My son has been in love with a college classmate for four years, and the woman wants a bride price o

My relationship with my boyfriend from high school to college. Now it's time to graduate and talk about marriage. Our family also told my boyfriend that it was a 100,000 bride price.

To be honest, if it weren't for falling in love, I don't think my family would have asked for a bride price as low as 100,000 yuan, and the bride price in that part of Anhui Province has been as high as more than 300,000 yuan. My parents also want me to get married, they don't want me to marry worse than the girls on our side. For this reason, I quarreled with my parents many times, just to be with my boyfriend, so that my parents could lower their requirements for my boyfriend, and sometimes my mother cried when she was angry.

Finally, the bride price talked about 100,000, and my boyfriend's parents also said the same as you, high, high. Isn't it selling your daughter? That's not all.,It's even more angry that my boyfriend thinks the same as his parents.,I won't fight for more with his parents at all.,Just for fear of making his parents angry.。。

The thought of being with him and making my parents angry like that.,And he thinks about his parents everywhere.,I feel guilty about my parents.,Later, my parents still persuaded me to leave my boyfriend.,I agreed.,The blind date they arranged for me.,I also went.。。 At this time, my boyfriend came to me and said that the 100,000 bride price was not high, so he expressed his thoughts to his parents. But my memory of him now is just the relationship of those six years, just that he is my first love.

When it comes to getting married now, I'm really hesitant, if it was before, I would desperately want to marry him. But now, I think that marriage can't just look at feelings, and if you have feelings, marriage may not be happy. I don't want to have only feelings, I want happiness.

The bride price is nothing more than compensation for the benefits brought by the woman's right to give up the surname and the right to the surname, of course, the surname right of 100,000 is also the woman's loss, the general man will be willing to give up his surname if he values his surname, of course, some men think that their surname is worthless, and they lose the bride price for the right to the surname, in this case, they can also choose to give up the surname, do not pay the bride price, the child can take the name directly without the surname, or choose one of the hundred family names, or the woman's family pays 100,000, and the right to the surname belongs to the woman.

I advise you to break up, don't get used to her, after talking for four years, the woman may be almost 28 years old, after the breakup, the woman will talk about the same bride price, if the man breaks up again, she will become a leftover woman, so, women have an inch of time and an inch of gold, cherish their youth, don't really make yourself a leftover woman, and wait for retirement, leave work, colleagues, and spirit have lost their sustenance, and sooner or later they will become orphans.

100,000 is normal, you must discuss with each other, ask each other to see what they have to marry, if it is 100,000 to bring back, or 100,000 is to buy electrical appliances, quilts and the like to bring back, even if you only buy 50,000, it is acceptable.

If you can't take it out, discuss it with the woman, as long as you really love each other, you won't have to ask for this money, the bride price is just a lottery, and it would be better if you could take it out.

100,000 isn't a lot. It's really not good, and it should be okay to negotiate seventy or eighty thousand. And now most of the woman's parents don't want the bride price, just for the two children to live in the future.

If you can't get 100,000 yuan at home, don't think about getting married yet. Let's fight hard!

You shouldn't dwell on how much the bride price is, but what the girl's family conditions are. If the family conditions are good, you give 100,000 dowry, and the girl's family marries 200,000, and the young couple will definitely have a good life. If the girl's family conditions are not good, not only will she not have a dowry, but the bride price of 100,000 yuan will also be given to her parents.

After getting married, I have to take care of my mother's family and fill the black hole of dissatisfaction.

Refuse. Give 50,000 yuan to buy wedding jewelry and clothes, as for what she uses this money, no matter what, what she gives her is hers, free disposal. A reward of 50,000 yuan for giving birth to a child is grateful for her dedication. It's also 100,000 in total, but the meaning is different.

Give her, 100,000 is to buy a few clothes for other girls, seek a face for recognition, and can't let the girls lose face.

How to say it, the number of 100,000 is still relatively common in Jiangxi. Like my roommate, the bride price over there is 188,000.

