Why does reality come to me every time I have a little bit of self confidence?20

Life is sometimes like this, whether it is wind or rain, or thunder or lightning, I really don't know at all at this time, but even so, you will never lose the courage to live, because you already know life, it is like this, people in front of life only confidently go down, it is possible to open up a different life, and if people fall down once they encounter setbacks, then they will always be weak in life, it can be seen that they have always wanted to make themselves a strong personOtherwise, you won't be able to build confidence in life again and again, and if that's the case, then continue to muster up the courage to move forward, and life will be kind to those who are strong.

And then I would like to remind you here that why do those unfortunate things happen in life? In fact, some things are unpredictable, but some things are predictable, sometimes because of their own character, or some other reasons, but when the misfortune of life comes, you should first continue to encourage yourself, and the other aspect is to reflect on yourself, or reflect on the relatives around you What caused the current result? Then, on this basis, we will continue to improve and perfect ourselves, so that the sunshine of life can shine in and shine wider and farther.

Everyone has all kinds of troubles at home, and you are not the only one who has encountered this kind of problem.

Since you also said that you are studying well, in my opinion, this is your greatest luck.

This is also the capital of your future future, don't think too much, don't think about making money, study hard, is the only thing you can do now.

Don't be angry, or say that you want to make money, and give up your studies, you must know that you may be your mother, in this life, the only hope, you give up your studies, it is equivalent to giving up your mother's hope, but also give up yourself, give up your chance to turn over.

Life is full of all kinds of helplessness, if you really can't change the status quo, you have to learn to accept it, although it will be very difficult.

But no matter when and where, you have to give yourself a hope, that is, one day in the future, you will definitely turn around!

The most important thing you have to do now is to be patient and lay the foundation for that day to come!

Try to become independent and strong, and then separate yourself from your original family as soon as possible, plan your life and live the life you want bravely. It's emotionally hard, but you have to do it, or you'll lose your life and won't be able to change the status quo of your family.

I'm the same now. You need to find something to do, a temporary change of mind, and then think calmly about these questions. Find the crux of the problem and find a way to solve it.

You're having a lot of problems right now, and if you can't get out of them, you're going to get more and more pessimistic. Nothing else can help, we can't choose our parents, we can't choose our origins. I hope you can get through this temporary predicament smoothly, come on!

I wanted to say a lot of things, and suddenly I stopped again...There are a lot of words that come to mind, What will the sky descend on the people....What family has a scripture that is difficult to read....Everybody has times when they're uncomfortable, and it's good to have a good friend or relative to talk to and vent, and I hope you can cheer up. When you get through it, you will be stronger than many people, and when you can't stand the sadness, I hope you have good friends who are willing to comfort you all the time.

This kind of original family relationship of yours, either stay away or find a way to improve it. But you are the most important one, you can take the path of taking out a loan to go to college, don't give up your studies to make money. Take your time in the future to make money, and you have to live your own life.

Because you don't have the ability and the foresight to cure your father's foul and foul temper. What you can do is to strengthen your heart, this is achievable, believe me. must make your heart strong, you can compete with your original family, and you can cure their stinky problems.

Because in their eyes, you are still just a hairy child, you can choose certain means to make them afraid of you, see how powerful you are, and let them not dare to mess around.

Epilepsy you observe his stool, generally speaking, continuous stool is difficult to solve will cause epilepsy, as long as you adjust well, you will not get sick, you have to analyze that he is qi constipation (like to lie down, do not like to move, limbs weak, tongue swollen and tooth marks), yang constipation (cold and cold, cold limbs, cold pain in the lower abdomen) constipation (thirst, difficulty sleeping, urine red yellow) as long as the right medicine to solve constipation can improve a lot. The gambling is hopeless, and it is time to divorce and divorce. As for you, you don't need to carry your life for them, and you need to leave your hometown to carve out your own life.

I don't have a boyfriend, I don't dare to make friends with low self-esteem, and my studies have always been very good

When people interact with others, it is important to be able to get the trust of others, it is very important and difficult, and it is most worth cherishing, if you are willing to believe that a person is good, but he gives you a blow to the head, it means that you have to stay away from this person.

That's because I don't have enough ability to judge the truth of the points that made you believe before.

Advice is good for the ear, good medicine is good for the disease!

Because the fairy tales are all deceitful, you can't say that, because everyone has a "girl's heart" in their hearts, when it is not so beautiful as they imagined, we have to learn to accept, and slowly think about the beautiful aspect of the effort, and if you work hard, you will have the reward you want to get, if you work hard, you don't get what you want, it doesn't matter, it's just a little late, at least you have worked hard, and you won't let yourself regret it.

Yes, imagination is always better than reality, because there is no external force in imagination, but, in imagination, the difficulties are always much more serious than the difficulties you really encounter, that is, you are ready to be hungry and now the imaginary drink is actually not so difficult, so difficult to overcome, it doesn't matter, when you really go through it, you will understand, about the dilemma, reality is much easier than imagination.

Recognize the facts, don't be fooled by illusions, and don't take it too seriously.

Imagination is the most beautiful, but we really live life and reality. Fangsun is not a fairy tale world or a TV series now, and every scene in the debate of life is broadcast live.

Why does your boyfriend say this to you, is it that you usually speak more straightly, so it is easy to hit him in terms of speaking.

Or is he deliberately looking for a reason not to come back, how do I feel that your boyfriend still doesn't love you enough.

That's why I made such an excuse, saying that you gave him a slap in the face.

Is that really your character, or is he himself using this as an excuse?

