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This is no longer a real friend, although many people in the current society are taking advantage of the relationship, but as a friend, if you can't help each other, just use the relationship, you don't have to get along.
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Friends are meant to take advantage of it
Even if you are a best friend or brother for many years, don't you still use friendship to enrich your life?
My childhood playmates are too, so aren't you using TA to eliminate your boredom?
So the current use of interests, there is nothing worth studying... People change...
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It's normal, as long as it's really good to you, it's okay to use it or not, it's you who think too much about it.
If your friend's family is wealthy and you need to borrow money if something happens, then is this called exploitation?
As long as you are good and sincere enough, you can not be in front of people and behind people.
If you see him, he's still your friend.
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Then don't treat him as a friend.
Friends can help each other, but they shouldn't be taken advantage of.
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Then use it, some friends are used to make friends, and some "friends" are used to use.
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Don't be afraid that your friends will use you, but you will not give your friends a place to use, friends are renting from each other, knowing that the rent is always happy, I rent you to send, if you want to rent something, you can rent it.
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It depends on what you define that person, a friend is to ask him to do things for you, and a brother is what you want to do for him. It doesn't matter if you take advantage of your friends, don't take advantage of your brothers.
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2. Unintentionally taking advantage of others (he is using you without even knowing himself) Such people are related to the above. If friendship is measured by the value of exploitation, then there are no friends in this world. The situation you are talking about.
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The world is too dark, and everyone is careful.
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I'm afraid it depends on what you think, friend, if you really think that there is only use left between friends, then the only reason for your relationship to continue, that is, there is a relationship of interest between you, if you care about him very much, you go on, if you don't want to, just stay indifferent, I think one day he will realize how important you are to him.
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People are originally used to each other, and it is good to get used to it.
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Friends will also use each other, but if they are used in some bad ways, then they are not friends.
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This is normal now, although there will be disappointment, but it is true.
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No, it can't be covered by bias.
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That's the reality, and there's a lot of interest, and it's up to you to maintain it.
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There are no eternal friendships, only permanent interests.
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It's very helpless, I can't rule it out, it's hard to find true friends now! There will be a big difference between classmates and friends in elementary school and junior high school and high school and college! Not to mention the friends I make now, most of them are snobbish! Society is like this, simple people are hurt!
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Mutual use is based on egoistic considerations, while friends, on the contrary, require altruism rather than egoism, even if there is an egoistic element in one's own will. Friends who take advantage of each other are just friends of villains.
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No, a friend is to help you when you are in trouble, and you also want to help them when they are in trouble. But only if you treat them with sincerity.
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This kind of friend is not a real friend at all, and friends should understand and cherish each other.
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That's right.,Don't use each other.,Isn't it a waste of everyone's time to do something meaningless.。。
This is inevitable, a society of benefits, what do you want if you don't seek benefits?
Looking for an inefficient life??
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It's very simple, what you use each other is friends, everything is a benefit, if only one party keeps paying a loss-making business, and the other party can't get the return he wants, this kind of friendship will not last long, similarly, you have a bad friend, every time you take your money, spend yours, use yours, your girlfriend pays you back, what will happen to you, even your wife is green yours?
If you'd love it, why don't you send me money? I don't have money, you give me money, I don't have a girlfriend, you give my girlfriend, I don't have a wife, you give me a wife, I don't have a villa, you give me a villa, who is willing?
In the interest society, Marx said that everything is interests, only eternal interests, there are no eternal enemies, and there are no eternal friends. It's just that if the interests are big enough, everything is easy to do, not friends can become friends, and even enemies can become friends, believe it or not, if I give you money, you are willing to be my friend, as long as the benefits are big enough for you. Not all friends want to be friends.
And meet your needs and what you want.
If someone, you want money, give you money, want fame, give you fame, want sex, give you women, whatever you choose, what you want, what you give you, such a person, most people are willing to be friends with him, do you say no. Want power, give you power, want status to give you status.
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Ordinary friends vs real friends.
An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. The shoulders of a true friend once made your tears water.
An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names. A real friend has their** on the address book.
An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning.
An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps. A true friend will ask why it's only called now.
An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.
An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out.
An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest. A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.
An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.
An ordinary friend asks first and foremost when you ask for help. A true friend will silently help you and ask again.
An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever!
An ordinary friend will rush to pay for dinner with you. A true friend will look at the wallet before paying for it.
An ordinary friend will take good things to you. A true friend will take the heart to you.
When you have money, everyone comes to call you brothers, when you don't have money, when you have difficulties, people leave you, only those who are sincere will come to help you, that is a friend, when you try your best but can't help your friend's difficulties, a real friend will not complain about you, but in turn comfort you and thank you for your efforts, a real friend will not care about you chatting with other people and taunt you, because friends trust each other.
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No, friends will want to help, and friends are the best testimony of friendship.
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Friends learn from each other.
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See what kind of friend it is, and then define it.
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No, friends are there to accompany you through a lifetime of troubles.
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The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is sweet.
The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the "light as water" here does not mean that the relationship between gentlemen is as light as water, but refers to the interaction between gentlemen, without any utilitarian heart, and their exchanges are purely friendship, long and cordial. The communication between villains contains a strong utilitarian heart, they build their friendship on the basis of mutual use, on the surface it seems to be "sweet", if the other party can not meet the utilitarian needs, it is easy to break off, and there are only interests between them. Therefore, when interacting with people, you should look for gentlemen, not villains.
What you mean by taking advantage of each other is just a relationship between villains.
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If you really have to care so much, there is no word friend, and everything can be attributed to interests.
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That's not real friends, real friends are called helping each other.
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A part of human interaction.
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There are many levels of friends, and using each other is just one of them!
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I'm determined too! A good friend is there for you when you're down, it's about giving you encouragement, it's about supporting, it's about comforting, it's not something to be used for, it's not a good friend, it's a tool.
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People who don't speak well use each other to see from what angle you think about it. If you feel like he's good for you, why not? If you feel that he has hurt you and made you sad, then you should accept the reality appropriately and find a way to prevent such a thing from happening again.
Of course, the best friend, in my mind, still depends on the best friend, thinking that he is mine, and his relationship with others is not as good as mine, but when he has a better friend, I will naturally feel that I am abandoned, forgotten and even deceived by friendship, but these things can't be good, so I still live a good life, friends are still friends.