, and you don't feel anything when you're happy, but once you encounter some difficulties, you will be very sad, and you will feel very sad. But if you work in your hometown, basically this kind of problem will not occur, and there are more or less one or two friends around you, plus your parents are around, so you don't feel very lonely. If your heart is strong enough, you can try to work hard outside, after all, the outside world is very exciting.

Of course, everyone's life ideals are different, some people will have lofty ideals and ambitions, but some people may want to live that kind of ordinary life, so how to choose in the end is based on their own decision, what life they want to live will decide to work in **.

The former should be chosen because the economic development of large cities is relatively fast, there are more employment opportunities, and there is more room for improvement, and you can gain a lot of work experience in the process of work.

You should work hard in a big city, because there are more opportunities to work in a big city, and you can learn a lot of things, which can make you grow faster.

Because the struggle in the big city is still young after all, we should continue to struggle and work hard at this time to give ourselves a good future.

Maintain the habit of learning and self-investment – the environment does not move, and people can walk on their own.

My cousin has been in a big city and knows very well that there is a lack of resources in a small city, but the environment is not moving, and people can go on their own. She often travels to Shanghai and Hong Kong at her own expense to attend various industry conferences and trainings. If you don't have resources, you go out and find them yourself; No one pays for you, so you arm yourself.

Read widely, insist on taking notes, integrate the content of the book with your own work, and apply what you have learned. This is very important. Most people just go through the motions of reading and close the book without remembering anything, let alone applying what they have learned.

I've also read a lot of books, not to mention the content, and I can't even remember the title.

Of course, when it comes to my sister, there is also a small thing about the college entrance examination.

My sister didn't go to high school, and when she was in a secondary school, she suddenly wanted to go to college, so she found someone to get a student status, went to a cram school for a year, and was admitted to a university majoring in art and design. As a person who hasn't been to high school for three years, in the year of tutoring, she has all kinds of books all over the house, and if she can't understand it, she memorizes it, and then her eyes fall into some small problems. The tuition fee for art majors is very expensive, in addition to the tuition paid by the aunt in the first year, the cousin in the back works by herself to earn living expenses and tuition, and the balance is given to the aunt every year.

With this little thing alone, I don't think my sister can go anywhere.

Any city, a company, and a boss will not refuse people who are diligent and hardworking, love to learn, and have high self-requirements.

When you go back to a small city and complain that life is boring and hopeless, most likely you have relaxed your standards.

Big cities are big, good companies are good, but you can only be your own if you participate in them and grow in them.

Small cities are small and not rich in resources, but the environment is not moving, and people can walk on their own.

Life, **can be very busy struggle, **can also be enjoyed comfortably.

When everyone else is eating, drinking, and having fun, you are the one who persists the longest and works hardest, and you must have a day to get ahead.

Excellence is a habit, persistence is a character.

Big cities and small cities, there must be differences, there must be gaps.

But the biggest gap is in one's own actions, but also in one's own heart.