I like a man from the South, but I have a boy from the North who is very affectionate to me, what sh

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you really like that southern one, first of all, you have to determine whether he really cares about you, likes you, whether he is willing to make some concessions for you, if he likes you, thinks that you are his princess, he should do something with you to change the current situation, first, whether he can stay with you, and second, whether he can use actions to communicate with your parents and strive for acceptance. I've got examples around me where good communication is very important. Of course, neither of you can be too selfish, you can't ask someone to stay with you for your sake, and you can't let someone face such a problem alone if he loves you.

    The above premise is that you love him, he loves you, and you have to talk to him about your family's opinions, find a way to face it together, and solve it together; Parents are nothing more than thinking about your happiness, whether you will be too far away from them, etc., if you can solve their concerns, I think the ice can't melt.

    As for the boy in the north, if you don't know what to do just because he is very good to you, it means that you are immature, either you have a little bit of selfishness in your subconscious, and you are reluctant to lose an excuse for self-absorption, or you yourself still don't understand who you love? Or not sure if the boy in the south loves you the same, of course loving someone will be good to him, don't be afraid of hurt, you don't love him and don't make it clear to him, in fact, it is a greater harm to two people, in short, happiness is something that no one can easily deprive of, the problem is on you, I hope you calm down and think about it, what do you want? If you think about it, you can fight for it in various ways, as long as the goal is firm and the way is appropriate, there is no knot that cannot be solved!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The focus is not on the north and the south, and the focus is not on who likes whom, but on who is more suitable for you!

    This fit includes each other's living habits, including each other's personalities, including each other's future. Try to get to know them and see which one is better for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is a good saying, it is better to find someone who loves you than to chase someone you love.

    It should be said that the landlord is a northerner, and the family does not agree with the southern one, so there is naturally an inconvenience. Do you like the one in the south, and the one in the south likes you? Do you know him well enough?

    What is he like? Is it reliable? If you are sure of this series of questions, then marry to the south, because the family also wants you to live a happy life, and if you are sure that you can be happy, why not marry.

    But if you don't guarantee it, stop there. And that northerner has a deep affection for you, and you have to investigate more. Men are changeable, and if they get it, they won't cherish it.

    So you have to look at it and then decide.

    To sum up: it doesn't matter what else does, the two have love, and the other party's character should be good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What a coincidence! My girlfriend's situation is the same as yours, she is from Hubei! And I'm from Fujian!

    I truly love her, and she loves me! But last year she left me and went home! Her parents disagreed!

    I don't know if it's because of the influence of time and environment, I think she has changed! Maybe it's another man like you who has a deep affection for her! But it seems to be cold to me!

    However, I still chose to keep the promise between us and wait for her in Shenzhen! But for you who choose people! You are going your own way!

    This question should be faced with the truest thoughts of one's heart! Who do you love! Then you go and love bravely!

    Although my position is the same as that southern boy! But I'm not speaking from our standpoint! If fate is destined you are someone else's!

    No matter how much the boy from the south does, it won't help! From his standpoint, the only thing he can do is wait for you to give you an answer! The answer of a lifetime.

    Would like to add!! Are you **? What is your name! Where is the boyfriend from? What's your boyfriend's last name?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the southern boy is yours, you can choose the southern man, and if you don't like the northern boy, say no.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you like the south, go to the south, don't hurt the north, think for yourself, I'm a boy, and I hate splitting the most.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whoever you love is who you choose to be with the person you love, or you like to be with the person you like to be with yourself, choose yourself!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If a woman finds someone you love, it is better to find someone who loves you, and women must not go far away, different living habits will lead to many problems.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It will not be long before you marry and go home, otherwise you will either be wronged by yourself or you will be wronged by others, and there will be no grievances when you marry home.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you feel which one is suitable for development, choose him Don't hesitate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    South-to-north water diversion, pedaling two boats.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If that southern man also likes you, you are in love, and you still care about the northern man.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You want both, that's the ability.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Actually, you still liked him in the north.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Grandma's head, do you still want to step on two boats?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm not talking about me. Wonder.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Are you looking for one you like, or one that likes you? If you find someone you like, you will give him a lot, and if you find someone who likes you, he will give you a lot.

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