Why I m not happy at all in love 10

Then stop falling in love and just continue to live a life alone.

Love is two people tolerating each other, mutual understanding of emotional time, and spiritual blending. Being in love will make both people feel happy, not stressed.

In a proper relationship, both emotionally involved will feel that life is full of fun and will not want to be with each other all the time. And a relationship that makes people feel uncomfortable can only mean that you are not suitable for each other.

Maybe it's not the right way to get along, maybe it's not the right person at the right time. But no matter how you look at it, you should not continue this relationship.

There is still a long way to go, and we are all still very young。If you feel very stressed and unhappy during the love stage, the end is already doomed.

No one can bear the mental pressure to persist, and no one can unilaterally give to maintain a relationship. Rather than waiting until the long pain of tears in the future, it is better to have a short pain, and it is better to break up now.

After the breakup, the two no longer have a relationship。You can go on with your life and face everything alone. Even if life doesn't go well, even if you regret it when the time comes, you have a new choice.

It's better to be in love if you're not happy. When you face life alone, you can choose to face it or choose to escape, and when two people are in love, you can only choose to be brave.

We live in this world, and there is no one who does not yearn for love, but there is no one who does not want to make themselves happier. Everything we do now is to make our lives better.

Change the unhappy life now and face the future with a smile. Maybe life will be better in the future, but it all needs a fresh start.

Falling in love is inherently annoying, happiness is directly proportional to sadness, there is no sadness without happiness, and you will not experience happiness without sadness.

The best love is that even the friends around you think you are cute after being with the right person, instead of living every day in the worry that the other party cares about you enough, taking care of yourself and changing for him. What I worked so hard to get was not love, but I lost my best self. You don't have to be accommodating in order to become what the other party wants, he loves you whatever you are to the right person.

It's not yours, no matter how you change, you can't keep him.

If you are not getting happier and happier with someone of the opposite sex, nor are you becoming more and more positive, but on the contrary, you are becoming more and more negative, and you are becoming more and more devoid of any yearning for this world, this person is definitely not your positive match. ”

The positive relationship here refers to the partner who is truly suitable for you, mind and body.

Because according to common sense, a person of the opposite sex who really loves you, cares about you, and considerates you will try his best to keep you in a good state of mind, so that you can get along with him comfortably and happily, if he makes you more and more negative and painful, or even depressed as you say, he may really not be your right match.

From your description, it feels like you're paying more, but poor students can only do that, you're starting to make small calculations, you're calculating the input-output ratio, or you're always comparing your feelings with something, and this comparison is always shaking you. As a word of advice, if you're constantly bothered by this feeling, letting go is the best option.

Love needs to be real, and when you like and don't like it, you either leave. Either change him.

You don't have to take the initiative, you love him for proof, don't like what you don't like. See if he's willing to use his brains for you. If you are willing, you will be rewarded for success or failure. He's good, and so are you.

Maybe you still haven't entered that atmosphere, the happiest girls in love, because boys will give you a lot of what you want, and then it's also important to have a boyfriend who knows how to take care of you, care about you, and love you, maybe you haven't felt it yet, but it's okay slowly.

If two people don't have a common topic together, it also means... It's time to wrap it up! Maybe the breakup is not the result that the two want!

I'm tired today too. If you really feel that your fate is over, you might as well give up.

As long as you still love him, it's enough.

In a word: it's not love, friend!

Those who understand stand up.

It's better to be tired now than to cry later. Be cautious about your feelings.

Be crisp. ~

How happy you are to be free, so why harm yourself?

During the relationship, our mood is like a roller coaster ride every day, with ups and downs. One second was still in a good mood, and the next second suddenly I was sad, but sometimes it was really a girl who thought too much. When you feel really unhappy, you should want to calm down and think about whether it is such a person who makes you uncomfortable, or your subconscious makes you uncomfortable, and you need to distinguish this feeling.

Girls want a lot during their relationship, sometimes a certain holiday boy does not prepare a gift, she may feel that the boy does not care about her, does not pay attention to this relationship, she begins to think, will he not love me? Then she began to feel sad. Therefore, it is necessary for boys to prepare small surprises and small gifts.

When a girl looks forward to a lot, and a boy can't meet it, she will feel that she doesn't want much to argue with, whether he can't give it to himself, or he doesn't want to give it to himself, and starts a series of brain thoughts, and finally closes up because it is better to be single, and it is better to have no desires and no desires.

After a long time in love, how long have you not been really happy, some people forget their original intentions when they talk about it, either they have conflicts today or break up tomorrow. I feel that there are some problems inexplicably, and it's really too much like falling in love. A love relationship has gone from being glue-like at the beginning to being full of scars now.

For yourself, you can either adjust and change in time and learn to communicate, or you can separate the meaningless emotional constraints as soon as possible.

The beauty of the relationship is that you know that this person has shortcomings, he is not good, and you know that this person will have a great impact on your life, but you still want to be with him to enjoy your love, share happiness and share suffering. He's a guy who deserves your attention.

If you are prone to being unhappy during a relationship, you should think about whether it is such a person who makes you unhappy, or your own subconscious that makes you unhappy. Distinguish the reasons and adjust the changes.

The above is the problem, if there is any error, please understand!

Because during a relationship, we can't help but magnify our requirements for the partner, so it is easy to be unhappy and unhappy.

Because a lot of things don't go as smoothly as I thought. After two people have been dating for a long time, it is easy to become tired, and the relationship is easy to fade.

