I want to know if I really have a mental illness?

You do need to see a psychiatrist. But you're not mentally ill. It's because you're too nervous about whether you have mental illness.

It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist. Let them guide you professionally and systematically on how to face yourself. Facing life later.

You do have a certain problem, you are insecure, this is caused by your life experience, this kind of thing that has happened, it is not easy to make up for it, I think your relationship with your father is not very good, otherwise you would not have such a strong sense of insecurity.

Your insecurity is influenced by your family, and I think only your boyfriend can better compensate you.

Also, don't expect too much from anything, expecting too much will inevitably lead to disappointment.

It should be said that there is a slight psychological disorder. You are always living in the unpleasant shadows of many pasts, and to change your destiny, you must come out of these shadows. A good psychiatrist should be able to help you, but a good psychiatrist is hard to find and is very expensive.

I recommend that you read Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature" carefully, read it two or three times, preferably aloud, and then be strong enough to practice the advice in the book, and you will definitely be able to get out of the shadow of the past. Of course, if you can read more humanities books, the effect will be better.

It's not serious. Let go a little, talk to your boyfriend more, be arrogant, relax, and feel that you are a very cute, lively and cheerful ordinary girl.

Hello, there is a reason for any problem, we are facing all kinds of problems all our lives, as we grow up, we need to face work, family and marriage, and we need a good physical and mental state to face society; However, when many people have problems, they do not know how to solve them positively, but avoid them negatively, and after escaping they are psychological barriers.

From your description, I feel that you also face society in a way of escaping, and there will definitely be psychological barriers after a long time; You still need to go out, communicate well with your parents, communicate well with trusted people, there is no problem in this world that cannot be solved, even if it really can't be solved, it is useless to escape, you need to be brave to accept.

Not wanting to live is a negative evasive attitude, you need to find the root of the problem, solve the problem to get out of this vicious circle; If you feel that it is too difficult, consider participating in psychological counseling, and don't keep procrastinating, the longer it takes, the more serious the problem will be.

It should be sick, I think, you don't communicate with others much, it's probably because you don't know what to say, and you don't know what topics to talk about, if it's because of this, I think, watch more TV, watch more news, read more books, it should improve your current state, reading books don't have to be serious books, you can also look at more idle books, look at some ** on the Internet, although it's very yy, but it's very good-looking, and when you see more and know more, it's not a problem to communicate with others.

Chronic diseases generally occur in the middle of the metabolic cycle of life, and it is also that you may have used up your energy, or you are recuperating your energy, or you may have experienced major changes in your life and made psychological waves. At this time, your reason is overwhelmed by emotion, or you are very eager for a certain relationship but have never been able to get it. Take a turn of attention and don't let yourself be pressured just yet

The most fundamental thing is that you have to find the root cause of why you are the way it is, and then ** it from the root. It's hard, but it's better to do more things you don't want to do.

If it lasts more than three months, consider depression.

I hope you get out of your own world, deal with people more, and you will get better. Participate in more activities.

If you have any questions, go to a counselor! More than three months, it can't indicate any depression at all, depression has strict diagnostic criteria, either a little problem or depression!!