Shouldn t poor boys really be in love?

People are poor, I think the other half of your love should see your future potential, material is important, but girls often value the quality of a boy, they appreciate optimism and humor are more self-motivated boys, except for gold worshippers. Poverty is only temporary, just like Ma Yun was also poor in the early days of his business, but things are man-made, and fate needs to be reversed, so you shouldn't have any inferiority complex. A poor boy can pursue his own happiness, even if she looks down on herself, he must prove it to her.

Personally, you have to know who you are, and the current status quo is something you can't change. Even if the girl you like is with you, what about other people's eyes? Do you want the woman you love to carry a bad reputation with you?

That's why there is a door, and it's not a matter of one person, it's two people! So there's always a lot of despair in life, and all you have to do is pile up despair and slowly get used to despair. You have nothing, so God won't take everything from you!

Get used to it!

The key is not poverty, but whether one will work hard to change the status quo, the second is what the appearance, temperament, and mentality are, and the third is that if the first two conditions are normal, it is fate that has not arrived.

I really want to ask you a question, how much do you think is poor and how much is rich? In fact, the key problem is that you don't find the right person, not the problem of rich and poor.

It's just that I haven't found the one who really loves you.

Because Chinese society generally pays for boys when they fall in love, many boys will get poorer and poorer after falling in love.

This is a very interesting phenomenon, although Chinese society has always claimed the so-called equality between men and women, but when boys and girls are together, girls generally feel that it is natural for boys to pay, and at the same time think that boys should take care of girls. In such a situation, there is no absolute fairness between boys and girls, and boys will also think that they should be the ones who pay the bills, so boys will have more expenses when they fall in love.

1. Boys generally take the initiative to pay.

When two people are together, the boy will take the initiative to pay for the girl, and there will also be various basic expenses. Because many young people play around when they are in love, they also have various consumption problems, which directly leads to many boys becoming poorer and poorer after falling in love. This has almost become a common social phenomenon, girls will become more and more stable and mature because of falling in love, and boys will become poorer and poorer because of falling in love.

Second, it is related to a person's own financial habits.

I don't think it's okay to blame the fact that boys are getting poorer and poorer because of falling in love, and for boys who have better financial habits, even if they fall in love with girls, they won't get poorer because of it。This problem is actually more related to a person's own financial habits, if a person's financial habits are not good, no matter what the person's income is, it is actually difficult for the person to save money. <>

3. I think girls should also take the initiative when they fall in love.

As I said at the beginning, this society has always talked about the so-called equality between men and women, and I believe that girls should not mention the so-called equality between men and women when they are only unfavorable to themselves, and girls also need to fulfill the basic obligation of equality between men and women as much as possible. Some girls only ask others to provide them with an equal platform for men and women, but they ignore that the competition between men and women itself means that they need to bear the corresponding responsibilities and obligations. <>

Because it costs a lot of money to fall in love, even if the girl does not ask to spend money, the process of falling in love will cost more than the usual daily life, because there will be a lot of little romance and small surprises.

Because after a boy falls in love, he wants to give his girlfriend a gift during the New Year's holidays, and if he goes out to eat, most of the money is spent by the boy, which is a lot of money.

I think it's probably because they don't want to wronged their girlfriends, so they are getting poorer and poorer.

Boys will become very poor after falling in love, why is that?

1.Because in Chinese society, boys generally have to pay when they fall in love, so many boys will become poorer and poorer after falling in love. This is a very interesting phenomenon.

Although Chinese society has always claimed the so-called equality between men and women, when boys and girls are together, girls generally take it for granted that boys pay the bills, and also think that boys should take care of girls. In such a situation, there is no absolute fairness between boys and girls. Guys will also think that they should pay for themselves, so guys will have more expenses when they are in a relationship.

2.Because it costs a lot of money to fall in love, even if a girl doesn't want money, the process of falling in love will cost more than the usual daily life, because there are a lot of little romances and small surprises. Because boys fall in love, they have to give gifts to their girlfriends during the New Year's holidays, and when they go out to eat, most of them also spend money on boys, which is a lot of money.

When you pursue beautiful clothes and high-end cosmetics, you have to start cutting back on food and clothing to save money for the future. Just in order not to wronged their lovers, they chose to be silent and work harder. With limited energy, they may no longer be as attentive, gentle, and considerate as they used to be, but they know how to take responsibility and become mature.

Boys are poor because they choose to wronged themselves and don't want you to suffer.

