I had a fierce quarrel with my girlfriend yesterday, so please read it carefully and answer it for m

Updated on society 2024-02-09
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you continue like this.

    Men actually beat their own women.

    Then she would really turn away.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People are so good to you, you are really not satisfied, if you really like her, you will not test her, love is to trust each other, respect each other, and be considerate of each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Such a good girl, what kind of fierce are you! And beat her??? Now it's time to train your stamina, calm and mature!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You are truly born in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings! Such a nice girl, don't miss it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Nonsense may be a family factor that you try to change yourself and mature will definitely be fine.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. How to apologize to your murderous girlfriend: First of all, take the initiative to take responsibility:

    Some words, some things to do wrong, you have to have the courage to take responsibility, don't find too many excuses to cover up the mistakes you made, sometimes the more excuses you find, the more the other party can't find your sincerity. Then, do your best to restore the relationship: I can't believe this has hurt you so much, please tell me what I can do to make amends for you.

    You need to understand how much the outcome hurts the other person and ask what the other person can do to get back to normal. Make up for your mistakes again, buy something good to coax your girlfriend, and express your determination to change your behavior: I'm sorry, I shouldn't have lost my temper, I know it's wrong, give me a chance, and I'll change it.

    If the thing is your problem, you need to get to the heart and express your determination to change your shortcomings. ”

    How to apologize to your murderous girlfriend: First of all, take the initiative to take responsibility: you must have the courage to take responsibility for some words and things that are wrong, and don't find too many excuses to cover up the mistakes you have made.

    Then, do your best to restore the relationship: I can't believe this has hurt you so much, please tell me what I can do to make amends for you. "You need to know how things are going to happen, how much you hurt the other person, and ask them what they can do to get back to normal.

    Make up for your mistakes again, buy something good to coax your girlfriend, and express your determination to change your behavior: I'm sorry, I shouldn't have lost my temper, I know it's wrong, give me a chance, and I'll change it. "If the matter is your problem, you need to get to the heart and express your determination to change your shortcomings.

    The reason for killing him was that she stayed up late last night and said a few words to him.

    I still stay up late when I have a cold.

    You just say it's all for your good.

    I still stay up late with a cold.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello and girlfriend quarreled very much what should I do, you should take the initiative to make peace, after all, it is your girlfriend, you let him and her, in daily life, it is very common for couples to have conflicts and quarrels, couples often quarrel because of many small things or big things, first both parties should calm down, do not quarrel more and more, this will hurt feelings, first analyze what is the reason for the quarrel, and then think of a way for this reason, think about whether you are wrong, or the other party is wrong. If it's your fault, then you have to apologize and quarrel, it's not a very good thing, and after you calm down, you should go and talk to your girlfriend well, because your girlfriend will reason with him when she is angry, and she won't listen.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Explain that your girlfriend knows to give you the stairs down. If you can grasp a degree, you should be glad that you have such a sane girlfriend.

    People who take the initiative to apologize after a quarrel are not because they are wrong, but because they know how to cherish them. People who rush to pay for meals are not because they have a lot of money, but because they are too emotional. People who always give in when getting along, not because they are stupid, but because they really care.

    People who take the initiative to do more at work are not because they are stupid, but because they are serious and responsible. People who are willing to make profits in cooperation are not because of wealth, but because they value you. People who are willing to help you when you are in trouble are not because they owe it, but because they feel sorry for you.

    It's just that how many people can understand these simple truths, and how many people take others for granted that they are good to him.

    Intensified again and again, forgetting the kindness. People's hearts can't see clearly, but true feelings can witness. When you encounter something, you will understand who is worthy of deep friendship and who can't dig out your heart.

    Don't take other people's kindness to you as your use, and don't see others helping you as your luck. In this world, no one should let you help you, those who rush to pay and lend a helping hand are all because they really care about you.

    If you have such a person around you, please make friends for a lifetime and cherish it for a lifetime. Don't betray your true friends, don't abandon your lover, don't hurt your benefactor!

    After the quarrel, she admitted her mistake and explained that she still loves you It doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong The important thing is that he is willing to bow his head Whether it is your fault or not Life hunger is originally a rare practice of rotten pants celebration There is not necessarily an afterlife in this life Cherish it

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My girlfriend tells you that's my mistake, but in fact he's angry, and you can do that. My dear, you're right, it's me who was wrong, I think I'm doing a lot of inconsiderate now, I didn't take your feelings into account, it hurt your self-esteem, and it was also a big bruise on our relationship, I regret it very much, but what I said was like water spilled, and I couldn't take it back.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It shows that your girlfriend likes you very much and cares about you very much, so after arguing with you, she regrets it, feels that she is wrong with herself, and takes the initiative to admit her mistake to you, so you have to tease God to cherish your girlfriend who likes you so much.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First, it's not a problem that can be solved with points, friend. This is the most important thing.

    Second, my feeling is that when you feel that others have done something wrong or do not back down, you should first examine yourself, because once your behavior and words make your girlfriend uncomfortable, and she does not express it, then no matter how many correct reasons you have, you will only attract incomprehension. So, when you feel that the other party is wrong and want to say her, first make yourself invulnerable on your side, admit your mistakes, make due concessions (after all, you are a man), reflect on your own thinking, and change some views. After confirming that you have no problems, let's start the communication between the two.

