In addition to family affection, is there a third relationship that surpasses love and friendship?

What is love? I still don't understand it thoroughly, I just know that there is a difference between liking and love, I can like many people, but I can only love one. I finally understood that boys and girls can only be lovers, not friends, why is there no innocent friendship between men and women of the same age?

Is it true that being good to a friend of the opposite sex means liking the other person? I'm so depressed, why are people so feudal now, maybe it's not that they're feudal, but I'm simple, right? When I was in junior high school, I heard a very classic saying, "The friendship in junior high school is the purest and the most cherished", which is ridiculous, this sentence actually came from the mouth of a teacher.

It turned out that the teacher also lied to me, and we in elementary school didn't understand what friendship was; In junior high school, we knew what friendship was, but we couldn't get it; We got it in high school, but it was full of falsehood and mutual exploitation. What about the purest friendship in the world? Will it exist in a corner I don't know about?

I found myself so naïve, I once really believed the teacher's words, thinking that junior high school can get the best friendship, the most cherished, maybe in my heart, friendship is always the first! But what about my friends? Basically, it's all heavy color and light friend type.,Only I'm a heavy friend and light color.,Is "color" really that important??

Why do two good friends like one person at the same time, while one has to learn to give up? Unfortunately, I am the one who has to give up love for the sake of friendship, but why is the friendship I get by letting go of love is not pure, it is full of use and falsehood??? finally understood that the friendship in junior high school was not so perfect, pure and immaculate.

If I had known that I was inseparable from this relationship, I would not have let go of what I had said, and if I had known that I took this relationship too seriously, I would not have let you go, but what was the reason? Is there really 10,000? It's ridiculous, we were so ignorant in junior high school, right?

Why not choose both? When we are young, we don't understand what love is; When we know love, we are not together. That's the price of growth.

It is only after some experiences that I understand what the truest love is, and then I understand how to cherish love. It turns out that for the sake of love, you can back down, you can take a detour, and you can forbear. So, thank you for the first person who fell in love with you, it was he and she who taught you true love.

And the person who can enjoy your deeper and more detailed love is often your next one. "Later, I finally learned how to love, but unfortunately you are long gone, disappearing into the sea of people; Later, I finally understood in tears that some people are not there once they miss it.

There are friends above lovers who are not full.

The fourth kind of affection is a marginal affection, which is between friendship and love, which is more precious than friendship, but not as sweet as love. It's a little ambiguous, it's a little vague.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Girlfriend love is only a personal opinion.

The fourth emotion in addition to family, friendship, and love is a confidant.

Purer than love, closer than friendship, more hazy than family affection. It is neither as strong as affection, nor as passionate as love, nor as lasting as friendship. It is ethereal in existence, giving people comfort but not being able to control it, and it has no intention of controlling it.

The result of the fourth emotion.

Perhaps, in your lifetime, you will not produce classics"Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son"However, because you have such a friend, you will love your life more and cherish your life.

In fact, you and him are destined to be two lines that do not intersect, two stars that will never collide in the night sky, and will not brew the fruit of love, and you feel that talking about love is a desecration of the relationship between you, which can only be a kind of supernatural, pure alternative emotion that overrides love and friendship.

Family affection, friendship, love, these emotions are the most beautiful, purest and most sincere emotions of human beings, which is the nature of human beings, the most basic emotions of human beings, and the basis of other emotions. These emotions are the spiritual pillars of human beings and the basis for the generation of other emotions, without family affection, friendship, and love, other human emotions will not exist and arise, and other human emotions will not have the need to arise and exist. This is the basis of affection, friendship, and love, and it can be said that it is a necessary condition for the existence of these emotions.

Without these emotions, the basis of these emotions would cease to exist, and these emotions would have no need and value to exist, and other human emotions would not exist.

In the world, in addition to a kind of family affection, friendship, and love, there is a fourth emotion, which will make you worry and make you hesitate, but it is not"Love"It's not friendship, it looks like love, but it has nothing to do with love, this is the fourth kind of emotion that occurs between friends of the opposite sex in addition to family, friendship, and love.

Men and women in the world are all emotional animals, and there are always people who are infatuated, fascinated, and loved by love. Family affection comes from nature, love comes from fate, and friendship comes from heart-to-heart. But how can the feelings of the world be summed up in all three of these three?

When there is a feeling, which exists between him and her, between her and him, free from family, friendship, love, between, a little less than love, a little more than friendship, a little more hazy than family affection, modern people will be fashionable called; "Actually, people are not plants. Who can be ruthless, living in this world, each of us is surrounded by various emotions all the time, but no matter how mature we are, there are always some emotions that make us inexplicably happy and distressed.

Ancient clouds; "It's rare to have a confidant in life". When it strikes quietly, how to look at it and how to deal with it? How to face it?

Someone said: "He is a little less than love, a little more than friendship, less of an artificial fetters and utilitarianism, and more of an emotional release and concern." "How to classify feelings, there is no conclusive, the so-called friendship, love, very family trichotomy is only a rough statement, so enjoyed, not surprising, but in the fourth type of emotions to grasp a "degree" is very difficult.

Family affection is the weakest, but also the longest, irreplaceable, but sometimes it can be left out of the first place, and it can be remedied. Can always return. Friendship is the strongest, but also the deepest, may be diluted, but can not be forgotten, sometimes it will deteriorate, or even reversed, but it can be basically relied on.

Love is the strongest, and it is also the easiest to change, time will dilute but if true love will not disappear. The problem is that it can be replaced, and not everyone can be relied on at all times. Depending on the situation, the importance of the three is different.

In the overall consideration of life, the order that you can always have is the order of the questions, and the order that you feel is the most obvious is the reverse order. What you can't cut off is family affection, what you can't forget is friendship, and what you can't remember is love.

Family affection is a kind of depth, friendship is a kind of breadth, and love is a kind of purity. Family affection is a kind of sunshine bathing without conditions and without asking for returns; Friendship is a vast and grand embankment of understanding that can be inhabited at any time; Shoot and love is a kind of mysterious and boundless, which can make the song forget the tears to the chic of the soul. Love is a fickle emotion, it is fanatical and impulsive, sometimes high and sometimes low, hot and cold, tying us to a single hair.

And friendship is a universal and universal passion, he is peaceful and steady, calm and composed, enduring and unchanging, he is pleasant and elegant, and does not cause any pain. Family affection, without the limit of distance, is indelible and indelible. Friendship, proportional to the distance, the distance between the Rift and the Imperial Court is closer, and there are more joint rock systems, the friendship is more recognized, on the contrary, the distance is far away, and the relationship will be estranged.

Love, which is related to the way and values of love, is different for everyone.

Because, family affection and love involve different relationships.

Affection refers to the relationship between family members that is innate and cannot be changed or chosen.

Whereas, love refers to the affection between two people, which can be freely chosen and in many ways based on common stool preferences, values, and desires.

These two relationships are distinguished, on the contrary, the love between two people, to ten or twenty years later, is also transformed from a slow love to another kind of family affection.

People live a lifetime, there will always be a few special people, this kind of person should be between a lover and a friend, maybe just you are pure.

Spiritual sustenance. This is the fourth emotion in addition to family, love, and friendship.

He cannot be classified as a mere friend, because the friendship between you is extraordinary, because he loves you beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends, and he cannot be classified as a lover, because you and he have never behaved like a lover.

But when you are troubled, as long as you have him by your side, your heart will be as calm as water. Because of his presence, your life is more.

Rainbow after rain.

Your life is also full of greenery.