Generally speaking, the bride price given by the man, the woman's parents will basically return it to the woman, and the money is in the hands of the hand. The bride price is a guarantee to the woman. Nowadays, girls are basically able to earn money, and after marriage, women pay more than men in addition to the economy.

Uncle, your son is now in free love for four years in college, and I don't think it's too much for the woman to ask for this. You'll understand if you have a daughter.

100,000 yuan is not much, a normal family should have it, and don't blame the woman, it's your son who has no ability and can't earn it himself, so you just paid this money, and the girl who has been in love with your son for four years deserves not to give a bride price, so your family's character is not good.

It's simple, don't marry! Not marrying can solve all the bride price problems, even if she wants 10 million, it will not be on your family's head.

If you don't come out of 100,000, your son should not marry, be single. Although I am also a man, 100,000 yuan is not a sky-high asking price, and with your attitude, I feel that your family is not worthy of marrying this girl.

If I were the girl's father, I would give you 100,000 yuan. As for whether your family has a dowry, I don't care, as a man, I feel disgusted when I see your questions, what should I do if I have 100,000 yuan? If you go to the door and ask for 100,000 people, you will definitely agree.

Raising children, is it, the house, the bride price should not be considered as much as possible in advance, we have raised daughters in advance, and try to prepare some for the children in the future, but also to reduce the pressure on the in-laws, as long as the children are doing well, the others are floating clouds ......

Isn't there 100,000, what about the house, it's a million, 100,000 is not, the house is not, it's still single, it's not that you have to have money, it's just that a marriage without money won't be happy.

When the son is born, it should be thought that he will get married when he grows up, and he will need a house and a ticket (bride price) to get married! If you don't pay a bride price, let your son marry the woman, and the premise is that the woman wants him! If you give birth to a daughter, it is estimated that you will need more than 100,000!

Look for yourself! If you don't have money, don't marry her, and tell your son well! If you have money, give it. It's realistic.

It is normal for a woman to ask for a bride price, but the bride price is more or less particular, and the bride price can be appropriately given to the woman according to the man's economic situation.

didn't even get married to 100,000 women, and the woman didn't have a dowry.

I just want to ask, if there are no 100,000, do you want children? Milk powder, early education, in case the child wants to learn art, guitar, piano can afford to learn? I really wanted to learn piano when I was young, but I couldn't afford to buy a standard piano of 50,000, so I didn't learn it, and now my girlfriends who learn piano say that I have slender fingers, which are longer than my boyfriend who learns guitar.

There are also various cram schools after school, and 100,000 is just a fraction.

Break up, find a blind date, and give 200,000.

100,000 is not much in our place, I think as long as you don't usually do your job, you should still take it out.

To the woman, what her family wants is respect.

Give people away as cattle and horses for nothing? How much bride price do such people give you, and are you willing to marry your daughter? It's horrible.

100,000 is a small amount for us, and we are at least 180,000 now.

After four years of talking, you feel that people must be in your house? If you don't want to give a bride price, you feel that it must be your family? If you yourself have a daughter, you don't know how to feel when you see this.

100,000 is not much, and the bride price is now more than 200,000 or 300,000.

As parents of both parties, they should communicate with each other and help the young couple within the scope of their families, which is good for both families.

In fact, the bride price of 100,000 seems to be relatively normal, but it depends on whether there are other conditions and what the dowry is with the other party, or discuss it with the other party, whether it can be a little less. Since it is love, there is no need to push it so hard, you can also borrow it from relatives and friends.

Talk to the woman's parents. If you really want to marry your daughter-in-law, then I believe that the other party will also understand your difficulties.

Ask the woman her view of love, do you really love your son, if you really can't pay the bride price, is it really not okay, if it's true, tell your son to give up decisively.

If you can't get the bride price, you can only take out a loan, because in this society, the cost of the private sector is very high, and it is best to borrow from the bank.