My boyfriend said that he didn t feel anything about love, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-11
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you've reached a dangerous point. It's time to pay attention to the existence of problems.

    If you can see that you like him a lot, take a proactive attitude. For example, take advantage of August 7 (Valentine's Day) to find a quieter place. Talk about your thoughts.

    Tell him that he is happy and happy to be with him, and hope that he will not always worry about you and that you can take care of yourself. And you want him to be happy, too! There are some minor problems that I want him to bring up.

    But you also have to pay attention to one question: can he stand the test of love? Finding a wife is not just for pleasure, but also for a sense of responsibility.

    I thought it was only about happiness, but now I've changed, I love my wife very much and try to be as good as possible to her. In the future, when he gets off work, you don't always pester him, let him feel relaxed, and then you are asking him how his work is, helping him share some worries, in fact, men are very fragile (I just haha)...

    You have to express your meaning tactfully, and don't rush or quarrel. In this way, he will look at you differently and will not think that you are just an ignorant little girl, so that he will feel that you are not dependent on him and can be completely self-reliant.

    Hope you can hold on to your love!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think each of us has this feeling, whether it is dating or doing work, so that others and so on, just like the fresh vegetables and fruits that I just bought in the vegetable market, if you put it for a long time, it will become sour and smelly, and your friends will also have a feeling of cordiality and love when you have just interacted, and after a long time, you will naturally have nothing to say, feel lonely, no feeling, am I right?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe you can let him go and leave him alone for a while, neither to say a breakup, nor to be as close as it used to be.

    A man is like a rubber band in love, you and he represent both ends, if the two ends are too close, there will be no elasticity, if he is allowed to leave properly, the rubber band will regain its elasticity, and it will not be long before he will bounce back to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then tell him what you think.

    Two people should care for each other, accommodate each other and tolerate each other.

    Maybe he's tired from work, so don't lose your temper because of a little thing, maybe it makes him feel tired.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I also think that we should be separated for a while, maybe he feels that he misses you and can't do without you, so let it be.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe, then break up, find another one who can endure hardships, a man can't be afraid of tiredness, he is the pillar of the family.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Although love is beautiful, after all, it can't withstand the destruction of reality, we can only accept our fate and do our own arrangements to obey God.

    Maybe at the beginning, because you have a lot of things that attract him, if you can meet often, it must be good, and he won't think too much about it. As for him not liking you that much.

    Why do you want to be with you, because he doesn't have a favorite person in this situation at the moment, and he still likes you more among all the people around him. has not yet reached the point where they must break up, and most men will not take the initiative to draw a line immediately. But you don't know when this liking will become less and less, and you don't know when someone will appear to divert his liking.

    That is, dispensable, not unique.

    However, don't always think that the other party is good to you, but forget that the reason for wanting to break up is a substantive issue. Do you think he's good to you, but he doesn't plan for the future and isn't motivated, is that really a good way for you? If it is a rich second generation, it will be over if you want to be happy together, but it is not that kind of family, and the two of them will not struggle in the future and wait for pie to fall from the sky.

    Is it? I have always felt that only two people with one heart can talk about the future, and marriage is not a playhouse.

    The two of you are still young, and you haven't reached the stage of eating and waiting for death, don't you develop yourself now and wait for the future to eat subsistence? Everyone chooses a different path, and not all parallel lines.

    If you are not a person of the world, then wouldn't it be wiser to put the useless work spent on others to become better and more substantial?

    If you can accept the fact that he doesn't like you so much, you still like him very much, and you are reluctant to break up now, or you can't help but look back for him when you break up, then don't divide it, try to distract yourself, don't put all your energy on him, don't hold on to him, and talk about some light-hearted topics. If his liking for you increases, he will naturally cherish you more and more, and you can judge from his actions.

