I don t like me at the same table, but she seems to have a crush on me, everyone think of a way to g

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let's talk to her, but don't be too obvious, don't hurt his self-esteem、、、 just say that you have to study hard, you can be very good friends, no one can say what will happen in the future

    I hope you can get your wish

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Give her a slap in the face: You!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Tell her bluntly that you don't like her!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Okay, okay, tell her, say: Auntie, I have a girlfriend!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe treats her normally, but you can't indulge her too much, and instill in her a little more about the things between you and your girlfriend, and the distance between you is invisible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I have a crush on you! That's for sure, it's best to ignore her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe Mrs. is too unrestrained and proud.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Tell her you don't like her and just want to be friends with her!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Satan Satan launches from the point of launch.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Bear with me, I won't see her when I graduate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, your situation can show that in fact, your table mates still maintain a good impression of you.

    She liked me at my table before, and then she said that she didn't like me anymore, saying that it was an illusion, and I didn't care, I didn't like it, I wasn't embarrassed, but I said that I was good friends, but I always treated me coldly and hotly, a little indifferent, sometimes I looked at her a few times, she didn't pay attention to me at all, I didn't understand.

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, your situation can show that in fact, your table mates still maintain a good impression of you.

    The reason why she is hot and cold to you is most likely because of some other things, such as you talking and laughing with other girls, and she is jealous in her heart.

    Adolescent love is strong and persistent, so she suddenly said one day that she didn't like you, most likely because there was a small misunderstanding between you, and her attitude was actually expressing her inner dissatisfaction to you.

    Because you're not a real couple yet, she doesn't stand up to be coquettish or angry with you.

    And the love when she was a student, she was very concerned about her face and self-esteem, and as a girl, she definitely couldn't let go of her self-esteem, so she was very strong and unwilling to give in.

    So as a boy, if you have a crush on her, you can coax her.

    I don't like her, I just don't know why she is so cold to me, sometimes I look at her, but she doesn't look at me at all.

    If I don't talk to her, she basically won't talk to me.

    Then if you don't like her, then just keep the relationship like that.

    If you don't like her, don't give her hope, so as not to hurt her deeply.

    The reason why she ignores you is actually mainly because she likes you, and you don't like her, she doesn't want to lose her position in front of you, so she is pretending to be strong.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have to be confident in yourself, and if you're too shy to say it directly, you can write it all down to her in a love letter so that she can understand your mind.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can quietly write a note and ask other girls to hand it to her, and you won't be afraid and worried, and you won't feel embarrassed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Quietly ask her: You change your name to Lingxi, and I change my name to Xinyoulingxi, okay, use this to hint at her and see if she can understand your mind.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like it, you have to say it, whether the boy is your tablemate, your classmate, or the person you fell in love with at first sight, tell him if you like it, whether he rejects or accepts.

    Of course, the above is only recommended for high school students and above, if you are a primary school student, or a junior high school student, Xiao Ke will advise you to go to your school honestly, like him if you like him, and when you get to college, you can chase him until you chase him to become yours.

    You tell him that if he accepts, then congratulations to your little sister, you have officially started another stage of your life, and puberty has arrived. But Sister Xiao Ke also wants to say that even if he accepts you, your current life is still focused on learning, because love is only a part of our life, and now learning is the top priority in your life, you can work together and study hard together, you can't fall in love because you are in love, and put your studies aside, then when you experience the watershed of the college entrance examination, you will regret that you did not study hard because of love.

    Learning is put before falling in love, this is the most sincere advice that Sister Xiao Ke gives you.

    If he rejects you, Sister Xiao Ke can also understand your feelings, but Xiao Ke still has to say, you can be lost, you can be sad, or you can be decadent for a few days, but please cheer up when you go to the main class, and then feel sorry for your unstarted love after school. Your life has just begun, your youth is still very long, even if he rejects you, you have to work hard to make yourself better, excellent to the point that he regrets rejecting you at the beginning, and when you are excellent, you will find that there are better people waiting for you.

    Love is just a part of our lives, and my little sister wants you to understand that you are now a student and your task is to study hard.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is a typical long-term love type, when I was in school, many couples came from the same table, in fact, they have been together for a long time, and slowly sparks, I feel that it is a very normal phenomenon.

    I'm a person who doesn't believe much in love over time, and I like love at first sight, which is the feeling that I want to be with him at first sight, and I don't want to be with him if I don't have that feeling.

    Because I feel that love can be a lot of people over time, maybe you don't want this one person, if you get along with other people for a long time, maybe you will like other people.

    But in fact, if you look at it from another angle, it can be said that you are destined. Although this can happen between you and him or between her and another person, you meet and you are fate.

    In fact, it is normal to have feelings between the same table, and as we grow up, boys will take care of girls a lot. They instinctively know that they have to take care of girls, so when boys and girls are at the same table, boys will always be very good to girls, and slowly this little girl's gentleness or willfulness or cuteness will impress the boy next to her.

    During this period, the girl will slowly become dependent on the boy, and the boy will slowly like the girl, so this is also a very normal phenomenon, after all, there is no pure relationship between men and women.

