Crush, crush, is this considered a crush?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's a crush.,I think.,If you like someone, you don't say it.,Besides, the two of you are far apart.。 He won't know. Press.

    If you don't know, you won't have a chance. You should calm down for a few days and sort out your feelings for him. After all, only you know about it.

    If you really like him, find a chance to talk to him on QQ. If you are rejected, you can hold on. But don't hang yourself from a tree, there are still a lot of good boys in college.

    But you're tired and want to give up. Don't hesitate. The key is to look at your own thoughts, everyone will have a different opinion.

    Good luck.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think this should be regarded as a crush, since you have thought about becoming excellent for him, you should let him feel the efforts you have made for him, after showing your mentality, you should be brave enough to tell him what you really think about him, even if he is a rejection attitude towards you, you should also work hard for yourself, use your sincerity to open his closed heart, so that even if the final ending is not satisfactory, there will be no regrets!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Being on the outside and looking at all directions, it is clear that you are lost.

    Come to think of it, my sister's mood has three things: one is innocent, the other is aggrieved, and finally, tangled. We advocate a healthy and happy relationship between the sexes, in order to be less aggrieved, less entangled, and free up precious time to do happier things.

    In my bottom line, the beauty is not necessarily inclined to you. There are two suggestions, and you can choose as you choose: one.

    Give him time to settle the past and come back to you; Two. Straight to the point, ask him if he would like to try to have a relationship, and if he agrees, everyone is happy. If you refuse, but you are entangled in your heart, as for whether you can be an ordinary friend in the future, you don't even want to show up for a long chat with QQ, this friend doesn't matter.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's it. You can go and ask that buddy.,The bystander is clear.,You can see it clearly.。。 Or a very good friend. In the same class, the "strict-mouthed" one. Keep it a secret.

    And then let's do it. You're a liberal arts class, right? His communication should be good.

    Well.. And then you can actually try to chat with him. It's what you usually greet.

    Tell me something about yourself. He's a man with a story. Uh-huh.

    I'm as unconfident as you are. Ha ha.. But I think it's more demanding to be excellent.

    But you have to be confident. For example, you're very careful. I'm so "sensitive" too.

    Then be sure not to be impulsive. It takes time to get used to it. Believe me...

    And then think about it too. Actually, it should be an age when it's easy to be impulsive.。。 Like how long he can like it. It's hard to say if it's closer. Communicate with each other and be aware of ...

    Probably not a very good answer. Boys think differently. You can also wait. I hope you are happy.

    You must have the power of your own. Love is not humble. It's the effort of two people ...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Truth be told, he may care about you, but according to your account, there is no possibility of surpassing your friends.

    Everyone has their own world, and it is not easy to understand.

    Maybe it's because you can't understand him that you think he's worth pursuing.

    If you like someone, you first have to think about why you like him, instead of focusing on "I like him", which feels the most uncertain.

    A lot of feelings are missed in confusion or ambiguity, if you want to be with him, want him to understand your feelings, you have to find an opportunity to tell him.

    If you really can't speak, you can't worry about it anymore, and you can only suffer by yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In this way, you still have a liking for him. It's just like + goodwill.

    I think it's better for you to say it, at least to know what's going on in his heart.

    Have you considered being friends with him? Which one do you think you want to be a lover or a friend with him?

    If your relationship shows signs of further development and you're sure you love him, you might want to think about whether or not you want to go to his city after graduation.

    Remember, be prepared for bad and don't be too sad.

    In short, you must be confident and take the initiative! That's right.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Since love is to be pursued bravely, don't think about failure, life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, I realized that human life is a mood. It doesn't matter if it's poor, it's rich, it's good to gain, it's good to lose.

    It's all in the past. Think about it, no matter yesterday, today, tomorrow, it is a good day to be able to suddenly open up. Regardless of family, friendship, or love, it is a good mood to cherish it forever.

    Remember that there is a classic text message that says: Don't forget what you once had; What has been received is more cherished; Don't give up what belongs to you; What has been lost is kept as a memory; If you want to get it, you must work hard; When you are tired, put your heart on the shore; Don't regret your choice; Only when you are bitter do you know how to be satisfied; Enjoy life only when it hurts; I only understand to be strong when I am hurt; There are always windy mornings; There is always a splendid dusk; There are always shooting nights. Life is like a one-way ticket with no return, there is no rehearsal, and every show is live.

    Grasping every performance is the best cherishing of life. Seize the present and enjoy life!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you think of him a lot, and you can't help but laugh every time you think about it; I want to see him, and when I see him, I feel at a loss, blushing and heartbeat; I always want to be close to him, and when I see the opposite sex around him, I always want to know the relationship between that person and him from others. If that's the case for you, then I think you must be in love with this guy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Confident girls are the most beautiful, so first of all, you should be confident, and secondly, you should ask your heart what kind of feelings he has, whether you really know him enough, tolerate everything about him, if you feel that you really like it, you should boldly confess, let him know your mind, if you don't accept it, you can still continue to be friends, the most beautiful thing about youth is to have an impulsive stupidity, so boldly love. Come on!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't dwell on it, you have a crush on him. If you are happy because a person (not a relative or friend) is happy, and even more sad to see that person is sad, and you are willing to give up something very important for him, then you are done playing and you are in love with him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Emotional matters still depend on your feelings.

