I m very conflicted, why do I have ambivalence?

Anyway, I can see that you love your family and your man, so I'm sure you just need a little advice. First of all, I hope you can calm down and think carefully about who is lighter and who is heavier. Everyone's opinion may be different, but the goal is the same, that is, you live happily, maybe money, maybe love, who knows?

There are very few parents who don't love their children, so maybe your parents are still looking at people with old eyes, but that's okay. Tell yourself, what are you really worth in his heart? If he loves you and wants you to love him, then it's very simple, let your man prove to your parents, "I can protect your daughter very well!"

I can make your daughter happy! "Right? Don't dwell on it, because it's not for you to think about it, it's for him, understand?

Of course, his parents are "sincere" to you, there is no money at home, and there are stupid women who are willing to send them to the door, of course, they have to do their best to stay.

If I were your parents, I would have to draw a line with you, and you would have to go any way, but don't pull your parents on your back. Don't go one day when the money for the child's milk powder is gone, go home and ask for it from the parents. You're so light!

Those things are gone, you can earn money to buy them again, "You have the ability, now you can earn money to buy a house, try?" It's a laughing death! If you don't have this ability, don't talk about love as soon as possible.

Whether you love him or not is your own business and has nothing to do with your parents. They are not obligated to bear the consequences of your choice. In the future, no matter what changes, don't expect your parents to clean up the mess for you.

Remember: the water spilled by the married daughter, you will end up like this.

The perspective of parents is for your good, but how many true loves can a person find in his life? Their family conditions are not good, but there is no problem with ordinary life, if you are not a person who pursues a high life. You can create your future with him.

Even if you choose the wrong one, it's so easy to get divorced and married in this era... Parents are always there for your good. But I'm you, and that man's family isn't too poor to eat. I think I can marry him.

The family has always considered for you, for your good, if you really love that boy, you have to think about how you will live your life in the future, whether you can accept that kind of day...

Ordinary parents think like this, it's better to go with the flow, and think about opening up.

Self-contradiction, everyone has this kind of heart, even if it is something that has been done or said, there will be this problem. Contradiction is due to the psychological characteristics of having two or more choices, each with its own advantages and disadvantages, bad or afraid to choose, unable to let go and unable to pick up, and suffering from gains and losses. If you get this thing in your hand, you will still be attached to the thing you can't get in your heart.

The mind wants to let go of something, but reality needs it again. It is manifested as indecisiveness, in the heart everything is inseparable, can not know the fact that only one can be chosen, whether it is good or bad, you should take all the responsibility. When the interruption continues, it is chaotic.

Contradictory people do not have a strong subjective consciousness and a weak will, and they are easy to listen to the feeling that the wind is rain. The solution is to see the real situation, not to be distracted by one's own emotional needs or to care about what others say, and to base oneself on one's own rational judgment. There is also simplifying some of the problems in the contradiction, or not rushing to deal with it, and letting time slowly deal with this contradiction. Hope.