The two of them don't have a tacit understanding and can't understand each other's needs, such as when you need a big belly, you care. You need sympathy from the other person, and he is sneering. If you don't have a tacit understanding, you can either try to communicate well and calm down and listen to the other party's thoughts.

当头一棒 ( dāng tóu yī bàng )

Explanation: Head on with a stick. The metaphor gives a serious warning or blow, and the metaphor is straightforward and unsubtle.

Interpretation: Dangtou: Facing the top of the head. Slammed a blow to the head. The metaphor is a sudden blow or a violent means to bring people to enlightenment.

Example sentence: This exam was like a blow to the head, which made him deeply aware of the gap in his learning.

Original sentence: As soon as the arrogant Japanese invaders arrived at the Qi Hui Array, they were hit on the head and were wiped out by our army more than 500 people.

Source: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" Chapter 117: "When I heard that the monk asked about jade, it seemed to be a blow to the head, and he said:'You don't need any more money, but I'll give you back the jade. '

Usage is more formal; as a predicate, object; The metaphor is given a serious warning or a sudden blow.

Example Hong Shen's "Screenwriting Methods for Film and Drama" Chapter 7: "In "Water Margin", it is much stronger, and the author uses it'～'means. Confucius seemed to have been hit on the head, and his soul sat in despair, just like a piece of dull wood. Lu Xun's "New Story Editing: Out of the Customs".

synonyms: Drink as a head.

Because that stick made me understand that I have to be a human being with dignity, I will think that I was wrong, and I will always remember this time.

Your question is too general to understand.

Daigo empowerment.

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Pinyin]: tí hú guàn dǐng

Interpretation]: Daigo: The oil condensed on the crisp cheese. Pour pure ghee over your head. Buddhism refers to the inculcation of wisdom and the complete enlightenment of people. The parable is very enlightening to listen to the wise advice. It is also described as cool and comfortable.

Example sentence]: Wang Sheng smelled it, and his heart was full of joy, but it seemed that the nectar was sprinkled on his heart, and the sick body had been reduced by six or seven points. Ming Ling Mengchu's "The Surprise of the First Moment" volume 11.

Alas, not obeying your wishes, not getting what you want, etc., and getting angry? Or do you get angry because you don't know your colleagues or friends? Why does the earth revolve around you, haha, angry, don't be like this, you are very brave and self-aware to put the problem on the table.

Everyone has a different opinion on something, and who is not a saint who can face up to the problem when considering the problem, to keep a normal mind, to learn to be tolerant. Don't be too obsessed, okay friend. Of course, this is not to discourage you.

There are many ways to solve a problem, just like a calculation problem, there are many ways; Different perspectives on one thing have different opinions and suggestions. Try to think about it, from his point of view, why did he say this, is there any reason, well, there must be, because you are not a saint, and you don't want to be a saint, then learn to think about things from someone else's point of view, don't be too self-egoistic, learn to understand. When you see an ant crawling fast, it's because you think it's too small to be slow, do you know how much you know about ants, in fact, this question is too naïve, maybe you're a creature so you're quite interested.

I want to relax myself from time to time, there are people outside the world, there is a sky outside the sky, there must be a teacher for the threesome, I have to be humble at all times to see my own shortcomings to learn the strengths of others, and I will benefit a lot from growing up slowly. I think it must be respect and affection for your favorite teacher when you go to school, and you will be happy when you see him happy, right? Cherish the friendship around you, you are not narrow-minded, sometimes naïve, treat everything sincerely to think before doing, do it again, say it once.

In addition, there are many things that need to be discussed together to achieve results, so listen to the opinions of others. I hope you share it with your friends when you are happy, and you also share his happiness with your good friends. This world is so big, how many people let me listen to you, and you listen to me.

The so-called easy to change the nature of the country is difficult to change, I don't think there is any need to live in depression every day, if you restrain every day, will you feel happy? Maybe "narrow-mindedness" is your shortcoming, but on the other hand, you must have your own advantages, right? Friends are easy to make but soulmates are hard to find, I think it is enough to have a confidant in life, what do you say?

Of course, if this problem really causes you a lot of trouble, in addition to a certain amount of restraint and empathy ** distraction) and other methods, the environment is actually the most important. You might as well have more contact with open-minded people, and over time, you will be subtly cheerful. o( o I wish you a speedy opening of the knot

Friend, you have to learn to be calm, be yourself, and care what others do?

Live your life, enhance your abilities in all aspects, and don't worry too much!

Don't be too petty men, you will mix well in the future, better than anything else!

If someone says something about you, you laugh it off, sometimes it is also very effective to use self-deprecation, or you can fight back directly and violently, don't be too abrasive!

You can also say that people who have no vision always like to laugh at others and bully the weak!

Hope you can get rid of your troubles soon!

It's actually quite simple, literally, you are not as narrow-minded as you think.

It's just a love of debate. If you keep arguing with people about something, or if you're very principled in some way. Coming out to work will make you sleek, so stick to that principle in school. In fact, it can be exchanged for a lot of friends who can't be found in society.

If you really want to change your habits that make you get angry easily. It's actually just a habit, and it has nothing to do with your personality, heart, or whatever. It takes at least a month to break any of these habits, and often complicated methods don't work.

But the simple way some people will doubt: is it so simple? Did it work?

I'm going to introduce a very simple way to do it. But it takes your persistence and determination. Buy a ring that is just the right size, preferably not so good-looking.

Every time you get angry and put it on your index finger, it means that you have broken your promise! You can't take it off until you don't get angry for 1 day. Then the next time it will take 2 days, and the next time it will take 4 days.

Double every time.

It's easy to do, but it's not easy to stick to. Its principle is also very simple. Make you pay attention to the thing of being angry and hate being angry.