Why did the elders of Jiafu in the dream of Red Mansions refuse Lin Daiyu to become Jia Baoyu s wife

The elders of Jiafu refused Lin Daiyu to become Baoyu's wife, which was in the last 40 episodes, which was contrary to Cao Xueqin's original intention in the first 80 episodes. Jia Mu is first of all Bao Dai's protector, and is a strong supporter of the Mushi Qianmeng, when Lin Daiyu first arrived in Jiafu, Jia Mu had already made suggestive arrangements for the future of the two, so that the two of them could eat and live together, and the two had no guesses. The old lady's right-hand man, Sister Feng, naturally understood it, and revealed it in jokes many times.

The whole Jia Mansion knew Jia's mother's arrangement, and only said that the two were still young, and they would be Daiyu in the future. And Mrs. Wang naturally hopes that her niece Baochai will become Bao's second grandmother, but with Mrs. Wang's strength, she can't compete with Jia's mother. And Gao E's continuation tampered with Mr. Cao's original meaning.

According to the development of the situation, it should be after the death of the old lady, no one made the decision for Bao Dai, and it became a "golden and jade relationship".

It's very simple, Lin Daiyu has no family background and no background (her parents are dead), so she can't be the object of marriage.

Because everyone in Jiafu felt that Daiyu was too stingy, and the attackers were obstructed from it

In feudal society, it is necessary to consider the right person.

Lin Daiyu's parents died and sent people under the fence.

In addition, the body is delicate.

Delicate, suspicious, and withdrawn.

Because Daiyu's family has no power or power, and Daiyu's heart is not likeable. Baochai is the opposite!

Because Xue Baochai's personality is better than Lin Daiyu, and Lin Daiyu is frail and sickly, squeamish, it is estimated that she does not like the elders Moreover, Lin Daiyu has no family background, and her parents are dead, so her family background is difficult to match with Jia Baoyu. It's roughly like this, and if you dig carefully, there will still be a deeper answer, so you have to study it carefully and feel it yourself.

There are many reasons, first of all, family problems, Daiyu has no way to send people under the fence, and second, there is a Baochai who is more perfect than Daiyu in the eyes of the elders. Third, Daiyu is arrogant and not a good candidate to be a wife.

This leads to a tragic end.

Jia Baoyu did not marry Lin Daiyu not because he didn't love him, but because of the pressure of the family and the constraints of feudal etiquette, he had to be with Baochai, all of which had no choice, because free love was not advocated in ancient times, and even if the two were happy, they had to follow the words of the matchmaker.

Although Baoyu fell in love with Daiyu when they first met, and had a strong curiosity about her because of Daiyu's silence, he kept going to her to have fun, and later Daiyu also fell in love with him, but because of his mother's opposition, the two were still unable to be together after all. In the end, Daiyu cried to death on the wedding night of Baoyu and Baochai, which was very miserable.

Jia Baoyu's personality analysis

Seeing this, everyone may think that Baoyu is cowardly, he has the courage to love, but he does not have the courage to take responsibility, and his blind obedience to the arrangement of his family is destroying the lives of two people and women. Daiyu died of sadness when he married Baochai, although he married Baochai and gave her a name, but he failed to give her more love, and finally became a monk, so that Baochai remained a widow for a lifetime.

But this is the etiquette of feudal society, no matter how much Baoyu resists, it is useless, no one can fight against these rules and regulations. Although Mother Jia likes Daiyu and thinks she is a good girl, Mrs. Wang doesn't like her, she can see at a glance that Daiyu is not a good stubble, too cautious, and very worried, such a person must be difficult to get along with.

The key is that Daiyu still has fun with Baoyu, and never lets him study or become an official, if his son is with him, it will be fine.

First of all, in this sequel to "Dream of Red Mansions" written by Gao E, the reason why Jia's mother didn't want Lin Daiyu to marry Jia Baoyu was because Lin Daiyu was too weak to spread the branches for the family, or it could be because of Jia Baoyu's illness, because Jia Baoyu was seriously ill and delirious at that time, or it could be because of Chongxi.

Baoyu marries. Cao Xueqin, the author of "Dream of Red Mansions", may not think so, but the only thing that is certain is that Lin Daiyu will definitely die, as long as she returns tears to the mortal world, she will return to the heavenly realm and will not stay too long, which can be seen according to the story of Zhu Cao written by Cao Xueqin.

Lin Daiyu. In fact, the Xue family marrying a daughter and marrying a family in Jiafu is also in the weighing of interests, because Xue Pan got into a lawsuit at that time, and for Xue Pan, Xue's mother was willing to marry her daughter into Jiafu. Different people may have different ideas when watching "Dream of Red Mansions", and the reasons may not be too different.

Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Baoyu was forced by the pressure of his family and the constraints of feudal etiquette, he had to be with Baochai and not marry Lin Daiyu. Although when Baoyu first met, Bimo fell in love with Daiyu, and because of Daiyu's silence, he had a strong curiosity about her, and then he kept going to her to have fun, and later Daiyu also fell in love with him, but because of his mother's opposition, the two still couldn't be together after all.

Dream of Red Mansions plotThis film takes the rise and fall of the four major families of Jia, Shi, Wang, and Xue as the background, takes the rich son Jia Baoyu as the perspective, and takes the love and marriage tragedy of Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai as the main line, depicting the life of a group of boudoir beauties whose manners and knowledge are above the eyebrows. It shows the true beauty of human nature and tragedy, and it can be said that it is a TV series that shows the beauty of women and the various aspects of ancient Chinese society from all angles.