    Thirdly, why did she let you before but not now? Is it her fault? What did her change lead to? Are you going to change that? Do you want her to change back? Well, look at yourself again in the second section and make sure you really want to do it.

    Fourth, in fact, I have repeatedly emphasized that you should find your own problems, which may make you feel incomprehensible, "It's obviously her problem, why do I keep reflecting on myself", why, because in fact, most of the time, the so-called quarrel is caused by both parties not giving in, and why are they unwilling to back down? Because you both feel that the other person is wrong. "So every time I quarrel, I'm tired, she's too good at protecting herself, and she herself says that every time she quarrels, she wraps her up with a thorn", everyone is not like this, even if they do wrong, they don't want to admit it, they would rather use more mistakes and lies to cover up their previous mistakes and lies, you may feel that you can't touch her true thoughts, but in fact, it's not, it's just that she doesn't want you to see her mistakes, what does she want?

    Recognition and inclusion.

    Fifth, it is not helpful to talk too much in theory, let's talk about what to do, 1Be honest about your problems and hope for forgiveness (with a manly demeanor). 2.

    Give the other person space, don't ask questions, and don't ask if you want to ask. (Prevarication doesn't mean that I don't care about you) 3Don't keep telling how much you love her, how much you've done for her, and how much she doesn't understand.

    I never felt that love was by saying) 4Don't let go of the core issue, the root of the quarrel, in fact, you don't want to let go, this is to insist, when you retreat to reconcile, it is easy to fall into passivity. ("I can leave *** alone, but about *** I really want you to listen to me, because *** is pretty much how it feels) 5

    If not the core issue ... Let it all go, remember that you are a man, and make the concessions you deserve. 6.

    Believe every word she says, when there is no conclusive evidence to prove it to be a lie.

    Finally, confirm whether you really love her, and after confirmation, you can try the above methods to communicate.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Women will always change, you have to let her, tolerate her, and tell her with practical actions that you love her!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    She and I are the same kind of people, and you and my boyfriend should be the same kind of people. When I was young, I should have been hurt too much, out of distrust, out of self-preservation, out of fear of quarreling, out of inner anxiety and fear, out of panic.

    Actually, she loves you, and so do you. She is stubborn, stubborn, and does not admit defeat in front of you, just because of you. Such a state of almost madness was never for the sake of others.

    After you understand this, don't quarrel with her when you quarrel with each other, maybe watch her wait for her to express what she wants to say in a way that seems unreasonable to outsiders, and then tell her that you care and cherish her, and hope that she will bravely come out of her own circle and say that you have always been there.

    Girls of our kind of character are sensitive and delicate, and sometimes they will think about the other party's unintentional words and end up messing around, and they always have to care too much.

    It took my boyfriend two years to slowly pull me out of my former world, during which I indifferently hurt him many times, and I broke up many times, and every time I turned around, it was always two people who shed tears, and he would hold me and hug me at the first time, and when I said when I could not be scared, I would cover up my fear with anger. He was a kind and patient man.

    I also sincerely hope that you will be well, lovers, dependents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Whether it's your fault or not, admit your mistake first, let him feel indebted to you, feel that you care about him very much, and he won't be like this! Of course, I don't know how you hurt him, so let him regain his confidence in you on the basis of your injury!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe you're doing something wrong. A girl doesn't change her attitude for no reason.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Some feelings Qingliang is noisy. It depends on what you're arguing about. When two people get along together, it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps, and it is inevitable that they will quarrel over some small things.

    If it's not a big, serious thing, then it's nothing. However, it's better to be bland, two people get along together, they have to be humble to each other, and there must always be a reputation for enlightenment and humility for each other.

    If you love her enough, if you can tolerate all her bad temper, then you can still go on, if you quarrel a lot, after a long time, you will get tired of it. Find a time to talk to her well, your temper can be changed, it depends on whether you are willing to change it for you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Someone has taught you :

    1.Don't bother her yet, both of them are quiet. But you can send a text message or something, otherwise the girl will yell again: I'm angry, you ignore me... then cracked.

    2.Men should be generous, since it is a private matter. Honestly admit your mistakes, generally after 2-3 days, do more self-criticism, the upper lip touches the lower lip to stare at the lip search, you have a lot of meat.

    The thief is sincere, but don't immediately ask the girl to forgive you, the girl will have vanity: I forgive you now, you think I'm a bully...

    3.On the basis of three meals a day to admit mistakes, generally 3 or 4 times is OK, at this time the girl will take the hot iron to say that the request, you nod like a chicken pecking rice.

    4.Immediately after forgiveness, act like a minion, she is Lafayette; Of course you're not Li Lianying... What to eat, drink, play, and have fun, you can n accompany you, and you will return to your previous state at any cost.

    5.Reason with her when you're about the same, that's the most important thing. Of course, you don't expect a single quarrel to solve all problems, it's a process of quantitative change to qualitative change.

    It's been a lot of talking, and you need to change both of you to run in with Tongli. There is no other half with 100 points, only two people with 50 points. Good luck.

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