    Maybe he's running away from you, I think he also has a good impression of you, otherwise he won't be texting you all the time, you have to believe in yourself, confident girls are the most attractive, maybe you need to take the initiative a little bit, come on, I hope you can succeed,

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Confess, if you confess, you will have half the chance to be with him, and if you don't confess, you won't even have half the chance. Even if there is no result after the confession, it is better than dragging the mud and water now.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It should be counted! Be brave, girls.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think that's a crush.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't quite understand what you think, but in short, if he doesn't feel for you, he should give up completely, and there are some injuries that we don't know how to feel.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Crush is also a very beautiful feeling, in fact, I have always disapproved of crushes. There are always a lot of comments from readers in the background, and many of them have a common characteristic, always expecting me to interpret whether the other person is in love with me from the words they provide to the crush.

    I feel very distressed about this, and at the same time I feel very sad for them. The distress is that even a professional counselor, even with high-end equipment, cannot accurately judge a person's feelings for another person.

    Because human feelings are inherently deep and complex things, not to mention that they are constantly changing. Sometimes, it is impossible for a person to fully understand himself.

    However, many readers will be sad or happy because of the other party's words, eyes, and actions, which often affects their normal life. Crush is like a whirlpool, the closer you get to the center, the deeper you get into it. In the end, there are few joys and many pains.

    Love is a problem of the century, and people with crushes have more concerns. Because of low self-esteem, I feel that I am not good enough, and the other party should not like me; felt that the other party did not have enough expression, and he did not dare to confess first, feeling that he was not reserved enough; I'm afraid that I will be rejected when I open my mouth, and in the end, I don't even have to be a friend.

    In fact, the reason why love is sad and painful is not in the love itself, but in the fact that we need to respond, so pure crush will not be too hard, because there is no too much expectation, there is no expectation that love will come to you, as long as you see each other every day, you will be satisfied.

    However, most crushes are not like this, they are looking forward to and waiting for love to come every day; Waiting for the other party to confess first, so, a look or a word from the other party can make a person have a tsunami in his heart.

    I can't solve the distress of these people, but I think a person who lives clearly and clearly in love should be happier.

    For example, in love, what we are most entangled with and want to know the most is whether the other party loves us or not, so we try and observe in every way, but in the end we still don't know the point.

    Actually, I would like to say that love that is not clearly expressed as an adult is an illusion. What is adult love? It's together! It is the barrier of time and space, whether poor or rich, I want to walk with you for the rest of my life.

    If a person says he's had a crush on you for years, but never wanted to be with you, you'll think he's just telling you a joke.

    So don't always ask someone if he loves you or not. You must have tried all sorts of things before. Those messages he didn't reply, the topics he didn't answer, and the appointments he didn't attend, he couldn't have rejected them more clearly.

    If a person tells you good morning and good night, gives you breakfast, gives you care, but doesn't say "I love you", then you might as well wait and give him a deadline, after all, there is always a process from raw to mature between people.

    But it's important to remember that every relationship has an expiration date, just like everything has an expiration date. A person who truly loves you must be eager to run to you, even if he feels that he is not good enough now, he must want to stay first.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Actually, I think that having a crush on someone should be a good liking for that person, so you won't have a crush on the other person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you don't have a heterosexual love partner, don't have a crush on the other person, it's very hard to have a crush. If you really like it, you have to confess generously, success is the best, and if you don't succeed, you have to take it and put it down. May you succeed and I wish you happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Crush is both beautiful and painful, and the hardest thing is to have a crush on someone, because crush on someone else will either confess success or failure, and in the end you can't even be friends.

    I still remember that I had a crush on me or a classmate in a difficult class for two years in high school, and we have always had a good relationship, but the pressure of high school made me decide to confess after graduation, but my mood every day in those two years can be described as cloudy and uncertain, boys belong to the kind of super popularity, both boys and girls are super chatty, as a person who has a crush on him, he will naturally be silently jealous but there is no reason, every time I see that boy and other girls talk and laugh in my heart, I feel uncomfortable, and when I graduate, I didn't expect everyone to go their separate ways, I didn't confess and passed like this.,After graduation, the two of us talked from time to time but there was no in-depth topic.,Later, the boy talked about his girlfriend in college and announced it.。

    I know that after that, I never talked to that boy again, but how can a boy who has liked it for more than two years give up so easily, until more than half a year later, I have been paying attention to his dynamics, and found that their relationship is very good, almost every day to show affection, and the boy is no longer talking and laughing with other girls as before, the circle of friends is almost all about his girlfriend, at that moment I realized that I should give up, there is no meaning.

    Talking about a small experience of oneself, as a person who has come over, it is not a bad thing to give up a person who has been secretly in love for a long time, it can be said to be a relief, a person who has not noticed himself at all, and continuing to have a crush will only make him deeply trapped in it and unable to extricate himself, unable to see the people around him, nor can he see the people who are really good to you, although the process of giving up is painful, but time will dilute everything.

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