During the period of falling in love, the reason why we are prone to being unhappy and unhappy is because in the relationship between two people, it is inevitable that there will be large and small conflicts because of some things in Yitonglun.

This problem, both of you are responsible, if both of you really like each other, then it's good to talk to each other, say what is in your heart, don't always quarrel, this will only make the relationship between you deteriorate, you can travel together to relax, say all the things you want to say in your heart, don't always quarrel, that will only make your relationship become weaker and weaker, you can go to the movies together, have a meal together, it's okay, you can tell him, If you really love him, you shouldn't treat you like this, if you really love him, you have to cherish him, don't wait until you lose it to know that you regret it, then it's too late, you have to cherish each other, don't wait for the loss to recover, it's too late at that time, you have to cherish him, don't wait for the loss to regret it, then it's already too late.

Falling in love is also a technical job, if the man is more woody, the woman is more reserved, and the man is not the master of more money, it is normal to be tasteless. This shows that he is not your dish at all, change it, change it to one that you will blush and heartbeat when you think about it, you don't see it every day, take advantage of your youth, try more, and leave no regrets. When it comes to the besieged city of marriage, there are not many opportunities.

<> the reality of mate selection is that the conditions of both parties are equal. Because a perfect person doesn't want to find an imperfect person at random, then he will feel at a loss. If your conditions are far from perfect, then you can only find someone who is also not so perfect.

As a result, the huge gap between the ideal and the reality will disappoint you. Now you are just used to each other, but in fact, your personality and habits are incompatible in many aspects, and at this time, you need to be ruthless to break up. My last relationship was also the first time I fell in love with you now, very tired, and in the end, both of them were entangled for a long time, she finally saw her heart clearly, and broke up with me, indeed I was very sad, and I felt a sense of relief.

Later, I went on a blind date with my current girlfriend, and I realized that falling in love is really sweet, the two of them are very compatible, they can always be greasy and crooked, and when they can't see each other at work, they miss each other. Ask your boyfriend if he would like to come next to you? If you don't want to, then you can only take the initiative to quit, so that you don't have to be tortured.

Don't have too much hope for others and life, and you can't be hopeless, because you have to struggle and live for the rest of your life! When a person comes to the world, it is good to live in peace and harmony for the rest of his life. It's not easy to be kind to yourself when you come into the world.

It's just that the other party's conditions are not so perfect, if he is willing to give you more material and spiritual care, then it can also make you feel happy. But the problem is that the lover of his dreams is also close to perfect, and finding a girlfriend who is not so perfect will not make him happy enough, so he won't have much motivation to give more.

That's because sometimes if the other person treats you badly, you will be very unhappy, and it will also be easier to bring your emotions in.

It may be because the other person is not quite what you imagined. Before you fall in love, the other person treats you well and makes you fall in love with expectations. Many times, the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.

When you fall in love, you will be disappointed if you find that it is completely different from what you imagined, and the other party cannot meet your expectations.

It's because after falling in love, there is very little personal time. And there needs to be a constant run-in between the two sides. So it's easy to be unhappy.

This is because after falling in love, there are people you care about, that is, someone who can affect your emotions, and this influence is not good in most cases.

Because the emotional ups and downs when falling in love are very large. Two people are also very prone to quarrels, which affects the emotions of two people.

In the process of falling in love, you should be happy or pleasant, if you are not happy in love, I think many factors will affect the relationship between love.

Are you unhappy in a relationship because you have a lot of conflicts? Over time, the relationship between the two of you may become very bad.

When you are in love, you may spend a lot of money, and then you may have caused a certain amount of financial pressure, and you will feel that you are unable to do it at this time. Two people may not have managed this life well, so the problem of unhappiness comes out.

Most boys have such a situational feeling: she seems to be really angry or really unhappy, she is already crazy and scared, but she smiles and says it's okay. Is she really okay?

No way! But don't think that girls are saying that they are fine, women are all duplicitous, she just wants to see how you will behave in such a situation. Of course, if you think you're living too happily, big brother, you still insist that she's okay!

Strongly remind that this is really a big reversal, and the winning rate is extremely high!

Many boys will hear girls say something like this when they are in love: I don't think I'm pretty at all. Of course, when she says this, most of the time when you are a boy or you praise her.

She threw out this sentence, you really don't think she is losing confidence in herself, you have to understand, this is a test of whether the boy will really follow her meaning, if you say she is beautiful, then it's okay, she will be very satisfied!

Hehe, it's the first time you're in love, it's normal. Because your previous life was full of family, friends. But now suddenly there is one more him in your time realm, maybe you are not ready to accept him, maybe you are still thinking about his feelings every day and a little at a loss, first love is very beautiful, grasp it well, don't deliberately hide anything, just do it, little sister, I tell you that people in love like to think more, I think this is the main reason for emotional instability, in fact, it's nothing, hehe. I want to think about simple things too much, and even think crookedly. This is very bad. Without further ado, I hope it helps!

It may be because the other party is not the same as you imagined, it turns out that when you are not in love, the other party is very good to you, so that you have the expectation of love. In many cases, the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment. When you fall in love, you find that it is completely different from the love you imagined, and it does not have the feeling you imagined, and the other party has not met your expectations, so you will be very disappointed.

And after falling in love, you will always think about it, as long as something happens to the other party, it will affect your mood, always suffer from gains and losses, and care too much about the other party's state. When they are together, the two parties will have differences because of different concepts, and the longer they get along, the more contradictions they have, and sometimes they even feel that he has affected their lives, so it is normal to be unhappy. Because how sweet love is, how heart-wrenching it will be.