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Silly girl, you shouldn't have done it at the time, do you know how much damage it did to your body! Poor child. I understand your current situation, in fact, there is nothing disgraceful about your matter, you should not be too inferior, since it has happened, it should not be your responsibility alone, I think first of all, the man should bear the main responsibility.

Now it's not a matter of solving things or not, but I think, you don't want to be with him anymore, he treats you badly, how can you bully a weak girl with their parents, if this continues, even if you get married, you won't be happy. If you want to open a little, it's not a big deal, there are a lot of good boys now, this kind of thing is very common in this society now, he doesn't know to cherish you, you shouldn't be good to her, women should stand up on their own, don't rely on men, remember, no one can rely on yourself, you are still very young, forget about this matter, just treat it as a nightmare, work hard, live well, be happy, and don't hate him, just as if he never existed, because he didn't deserve your hatred, girls have a good life with dignity, I believe that you will find the person who truly loves you.

No need, you pay so much for him, a person follows him thousands of miles to his hometown, pregnant and **, can't let them know your existence, your endurance is really strong, it's all because of deep love, but now you don't have to, I can't say the words of comfort, my heart is also very sad, sometimes I really want to cry, why are women often hurt more, let down and abandoned, forget it, turn around and disappear in style, never see him again, you won't have results, What is there to be nostalgic for such a cowardly man, in another ten years, you will only smile at the experience of your youth.

In a word: take the initiative to ask for a breakup! It's useless for an unassertive man like this to come, even if you marry him?

You're going to end up like this! It's better to break up decisively first, and then live well. Pack up your mood, live a new life, and pursue your own happiness again!

Anyway, no one knows about your **, and you'd better not let your next boyfriend know, Bijing men are stingy and selfish! Although the two have to confess when they are together, it also depends on what happens! You don't need to let him know about this kind of thing!

When I was young, I always made some mistakes, some good and some bad, and now that things have come to this, I think it's better to give up on your own initiative. Why? Sometimes, we need to give up something to maintain our self-esteem, although it will hurt and hurt, but the so-called eat a trench to grow a wisdom, and when we are older, we will understand the mystery of this.

He doesn't have the fortitude to stick with your parents about your affection, so he doesn't deserve it. Start over, after all, you're still young, it's just time to throw away the naivety and stuff like that.

In fact, maybe your resistance is not so great, but your boyfriend is too weak, maybe his feelings for you are not the same as yours. It's better to give up, everyone will find someone who really belongs to you, do you think you will be happy if you really marry such a person in the future? Did he give up first, it should be him who needs to work hard, he doesn't fight for it, what's the use of us doing this.

Actually, I'm quite similar to you, my boyfriend's family is particularly opposed, because of the physiognomy problem, my boyfriend and I have been persisting for a year, but recently his family has become more and more fierce, and we have chosen to break up, my boyfriend said that he really can't bear to see his mother like this, a very shrewd and capable woman, but in order to oppose both of us, they are about to die. We are also reluctant, but what can we do? The road is still going on, and keeping what is useless will only make you more miserable.

No, because from your description I feel that he doesn't particularly love you, if you continue it will hurt your parents and you more, people are responsible for their own youth, but also responsible for their own lives, cherishing themselves is cherishing their own family.

Beg! Let's do it yourself. You have to face real problems before you get married. Now at least I can be independent.

Marriage is a matter for both men and women, and the opinions of parents can only be used as a reference. Parents can't arrange marriages, the key is to look at your boyfriend's attitude, if he is sincere to you, then he should do his parents' work. If your boyfriend also looks down on you, it must have broken up.

Falling in love is a matter of two people.

But marriage is about two families.

Young men and women fall in love, and at the end of the day, they need to take them home to meet each other's parents, and they also need to ask for their permission.

In many relationships, both parents often respect their children's opinions and will not interfere too much, but will give support and blessings, but there are always times when parents and children disagree.

It may be that the woman's parents do not agree for some reason, or it may be that the man's parents have other ideas.

When one day, you fall in love, but your boyfriend's parents are unwilling to let the two of you be together, you will inevitably be sad, reluctant, and unwilling to give up easily.

And at this time, even if you don't want to, his parents will probably always force him and do a lot of things to hinder the two of you, and you still have to make a decision to ruin your hands.

In the end, whether to break up or choose to persevere, you have to refer to your own ideas, and you should take a look at your boyfriend's situation.

Summary. Dear, at this time, the situation is relatively clear.

Parents and boyfriends are on the same front, and they both want you to say goodbye to this relationship.

In the absence of support, choosing to give up is not an escape, but a relief.

What should I do if my parents don't agree and my boyfriend wants to break up again?

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Dear, at this time, the situation is relatively clear.

Parents and boyfriends are on the same front, and they both want you to say goodbye to this relationship.

In the absence of support, choosing to give up is not an escape, but a relief.

If you are unwilling to give up, you will only get the cooperation of others. And the situation is already very clear, I hope you don't insist too much and exhaust yourself.

After the breakup, it may be that under normal circumstances, the parents already know, and it cannot be said that the parents broke up without knowing it, and generally the contradictions before the breakup have been very intensified, rather than saying that one thing happened to break up, so the parents have heard about it, and they have already knew.

1. Parents will know sooner or later, and when parents know instead of knowing from you for the first time, what kind of situations and phenomena do you imagine will appear.

2. Parents are the people who know your character best, from childhood to adulthood, parents are the people who have been with you for the longest time, and they can see at a glance what you are thinking. So when you communicate with your parents, you can get more comfort from them.

