The debate did not go beyond the third sentimental view of friendship and love

Yes, family affection, this is supreme. If there is a blood relationship, love may be a woman, and it will rub sparks. But family affection can't be changed.

In fact, this is a question that has no standard answer.

It mainly depends on the values of the parties.

1. Love is more important than friendship: love is related to marriage and childbirth, it is a lifelong thing, and the pragmatist outlook on life will think that the wife is more important than the friend, after all, the probability of the wife is much greater than that of the friend in the person who accompanies him to the end of his life.

2. Friendship is more important than love: human development is inseparable from various social relationships, that is, connections, and friends are the bearers of connections, and the beginning of love is also through connections (of course, there will be chance encounters).

3. If there is only love and no friendship, there are only 2 people in life, and they are separated from the group society; If there is only friendship and no love, then humanity can be extinct, not to mention human society and human groups. Therefore, the two are indispensable, but driven by different outlooks on life and values, the proportion of the two is different.

This is the Tao, it is yin and yang, only yang does not grow, only yin does not give birth, and the harmony of yin and yang can be reproduced without hesitation.

Friendship and love are both very important, and if you have to choose one or the other, friendship must be more important. Because friendship refers to a wide range of things, while the definition of love is relatively narrow, with singularity and focus, love is an emotional relationship with the person closest to oneself.

Friendship refers to the friendship between friends, and it is the bond that maintains the relationship between people. A good friendship can bring quite good help to one's career, study, and work, and can make oneself like a fish in water in the crowd. Friendship is the strangeness of friendship that transcends blood and geography in the world, leaves home and country, transcends the love of flesh and blood, transcends the love of countries and regions, and can be equally dedicated to all people and exchange unconditional friendship.

Love is an upgraded version of friendship, which refers to a kind of affection between the opposite sex, which has uniqueness, selfishness, and responsibility. Love is beautiful and a prelude to marriage. The two individuals need to understand each other, tolerate each other, and care for each other.

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

In fact, friendship and love complement each other and are quite important. Friendship between the opposite sex can be upgraded to love, and love is also inseparable from friendship to pave the way.

Therefore, love is a small love, and friendship is a great love in the world, so the position of friendship in a person's life is very important. In fact, as long as friendship and love are handled well, this is not contradictory, and it can be done at the same time.

If you have to choose between love and friendship, then love must be important.

Love is the only one, but also focused, so, a good love is difficult to get, is worth cherishing and caring, when love is deep, will form a family, will give birth and raise their own next generation, this is not possible to do in friendship.

Friendship is inclusive, we can also have a lot of friendship, in the road of life, friendship is also indispensable, but friendship is inclusive, not the only one.

In fact, friendship and love do not conflict. It's not that if you have love, you lose friendship. When you have love, the love of friends can give you blessings. Therefore, there is no need to deliberately worry about this question.

Whether it is friendship or love, it is a care that can accompany a lifetime, but love is the best, because in the end, love will allow you to have a family, which is not comparable to friendship, and friendship cannot do.

This question can be said to be very vague, friendship has depth, and love has a new age. If you use the friendship of a new friend to compare the love at the beginning, the friendship will definitely not be able to compete with the passionate love, and the affection of the practical old friend may not be able to compete with the love that has just been established. The unbreakable friendship in real life is rarely seen, but it is often seen that the friendship established over the years is turned into a hatred because of interests.

Love is also not eternal, and now because of some family trivialities, they have parted ways and broken up a complete family alive without nostalgia. Whether it's friendship or love, the most important thing is the mood! If you insist on separating the two, friendship is certainly not as good as love.

It's very simple, when you are old, sick and hospitalized, your wife will definitely not want to take care of you, and instinctively take on the job of taking care of you, because there is love. And no matter how deep the friendship is, at most come to the hospital to visit and comfort a few words, no matter how good a friend is, he will not be afraid to accompany you to the last second of his life, so friendship and love are not comparable.

Love is important, a lover is a person who lives with you, a friend is a lover who lives a life with a friend's lover, after all, there are some things that a lover will always accompany you, and a friend is only with you for some time, such as being sick, a friend can't take care of you every day, and there is a special daily life, the girl is scared at night, the boyfriend will accompany her to sleep, the friend can't do it, and then the friend can't always wash your clothes and cook, but it's normal for lovers to do these things, so of course love is important, because love contains a lot of thingsMoreover, some love is developed from friendship, and it is the most profound and most unavoidable feeling.