    If you feel that you like him very much, he doesn't cherish you enough, you feel that you are at a loss, he is not worth it, and you can like better, then break up, don't hang yourself from a tree.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have been in a relationship with your boyfriend for three years, and now your boyfriend tells you that he has no feelings for you or that he has no feelings for feelings, and now you are thinking about whether to break up, this first depends on the relationship between you, if your current relationship is in a state of dispensability, then it is completely possible to consider breaking up, because the nature of the change has occurred.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you have been in love for three years, but your boyfriend tells you that he has no feelings for you, then I don't think you need to continue to maintain this relationship, he tells you very bluntly that he doesn't have any feelings for you, so what are you still doing with him? In fact, it has broken up with you in disguise, but it is very vague.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The boyfriend said that he has no feelings for you anymore, which means that he no longer loves you, such a relationship, even if they are reluctant to be together, will not be happy, a person who does not love you will not treat you with sincerity, it is better to break up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello! It's only been three years, and your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, and he doesn't have any feelings, if he continues to date with his boyfriend, he will one day fall in love with other women and choose to break up with you. So it's better to let it go now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since there is no longer a certain feeling in the near future, let's break up directly, and there is no point in continuing, because the other party is no longer in love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since he has been in love for three years, the situation in which the boyfriend says to himself at this moment that he has no feelings proves that he is no longer in love and has lost the meaning of going on like this. Since he has been in love for three years, the situation in which the boyfriend says to himself at this moment that he has no feelings proves that he is no longer in love and has lost the meaning of going on like this.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After three years of dating, your boyfriend says that he has no feelings for himself, which means that your boyfriend doesn't like you anymore, so he has no feelings for you, and if he can't change it for you, of course you can break up with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My boyfriend who has been in a relationship for three years says that he has no feelings for you anymore. In this case, don't be in a hurry to break up, adjust the reasons, and then try to get along with the two of you. If it still doesn't work, you should break up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Two people have been together for a long time, just like the left and right hands, it is normal not to feel it, it is just to return to the bland, which is good, there is no need to break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You've been in a relationship for three years, and your boyfriend told you that you didn't feel anything, in fact, it's not right for your boyfriend to say this, it's really hurtful to say this, so after he says this, you should break up with him in time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's okay to break up, and since he doesn't have feelings for you anymore, there's no need for the relationship to continue.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Break up, break up, the three-year relationship has almost worn out my love, if it's not suitable, forget it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You should break up because the relationship has reached a low stage, and your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I've been in a relationship for three years, and my boyfriend said that he doesn't have feelings for you anymore, and it's time to break up. The other party doesn't love you anymore, so don't stick to it, otherwise, you won't be happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your boyfriend has no feelings for you anymore, and the relationship without feelings can't continue, you should break up, no matter how many years you've been talking, you can't be nostalgic anymore, this issue is also a waste of time and a waste of feelings.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The boyfriend who has been in a relationship for three years says that he has no feelings for himself, so he still chooses to break up, and it is useless to insist.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The boyfriend who has been in a relationship for three years says that he has no feelings for himself, he may mean that he is implying that you want to break up with you, or he may just mention casually, although he has no feelings for you, he may not want to break up with you because your relationship has become a habit and a kind of kiss.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You shouldn't break up, you should have a good talk with your boyfriend, find out what he is dissatisfied with you, and make changes accordingly.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The boyfriend who has been in love for three years said that if he has no feelings for himself, he should change the score to subtract the score from the three years of love and he has no feelings for you, so what are you doing with him, break up as soon as possible, and this man will not be too good to you in the future.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's been three years, and if my boyfriend doesn't feel it now, I think he should take the initiative to break up first.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Three years of love is enough to recognize a person's character, if you feel that you don't feel it, you can let it go, and it will not end well if you continue.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After three years of dating, my boyfriend said that if I didn't feel it, it didn't mean that I should break up, because sometimes the relationship may only be able to witness the real relationship until the end, and if you break up because you feel tired, it's really a pity.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    He said that he has no feelings for you anymore, which proves that she doesn't love you anymore, why do you stay if you don't break up? Would you be happy with someone who doesn't love you?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I've been in love for three years, and my boyfriend said that I don't feel for myself anymore, so I shouldn't break up, and my boyfriend has no feelings for myself anymore, and I don't have love anymore, so I should break up and be happy together.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Because you don't have a sense of novelty.

    When it comes to falling in love, what is important is that each other can bring freshness to each other, and give each other a little surprise from time to time. A lot of couples will have this time, and more of you need to communicate. You can also enhance your relationship through some small games, and the small mutual exchange between each other will make the connection between the two parties closer and make the hearts of the two people closer.

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    In addition to the above actions, couples can also enhance their relationship through a small game, which is similar to a quiz game. When both of you are resting, you can each take out an A4 piece of paper on which you can write the questions you want to ask the other.

    Many couples will encounter various problems in the process of getting along, the most common is the loss of freshness, no sweet sense of love, only deep guilt. For interesting things, people can always have unlimited motivation, some people love to play games, even if they stay up late, they don't feel tired, as if they have unlimited energy.

    For things that are not interested in burying secretly, it is always difficult for people to be interested, there is no motivation, some people don't like to read, you prefer to let him hold the book to read, he may be able to fall asleep in a second. Couples have been together for a long time, the more they know each other, the more insipidity they have, and they feel that each other has no new ideas, so they have no vitality to get along, and even feel very tired, which gradually affects the development of the relationship, and the worst result is separation.

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