    There are also two people at the same table who are more fun-loving and often play and laugh, in the eyes of outsiders, this is the way couples get along, so they slowly become a small couple.

    So if you feel like you like being at the same table, the first thing you should do is find out whether you really like it or because you've been together for a long time.

    Your liking for her may only be out of friends and not in the state of a lover, so it's better to think about it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This should be a problem faced by many people, because the table mate is the person we have the most contact with during the school day, and it is also the person who has been in contact with the longest, so it is understandable to use the long-term affection to show the liking of the tablemate.

    First of all, I want to say that liking a table mate cannot be distinguished by right or wrong, so when you like a tablemate, don't be anxious, don't be depressed, you should face this relationship correctly. From the first day of school, we have been in contact with this pronoun, and we have gradually understood what it means to be at the same table, so I want to analyze the attitudes and solutions that everyone should have from the same table at different stages of learning.

    Junior high school, hormonal germination.

    High school, the true feelings of shared suffering.

    In high school, it may not be too much to use shared suffering, so the feelings at this time are more mature and deep than in junior high school, so at this time we are facing the feelings of the same table, I don't support ignoring or I think it is okay to agree, because in high school, we are mature enough, but since the current task is to study, we veto this feeling from the heart, but I think we can't ignore this feeling, so my suggestion is to put this feeling in our hearts first, and then work together with him, Aim to be admitted to the same university in the end.

    College, the initial period of love.

    College should be the initial stage when we are allowed to fall in love during school, so at this time everyone is talking about love, so if you like your table mate at this stage, then I want to say be brave and chase it.

    Finally, I would like to say don't be anxious because you like your tablemates, the most important thing is to face it right.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you have a tablemate, then I think you may still be in junior high school or high school, and you should not be in college yet, and there are no tablemates in college.

    If you're in junior high school or high school and you like your tablemates, I don't think there's anything wrong with that liking, but what matters is how you deal with it. In junior high school and high school, our main task is to study hard and focus on learning. It is normal for these feelings to sprout, but we must learn to treat these feelings correctly, and not let this relationship have a bad impact on ourselves or on the other party.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    My current boyfriend is my former tablemate. If you like your tablemate, your tablemate likes you, it's the best of both worlds.

    If you like it, make a bold confession, in case you get together!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I tell you as a person who has come before, you should restrain your feelings now, although learning is not the only way out, but it is the best way out, and studying hard now is not so powerless when facing choices in the future. Campus love is of course beautiful, but there are still too few examples of such love that can really get married, how many people go their separate ways after walking out of campus, and how many couples are broken up in the college entrance examination. You have to take a long-term view now, good academic performance is only good for you, not bad, and when I was in love, I also thought that it would not affect my grades.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think students should still focus on their studies, and if you are still in a state of intense study, then you should not confess. Of course, if you are sure that she will definitely accept you, and you can motivate each other to study hard together, then you can be brave enough to confess.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think if it's junior high school or high school, don't tell her. If it's college, be brave enough to tell her and chase her.

    Nowadays, many students understand a lot of emotional problems since they were young, not to mention in junior high school, when love is beginning to bloom, and many junior high school students have their favorite people. In high school, there is more knowledge to learn, and the pressure of learning is also greater, so in the process of learning, it is inevitable that there will be problems that you can't do.

    High school students are also adolescent students, so it is easy to have a good impression of the opposite sex, so when you change seats, you also hope that your seat can be closer to the seat of the girl you like, so that you can have more contact with her.

    It's best to wait for junior high school or high school to deal with you after you have a certain amount of experience, otherwise, be careful of being deceived Oh, there are many people in the world who are like wolves in sheep's clothing, and after you fall into the trap, middle school will completely destroy you, resulting in a single father in the end", middle school students are in early love but you have failed in love, if you want to prove that it is not wrong, restrain yourself everywhere in life. Teach you not to count'Elementary school students are early love, and my daughter is in early love, and my old aunt thinks. At home they are not able to understand the reason.

    Juvenile early love, learning early love is the most important.

    It is that the adolescent education in schools has not kept up with the requirements of the times.

    If you talk about love in college, first think about celibacy. They are self-disciplined and have their own ideas and plans, and their daily lives are practiced according to their own ideas. Life is full, there are not too many worries, there are not too many worries.

    The holidays have their own plans, learn to exercise. After you have a partner, you have to think about whether you want to go out with a female ticket every day during the holidays. What to do?

    Every night before going to bed, you should chat with the female ticket pot ** porridge and said.

    Of course, there will never be two people who are suitable, only two people who accommodate each other. Nothing is as beautiful as you think. The details are always up to you to explore.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Need, for example, the best of us, Geng Geng Yuhuai.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, if you look down at the same table and don't look up, if she refuses it, there will be no more harmonious relationship, so let's wait until you graduate to confess.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you like it, say it boldly, once you miss some things, it may become a lifetime of regrets, even if you are rejected, but there will be fewer regrets in life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, you should still tell him, because in this way you will not regret it and give yourself more opportunities.

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