3. Parents will communicate with you verbally, help you relieve the sadness in your heart, analyze the reasons for your breakup, analyze the inappropriateness between you, and avoid the same mistake last time when you are dating.

So as to sum up the experience, instead of being sad for someone who does not belong to you.

4. Sometimes, there is still a certain generation gap between you and your parents, and they don't understand your current life, so when you communicate with your parents, try to be easy to understand.

5. If you don't want to disappoint your parents too much, you can re-associate with someone who is suitable, and as a parent, I just hope that you will start a family as soon as possible, and I hope you can find a reliable person who suits you, and it doesn't have to be with anyone.

Recommend such a case or do not go 1He wants you to go, it's just his immature side, it's just for the pleasure of fish and water, and it doesn't bring you a future and hope2His family is now the biggest obstacle between you, and if you go to live with your parents behind your back before they agree, I think they will think you are more immature, and they will not agree to this matter3

If you do this, it will also cause strong resistance from your family and cast a shadow on your real relationship in the future4If you stick to the door so upside down, you will be looked down upon, and even if you enter marriage in the future, it will be difficult to achieve happiness5Take 10,000 steps back, these are no problem, do you believe that if you go to work in their factory, you can do your job competently, do everything you need, do not leak, let people say you are good, then the people around you are resistant to you, you are not right, the future is worrying, so, or wait until you have a good name and then go.

<> parents haven't seen it, why did the woman unilaterally go to the man's house for the New Year, even if she is engaged, she will have a meal at noon and go back to her home for Chinese New Year's Eve at night?

Is your boyfriend's stupidity really like he's fragrant? Whose daughter is rushing to the man's house? It's okay to meet, go out and book a hotel, see you officially, don't want to give people a set of horses, if you really go to his house for the New Year in the thirtieth Chinese New Year's Eve, his family can't tell you behind his back, saying that you are a girl's family, and you didn't have a single stroke to rush to his house for the New Year, I can't wait to marry his family and show off my son's ability!

Nuclear model Kai. When the time comes, your reputation will spread as if you were already living with someone else.

Then you can also send him an invitation to come to my house for the New Year, but if he refuses, you can directly refute him, so why do you have to ask me to go to your house?

I have received your hospitality, and at the same time, I thank you for valuing me so much, valuing our love, and it is also a sign that you treat me well, because you don't want to leave me for a moment, but we are still in love, if I go to your house for the New Year, the identity is not suitable now, and another one will put a lot of burden on your parents.

And my family, my parents are my daughter, and they will definitely not agree to me going to your house, such as the New Year's Eve now, and the two old top cows, may also have an impact on the development of love between you and me in the future, pro, small unbearable, chaotic schemes, not to mention that we are not far away, why quarrel over this meal?

I promise you, eat well on Chinese New Year's Eve, accompany you to the movies, I'm not with you again, I think you explain the reason to the couple, he will not be too strong, if he says all the good things, he is still strong and oppressive, then you might as well give him some hard work, are you right?

Do you want to listen to your parents' opinions when you are in love?

Personally, you can listen to your parents' opinions, because the vast majority of parents in the world want their children to live well, so you should listen to their views and refer to them.

Many people think that listening to their parents means that they have to do what they say. Please, you are already an adult, and your parents can listen to their opinions and choose for yourself. Love and marriage are related to the happiness of your own life, think carefully and make your own choice.

All love can listen to the opinions of parents and consider how to do it yourself.

In fact, most of our parents' opinions come from their life experiences, and our thoughts are just that we feel happy to be with him at the moment, and we think too much about the future and too simple. The opinion of your parents is definitely a factor that cannot be ignored, but the most important thing is to listen to your own heart, because it is not your parents who can accompany you until you grow old, but your other and you.

Do you have to listen to your parents when you fall in love?

In real life, most girls will not listen to their parents' opinions, and even if their parents strongly oppose them, they will only turn into an underground relationship and no longer open to their parents. But such a relationship is often difficult to get to the end, and it usually takes several years to finally break up. So, what's wrong in between?

Is it really the parents' judgment that is right? Not really. The core question is:

The pressure from your parents makes you neglect to observe each other, and instead focus on confronting your parents, trying to prove that your choice is correct. And the more you want to prove it, the less you will look at the other party's shortcomings, the more you will not look at the other party objectively, you will look at him with a filter, and you will not be able to listen to the negation of others about him. You will feel that when others deny him, they are denying yourself.

So, should you listen to your parents in love? Parents' opinions can be consulted. But in this process, you must see your partner's shortcomings, run in with him, get along normally, and find out whether you are suitable in time.

Don't let the pressure from your parents blind you.

Of course, if your parents don't agree, you can't break up, because the two of you have gone through a lot of hardships, and you have experienced a lot of difficulties since you started chasing her, because the girl you like must be very good, and there are many people chasing her, and you chase her from so many people, it must mean that you have spent a lot of time and energy, and there must be a run-in period between the two of you together, the two of you have gone through the run-in period, and the two of you will cultivate the same interests and hobbies, and then fall in love, At this time, you will definitely not easily want to give up your hard-won love, and the two of you have experienced a period of time and feel that you can take her to meet your parents, which must indicate that you have made a lot of determination to date yourself with this person, grow old together, and go to the end of your life together, no matter what it is, hinder the two of you. should not break up, because love is more valuable than family affection. Love is completely a magnetic field reaction between two people, the two of you are together simply because you like yourself, and you support you through your life because of your love for each other.