I can t really afford to make jokes, do I have a joke like that?

He's scolding you, huh? Those two words are not what should be said between boyfriends and girlfriends, you have to have your own principles, ignore him, he said that you can't afford to joke and you start to doubt yourself? Do you know how to joke like this? There are limits to jokes, and if it's too much, it's not a joke

Such a man is not interesting, he can easily say those two words, and tell you casually that it is a joke, this is the difference between slapping you and saying, ah, I fight mosquitoes?

He treats you so much, I think it means that he doesn't value you, really, if he cherishes you very much, he will never say that, if he really says it, I believe he will sincerely apologize, although it does not rule out the good face of the man, but you have said that you are going to break up, he can still be so calm, it is not a matter of good face

mm, don't shake your heart, you should tell him that you have your principles, these are not messed up.

No such joke.

It's a sign of disrespect for you; Now it's a big deal, he said he was joking with you, and if you don't have a reaction, he'll continue to do this to you. This kind of person is the best choice for you to break up with him. There is nothing to suffer.

It should be him who suffers now. Because he lost a good girl like you.

He said that the joke was just an excuse, saying that you couldn't afford to make a joke just wanted you to feel guilty, and the blame was on you.

Such a man is very cheap, don't pay attention to her anymore.

Other.. When he scolds you biaozi, he is definitely serious in scolding, which means that his character is very poor, and the page shows that he doesn't love you and doesn't care about you, so it's right to break up, don't look back.

What is there to wonder if there's something wrong with that guy.

Ignore him! There is simply no quality, no culture, and no respect for others!

You were right to leave him! If a person like him is really handed over to him for the rest of his life, then it will be ruined for him!

Some things can be joked about, some things can't! The principle must be kept!

Also, there are some small things that can tell what kind of person a person is!

Don't doubt that you look down on jokes, he doesn't deserve to be good to him!

No one is what you do to him, he will do to you! Don't think about it, he doesn't deserve to be nice to him! Giving your own good to those who are not entitled to it is a waste! It's hurt and cruel to yourself!

I think he's very irresponsible.

No man would say anything like that to a woman he likes. I don't think it's a joke, it's a disrespect for women. I don't think a woman is perfect in his subconscious, or rather, he has never really liked a girl because he likes it.

This kind of joke is a bit excessive, I don't think this should be a joke, this is a curse, your boyfriend has gone too far. Talk to him and tell him not to do this.

It's too much to say, maybe he's unintentional, but he also has to have a sincere attitude of admitting his mistakes, and now it's just making excuses, which is very unlikely.

Damn, how can you treat your girlfriend like this? Why didn't you beat him, he doesn't like you anymore, and he feels a little tricky of you, don't listen to him, he's a bad person, advise you not to be sad, such a person is good early, poor girl.

Why are you talking about such a thing here?

Does that person deserve to be like this?

If that's nasty, I can't bear to listen to you, you have to be strong.

Let that "rascal" see how much better you can live without him

Remember that women are not weak !

Even though I'm a man, that "rascal" really owes k support you if you need to add me.

I haven't seen this kind of person yet, your ex-boyfriend is so cheap, it's right to break up, it's not your fault, if you change me, I'll slap him, it's too much!

Some jokes can't be made! Especially when you say something like that to someone you like! Speechless!

It's to share with him

Actually said that about his girlfriend! ~

Scold him again @

Relieved!

You call his mother Biaozi and tell him you're just joking and see how he reacts.

This has nothing to do with joking.

He didn't even know the very least.

It's not worth talking about feelings at all.

Don't want this kind of person.

You're doing the right thing, and no one who truly loves himself says that to himself.

Paralyzed, you scold him. Look at him if he can afford to joke no, call him a bitch, a mongrel,!

He's not human and doesn't respect you at all.

Such a man is very cheap, don't pay attention to her anymore.

If I meet someone like this, I'll punch her to the ground.

Then apologize to you.

What the hell? Didn't take you seriously.

It's divided, it's divided, how can you joke like that, I don't respect you at all.

I didn't say that about my girlfriend, I support you, you did the right thing.

In the matter of joking, it is not so simple, we have to master the proportion and degree, this "too and not" or how to master the proportion and degree, we need to rely on the usual "experiment or attempt", and for each person has their own different standards, jokes are rude, some things or some words you may think are joking, but the person being joked will think you are impolite, no literacy. This is like an invisible line, some people's lines are very high, can not be touched casually, this kind of people, life, work is very serious, basically can not make the slightest joke, for this kind of person, your joke and him not only can not get closer, but will be counterproductive, farther and farther away; Some people have a very low line, and you can make jokes casually. But even this kind of person who can joke casually, deep down in his heart there will be a point that cannot be joked about casually or something that is more concerned about the untouchable.

Care about it, so put it in the highest position in your heart, and this point cannot be joked around.

So, if it's really more serious, none of us can afford to joke, or we have a point that can't be joked about casually, indifferent, since we can't afford to joke, why do we have to make jokes? That's because there is still a relationship on top of the bottom line of joking.

The necessary space, joking is actually a process of quickly closing the distance, quickly eliminating strangeness, and quickly testing each other's bottom line, slowly tempting, if in the process of testing each other, some jokes really touch your bottom line, you can tell him seriously and without doubt. I really mind this, please don't joke about it again. Smart people or people with high IQ will stop there, and they will master this degree, and maybe you will become good friends with each other in the future.

People who can't afford to joke are naturally at fault, because because others don't have time to get to know you, and if they joke with you and you get angry, it will only make you appear to be cautious and stingy, and no one will pay attention to you. Because everyone jokes and doesn't have to be taken seriously. There's no need to say behind your back that others aren't very good, because everyone has something good, but you don't see it.

There are all mistakes, everyone has different personalities, and there will inevitably be all kinds of friction when getting along.

Personal experience, attitude towards jokes, is determined by your attitude towards jokes, I tell the truth of the banquet as a joke, others as a joke;

You want others to understand your jokes, so you take your jokes with this serious attitude, just because you want others to use Zefan's attitude to face your jokes. I hope you can understand, it's not that you can't make jokes, it's not that you have such a temper.

Summary: Your jokes are all serious, other people's jokes are just jokes, people always like to use jokes as an excuse to do something to hurt others, to please their own happiness.

Eventually, when the victim is unhappy, they will say, "You can't afford to be so stingy?"

It seems that "joking" has become a cloak for people to unleash malice, and as long as they put on him, they will not be responsible.

As everyone knows, how sad those who are hurt.