What is true love without material involvement?

There is a very classic dialogue in "Little Times", Gu Yuan asked Gu Li, "If I were a poor boy, would you still love me?" And Gu Li said, "Don't be naïve! Love without material things can only be a plate of loose sand, without the wind blowing, and it will be scattered after two steps.

This question reminds me of this dialogue, I personally understand that true love without material participation probably refers to pure love, and such love should have the following two factors:

Being together based on liking each otherFirst of all, I think the motivation to be together is very important, if two people are really attracted to each other, like each other and be together, this kind of love will naturally be weakened in material aspects, such as love when I was a student. At that time, a young man in his prime, his love was just beginning to open, and when he met someone he liked, he couldn't wait to stick together every day. The love between students is always pure and simple, because there is no need to take into account family factors and the trivialities of life, let alone whether there is a house or a car.

At this time, love is doing its best, and it is also unforgettable, and it has nothing to do with material.

Willing to fight for loveSome people may think that if you have nothing to do with material things, you should have the mentality of asking for nothing and not valuing money, but I personally think it is not. True love, which has nothing to do with material things, should be that I don't miss you because your economic conditions are worse than mine. On the contrary, I am willing to work with you to become better together.

Two people work hard to make their small lives better and better, such a life is materialistic, but each other's love is actually out of life and exists at the spiritual level.

The above is my opinion, I don't know if you can accept love that has nothing to do with matter?

This kind of love is relatively non-existent, love must be built on a material basis in the end, if there is really this kind of love, it can only be a student age, but if a love wants to last for a long time, it still has to be built on a material basis.

This kind of ** will only be in the TV series, without an economic foundation, you will find it difficult to move an inch.

Two people's hearts truly merge together and care for each other.

Two people's hearts are together, they really like it, and they struggle together.

Two wealthy people whose economies are independent of each other ......The love is.

It's too little now, and if there is, it's really envy.

Understand each other, like each other, and work together.

This should only exist in an ideal society.

They are very understanding of each other, and they all know without saying anything.

In love, whether it should be or not, material existence is inevitable and objective.

Two people live together with each other, in addition to truly loving each other, they still need to face the pressure and destruction of the real world. Love without a material foundation is difficult to resist the impact of reality, because we need to survive and we need to live.

If love wants to last for a long time, it not only needs an emotional foundation, but also material support. If there is no material support, although two people love each other deeply, if they have to face the conditions of hunger and deprivation as soon as they open their eyes, this sense of powerlessness and pain will swallow up the feelings little by little. Love in the real world is not idealized, and money is needed everywhere in life to sustain it.

For example, when you are in love, it costs money for two people to date, there are always expenses for watching movies, shopping and eating, and giving gifts during the holidays are also expenses, which are all material foundations. When they get married, they have to buy a house, buy a car, and have their own little world, which costs money. And after having a baby, you also need to make money to buy milk powder and make money to raise your child together, all of which require materials.

Talking about love without talking about material things is a building that can't build a solid foundation and will collapse at any time.

If neither of them has material things, then who will bear these troubles? It is likely that you will not only have to bear the troubles of your own poverty, but also bear the troubles of the other party's poverty, and the troubles will be multiplied by two, and even the other party should fight a little bit and give yourself a good life, if the other party is not good, they will not be like this, complain to each other, and eventually the relationship will break down little by little, and finally there is neither love nor material.

Therefore, material things are necessary in love. Even the fairy tale world sets the heroine and heroine as a princess and a prince, and we often ignore the illustrious background of the princess and prince, and only focus on their pure and deep love. It can be seen that if you want to develop your relationship steadily, you must not only give the best love to the person you love, but also give certain financial support, which is very necessary.

Of course, there should be a material existence, if there is no material existence, then love is a plate of loose sand, and it is very easy to separate.

Of course, there should be a material existence, because only in this way can the two people feel better and not be affected in any way.

Yes, I think there should be material existence, because human beings live in society, they must need material things, which is indispensable, so they will eventually be integrated into other emotions.

No, love should be simple, as long as two people love each other very much, then they can go on forever.

It should be, because there is no material love, it is like a plate of loose sand, which will fall apart if it can't withstand the wind and rain.