Unwilling not to let go? Torture

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you break up for external reasons, then you let him go, this can only prove that he doesn't love you enough, he loves himself the most (that's how my last boyfriend broke up) Even if he resists the pressure this time, then next time, next time, there will always be a time when he will choose to hurt you. Let it go and live your life happily.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ask yourself if you are unwilling or continue to love.

    If you are unwilling, then you don't need to say it.

    If you continue to love, then why not give your loved one a chance at happiness?

    Why do you want to make your love ** tears?

    When love becomes a hurt, then be great!

    Don't let your efforts become a reason for him to be moved!

    Let him go, there are still 10,000 possibilities in your life!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    His personality We don't know, only you know what kind of person do you think he is?

    For example, some men are like that, even if they don't want it, they have to pretend to be affectionate, and they see their former girlfriends still fascinated by them, and then satisfy their vanity

    Personally, I think that no matter whether he has something unspeakable or not, there are some things that once you miss them, you can't start again, and no one can live without them.

    In the future, you will meet the one who is destined to belong to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's really not easy to come over together for 6 years, your boyfriend will regret it if he doesn't know how to cherish it, and it's not easy to find a partner now!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Cherish what you have If you can get it back Then please work hard, if everything has passed, don't be sad , let go of tears, we still have love in our hearts, love is forever.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After a long time, love has become family affection, but he doesn't know, thinking that there is no love between you, so he said that he broke up, I think he will regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let it go, he is not worthy of your love Although it has been a long time, but you don't have a strong love Strong melon is not sweet We all understand this.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Could there be something unspeakable?

    If you are sure that he still loves you, care more about him, the kind between pure friends, if you are sincere enough, maybe he will be moved.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Children remember a sentence, it is yours after all, it is not yours after all, it is not you after all, and the reluctant feelings can only hurt you more deeply

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why force the love that can't come back??

    Maybe you should look a little bit away.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's a hard feeling, so let's start over and learn to give up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hey, more than half of your youth is wasted.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let it go, barely happy, no matter what his reason is, he gave up, even if he barely got back together, this relationship can't stand the test after that. Learn to cherish yourself, take a step back and you will open the sky, you will know how to enjoy the freedom of being single, and only then will you learn to cherish the next relationship...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Well, don't force it, just let it be.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Set yourself a time to wait, and if it's over, say goodbye.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's a shame you've wasted six years of your youth!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't force it, the twisted melon is not sweet.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1. If you break up, learn to take care of yourself: If you break up, you are most afraid of being paralyzed, and any self-care action is good medicine: go to play ball, go to dance, go to the mountains and the beach to yell, go to walk the dog, go to the park to bask in the sun, and go to the movies.

    Many people use rituals to complete psychological mourning, such as burning old letters, and such farewell acts have a healing effect.

    2. I don't want to do the original thing: I am most afraid of breaking up, especially settling old accounts, regretting not being at the beginning, in fact, it will not help. Think of the golden words of the love saints:

    I am fortunate to have it, but I am not killed"、"If you have loved before, why should you have it"、"If love is held in the hand, it kills this lovebird","The past is gone, and the future can be chased"……Collect the good memories and draw an end to this karma with blessings.

    3. Strive to confide in others: Breaking up is most afraid of self-withdrawal, closure, and imprisoning yourself in a sad and lonely castle. Find someone to say, write it yourself, tell your heart online and netizens, and have an outlet for your emotions, otherwise you will break the embankment.

    However, because I am afraid that it will be more sad or"The ugliness of the heart should not be publicized", afraid of other people's jokes, simply shut up, but I don't know that saying it is a kind of **, and it can be said that it means that you can face it calmly psychologically.

    4. Divert attention: Breaking up is most afraid of being stuck in the quagmire and unable to extricate yourself, there are many ways to withdraw from the mood, leave the sad to travel, listen to the paragraph**, read the book, pray, or transfer the love, to help those stray dogs who need love, to care for the elderly and children around ......Young people most often use the Internet, TV, and chat to transfer.

    5. Learn to grow and introspect: Breaking up is most afraid of rigid thinking, completely losing the ability to introspect or find meaning in pain, introspection is not to count whose fault it is, but to objectively evaluate the growth and learning of both parties after the loss, and can be used as a reference for the next relationship. The pain of breaking up is everywhere, touching the scene and hurting, the old days are vivid in the middle of the night, it is really miserable, sometimes it becomes a psychosomatic disease, chest tightness and heart pain, insomnia, anorexia, lack of concentration, etc., life is greatly affected, you need to come up with some ways to relieve your pain, in short, it is to accept the termination of the relationship between lovers, admit that it is in the past tense, over.

    However, life can continue its journey of freedom and abundance.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The forehead ,,, seems to be awkward with the object, but in fact, many times we are angry with ourselves, so don't care too much.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I guess you're right, sometimes letting go is really a relief.

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