Then, if something goes wrong, you can fix them. If it can't be solved, solve the person, not complain. In fact, it has nothing to do with girls spending money and boys being stingy.

Find someone you like, and don't make do just because you can't find the person you want. The most enviable appearance of love may not be the vigor of love, but the warmth after time. Even after a long time, there are still people who are willing to make you happy and make you laugh.

When two people laugh together, it is true happiness.

The main reason is that after the boy falls in love, he gives most of the money to his girlfriend, and when he goes out, he will buy things for his girlfriend and pay for meals, so he will become poorer and poorer.

This is because boys often give girls gifts and spend money, so they become very poor.

This is mainly because if a boy meets someone he likes, he will give unconditionally, and will spend money to create romantic surprises for the girl and buy him a favorite gift.

One, really poor, pure whining I think, such whining is really boring. If it is useful to complain, who will work hard to strive for progress? Second, he is really poor, I hope you can help him, this man is very poor, and he hopes that your girlfriend will pity him.

Then, financially bail him out. Usually, you pay more.

Third, if you are pretending to be poor, you don't want to pay for this, and men are not poor. Maybe he has more money than you do. However, he slammed the door. His money is his own money, and then he doesn't spend his own money to make you soft-hearted and you pay.

Fourth, fake poverty, and then test you a few meanings Some rich second generation is like this, I'm afraid that you don't really love him, but covet his money. So, pretend to be poor depending on your attitude. It's an act of testing true love, and it's really low

1.Spend more than you can afford. Keep up appearances.

2.Put all your thoughts on love.

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1. The first is time. Most of the time before the relationship is engaged in a career and making money, then his income will be considerable, and after the relationship, part of the time will be divided to accompany his girlfriend, then the time to make money will be reduced, and the income will be reduced by a part.

2 The second is overhead. Before falling in love, most of the boy's income was used to eat and buy some daily necessities, and some boys who like games will use some money on games, but most of the money will be saved. After falling in love, in addition to the boy's money for meals and daily necessities, he will buy gifts for his girlfriend, including anniversaries, various festivals and birthdays, and some quite expensive gifts, so a small part of his money will be saved, and the expenses will be relatively large.

Because boys have to communicate with girls, they also have to buy some gifts, or invite girls to dinner, etc., it costs some money, so boys will become poorer and poorer in love.

Why are boys getting poorer and poorer in love: because boys have to have love funds, like usual, go out to play, go to dinner, watch movies, go shopping, buy things, most of them are spent by boys, they use part of the money on women, and some of them have to eat, wear, live and travel, basically can't save money, sometimes it's not enough to spend money.

Because one person wants to buy this thing, I will think that it is too expensive not to buy it, two people I may think that two people buy one and try it and spend it, and I have to give gifts during the New Year's holidays, and two people have to spend time together, time is money, so I am getting poorer and poorer.

In this realistic society where wolves have more meat and less meat, boys generally consume more than girls together, so it is understandable that boys in love will become poor.

If a boy goes out with his girlfriend when he is in love, most of the consumption is out of the boy, the cost of love is quite high, there is no stable job, not a high income will basically be a little unbearable, if everyone is a student, the girlfriend should also share with him, or try not to have a high consumption and so on.

Because love costs money, and many boys have no financial foundation, so it will be like this.

may be because some girls like boys who are willing to spend money for themselves, know a little romance, and can live a life like an idol drama together, so they arbitrarily think that the other party is responsible and can be trusted.

Maybe it's because there is a lot of material needs for the woman, and the boy is not a rich second generation or a person with a high salary.

I think it depends, maybe it's because you really love her and are willing to spend money on her, so you are poor. But love is mutual, and if a girl loves you, she will definitely spend money to prepare a surprise for you.

In the process of falling in love, it is normal for boys to pay more, whether it is financially or emotionally, as long as the other party treats him sincerely.

Because it is the material woman who chooses.

People who have girlfriends not only have to spend money for themselves but also for their girlfriends, not to mention giving gifts, they always have to eat and watch movies together, which is naturally more than when they are single.

Because I want to buy a gift for my girlfriend, and I have all kinds of anniversaries, which require a lot of money.

I have a girlfriend to raise, and almost all of my friends pay for love.

Because it costs money to fall in love.

One sentence explanation, all the things I bought for my girlfriend! It costs money to go out with your girlfriend! It's nothing.

Because love requires a certain amount of material maintenance.

Because he really likes this girl really well, she likes to give to others, and she also has a girl who will not treat herself badly.

Because men pay for things when they come out to buy things, that's why girls like to find men with a lot of money.