Different people have different opinions about which is more important, friendship or love, but in.

In real life and practice, people often choose love over friendship, but in people's traditional concepts, friendship is more important.

the selfish weakness of human nature; Secondly, it is necessary to use the meaning of discernment, which is not a futile argument, but to make what is not known become known, and what is known becomes understanding, so it has great practical guiding significance. Finally, we must fight back, friendship and love are equally important, although it is advocated that everyone can value love and friendship, but in reality, the avoidance of harm and profit of animals makes everyone value love more than friendship.

The more important examples of seeking love are those with names and surnames, and the causes and consequences are clear, as well as the cases of friendship breaking down because of interests.

Material 1: Xi Zhuo Wenjun did not hesitate to be dissuaded by his family because of Sima Xiangru's song "Phoenix Seeking Phoenix", and his friends blocked marrying Sima Xiangru, and finally the two opened a wine shop to buy wine.

Information 2: Xue Rengui has not returned from the army for 16 years, and his wife Wang Baochuan has been waiting hard.

Material 3: The love between Mr. Zhongshan and Ms. Song Qingling, if you have the courage to *** the love story, there is the shadow of not listening to the dissuasion of friends.

Material 4: The love in the peacock flying southeast, it is better to die without love, and no friendship than to see who wants to die.

Material 5: Wu Sangui was angry at the crown.

Fact 6: The love story of Ms. Lin Huiyin and multiple men.

Personally, I feel love.

A partner is someone who has been with you for a lifetime, and a friend cannot be with you for a lifetime.

The first thing that comes to your mind when you encounter something is definitely your significant other, and then seek help from a friend.

Friends have things to worry about and will definitely take care of themselves when they help you, but your significant other will take your own business as their own.

But these arguments are valid only if your partner really loves you.

1 Theoretically, love is more important than friendship, because love goes closer and has more time to contact.2 The fact is that very little love can go longer than friendship, and more love is just dependence and habit later on.

3 Most of the friendship starts with a sense of identity with the same concept, in addition to the friendship mixed with interests, friendship is more reliable than love, after all, many of the love is not necessarily the concept of the batch of both sides are agreed, more inclusive.

Therefore, in the face of love that has not grown old, friendship wins.

Friendship is important: because you haven't met your more loving partner, or the friendship has lasted longer than the new love. This side of friendship must get along very well, so he is reluctant to let go.

Love Matters: Who Can Accompany You to Old Age? Who can take care of you when you are sick in the middle of the night and serve you tea and water?

Who can share the money with you? Living under one roof every day, on a life track, with common relatives and common children. There are more intersections with you in life, and that is love.

So in terms of measurement, love is more important.

I think the answer is love!

Who will accompany you for the rest of your life? Is it your good friend? It can only be your partner, your married couple!

Who are the usual joys and sorrows, daily chores, chores and your offspring? Can you replace it with a brother who puts friendship first? In fact, the question you are asking is very extreme, and in reality few people will encounter this kind of problem.

Of course, only your daughter-in-law can do the above tasks. This is the problem. It's kind of the same as the problem of your wife and mother falling into the river at the same time...

It's a bit extreme. Of course, some people's love may be just playing with love, that kind is another matter, which is temporary, not the so-called marriage with you and children in the future. In this case, of course, friendship is chosen. However, in reality, there are also such things.

This kind of scumbag is a typical representative.。。。

Camaraderie!!! The so-called love, but friendship is integrated with family affection, friendship is mutual dependence, family affection is a natural dependence on a kind of dependence from childhood to adulthood.

In short, love is that people who depend on each other affirm each other and bind each other together, and the emergence of marriage is also to bind and legalize this kind of marriage, love is not divided into gender, regardless of age, regardless of high and low, it seems sacred, but it is just a long-cherished wish in the depths of the heart.

In this era, love at first sight is actually the intention at first sight. Love over time is nothing more than a trade-off. Even growing old is just a matter of habit.

Friendship is a kind of honesty and trust between each other, and love is a kind of dependence and trust on each other. Deep friendship can make each other forget the heat and coldness of the situation, and deep love can make each other put aside the extremes of the world. Friendship can be a continuation of love that cannot go deep, and love can be an extension of friendship that continues to develop.

Friendship can keep the imprisonment but mutual trust and mutual benefit, and love can release the imprisonment and make each other more inseparable. I think the two complement each other, and there is no primary, because both are extensions or continuations of each other.