In a relationship of one year and 28 days, today she proposed to break up.

First of all, I feel that the reason for the breakup that the other party told you sounds like an excuse, if it's not the type she likes, then what is she for more than a year? If you really like to chase stars and don't like you, then such a person will not listen to his family, and adolescent people are always a little rebellious, especially in terms of feelings. So the reasons she said were very watery, and it was that she wanted to break up with you.

No matter what reason she is in, if the woman is really going to break up, it will be difficult to recover. Women are not like men, most men say that they break up and go back again, but women say that the breakup is often very complete and the back road is clear.

So it is recommended that you get together and disperse, but don't look back when you leave, no matter how she will come back to you in the future, she comes to you does not mean that she will turn back, but she needs warmth, leave some self-esteem for yourself, don't be someone else's lifebuoy. Best wishes.

That's because she may not want to be with you anymore, so she gives up the power to fight for it.

Give up, a lot of things can't be changed by yourself.

Unless you can give her happiness and change their family's perception in the immediate future.

Women are all realistic now. Sometimes, it must be because you are out of the wall, or you don't like you anymore. So men, work hard to make money.

If you have more money, you will naturally have everything. Don't delay the future that affects you because of a shallow woman.

There are good and bad long-distance relationships, you are both more than a year, and it is likely that she has someone over there. If that girl doesn't love you very much from the beginning, then maybe as long as there is a guy on his side chasing her, she will like it.

What is worth your persistence, resolutely do not give up; Unworthy love, letting go is a relief for both parties.

If it's an online dating, anything will happen if the two places are separated for more than a year.

She's immature, you should be mature. When you're good, she'll turn back. You leave first, give yourself dignity, nothing remarkable!

I also think they are right above that a person can't look at appearances. If you are excellent in the future, he will regret it when you appear in front of him. It may feel like you're not being treated well right now.

And thou shalt do it unto him. If you don't try hard. There's nothing like that.

It's not a long-distance relationship, but another possibility, depending on whether he has changed his mind.

Summary. You can think about it first, what is the reason for the other party's three breakups? Is it mainly your own problem?

Or does the other person themselves not care about the relationship? If it's your own problem, then maybe after you work hard to improve yourself, the two of you will be able to maintain this relationship for a long time. If the other party doesn't care about the relationship, then maybe he can choose to leave.

Because you don't have to hang yourself on an unworthy tree!

After talking for 20 days, he proposed to break up three times, and I wonder why.

Dear, hello, I'm glad to answer for you Are you broken up, right, is it because your personality is inconsistent, there is no common language, or he has a third party inserted?

Or maybe he doesn't think he's worthy of you and can't climb <>

After talking for 20 days, there is no emotional foundation, and I have a certain understanding of you, so I think it's inappropriate

He proposes to break up so quickly, it seems a little disrespectful of the relationship between you, give up decisively, or you will receive a fourth breakup agreement.

You can think about it first, what is the reason for the other party's three breakups? Is it mainly your own problem? Or does the other person themselves not care about the relationship?

If it's your own problem, then maybe after you work hard to improve yourself, the two of you will be able to maintain this relationship for a long time. If the other party doesn't care about the relationship, then maybe he can choose to leave. Because you don't have to hang yourself on an unworthy tree!

There may be many reasons for a breakup, but there may be the following points in summary:

1. I want to do things seriously now, and I don't want to put my mind on love now.

With focusing on her career as a reason to break up, if she is smart enough, she may choose to break up peacefully. On the contrary, it may be entangled for a while. However, now that you have proposed to break up and have taken the first step towards breaking up, it is normal for the other person to need some time to accept the fact that the breakup will take place.

You like me so much, but I really can't do it well.

2, I'm not worthy of you, let's break up.

From the perspective of demeaning oneself as a reason to break up, it will not hurt the other party's self-esteem, which is very clever. Of course, there are also some stupid girls who will believe your reasons for breaking up, and you need to explain further.

3. You are a good person, but we are not suitable.

The advantages of this reason for breaking up are the same as above, and it is more common to start from protecting the other party's self-esteem and then proposing to break up on the grounds that it is not suitable.

4. We don't have a common language together.

If the above are all reasons for breaking up, then this one is really likely to be the reason for breaking up. When two people first got together, they were attracted by their own appearance and temperament, and after getting along for a while, they found that the original attraction disappeared, and they had no common interests and hobbies, so naturally they had no common language. Love is talked about, there is nothing to say, how awkward it is for two people to be together, it is better to break up.

5, we won't have results, I don't want to delay you any longer, let's break up.

Love without a future, that is, without the purpose of marriage, is not morally recognized, so it is natural to end it. If it's an extramarital affair or some other illicit relationship, this reason for breaking up is the most suitable.

6. My parents don't agree with us.

Using the disapproval of parents as a reason for breaking up is a good reason, and some will accept the breakup because of this.

Dear, this is obviously a soft rice eater, saying that it is important to make money, but in fact, I dislike you for not having money and can't support it, so I dislike you, so obviously dislike yourself and don't feel it. What do you say with a dead face, people are not satisfied with you, they don't look down on you, I suggest you have a long snack, break up quickly, fortunately, it doesn't take long, stop the loss in time! Whether it's a man or a woman, at the beginning, you can say that it's best to feed me, it's obviously a wrong view, and it's not suitable to be together at all!

I hope you will turn back in time and start a new life!

You are a little humble in this relationship, maybe he wants to see how much you love him, but he must not love you anymore, you go all the way to him, and he doesn't pick you up.

Or maybe he thinks his worth is suitable for a more superior girl.

Or, he doesn't mean anything, but at a certain moment, he simply thinks that you are not suitable for him.

That's it, the girl is divided.

Don't grieve yourself.

First of all, you should cover your heart and ask yourself two questions, first, do I love her? Second, why did I torture her so much? You don't have to ask to know that you love her, otherwise it wouldn't be so sad.

The second question is your key, you also know that you are distressed, you are uncomfortable, but you can't take that step, right? You're nothing else, typical machismo plus death to save face.

The heart is one's own, only oneself knows whether it hurts or not, and only oneself knows whether it hurts or not. There are inevitably stumbles in the relationship, and there are inevitably scenes of quarrels and breakups, but these can form the bonds that you will stay together until you grow old in the future.

The first thing you have to overcome is your own mental obstacles, you have to know that you still love her, you have to tell her, and if there is a misunderstanding during the period, you have to make it clear, and she won't know if you hold it in your heart and don't blow up your lungs.

Since you love, you have to take this step. In fact, it's not difficult, you know how to do it yourself, because you have talked for a while, each other's mental activities are very clear, you are just afraid, so what you are asking for is not a way, but courage.

I think your character is also a problem, you obviously ignore others, of course people are dissatisfied, at this time you should be wrong, ask people to forgive, you are still angry, heh, really, if you really want to grow old, then change your character, I feel quite self-centered,

The likelihood of you being together is already very low, first do a good job, if you don't do a good job, you will be more miserable Then try to find a new girlfriend and you will slowly forget about her Not as deep as you think Don't take two years too seriously Don't think it's a long time.

If you don't look for a new one, it's hard to forget the old one, graduation is a hurdle in the past, and if you can't get over it, you can't get by.

Time, really, is just a matter of time.