Is it too early for parents to fall in love at the age of 20?

Updated on educate 2024-02-09
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    At the age of 18, you are an adult, and you can't meet a good lifelong partner everywhere in your life, so you can't miss any good friend of the opposite sex. But I didn't say that you can kiss me after the age of 18, I just said that you can start paying attention to your friends of the opposite sex. It's best not to have any ideas before college, go to college, if you meet the right one, you can be together, but being together is to urge each other to learn, for you to have a high starting point in the future, a good future, you must suppress your emotions, but this time did not prevent you from recognizing each other.

    When you get married, it's a lifelong thing, and falling in love is just the beginning. For parents, they must think that 20 years old is a bit early, but who do you want to go to your own heart, parents are worried that you will delay your studies or future because of love, so you must first understand your parents' hardships enough, and then you can grasp yourself well, if before your parents educate you, you talk about their worries, and tell them to rest assured, I believe they will agree that you will start a relationship. Hope you get off to a good start.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's too early. In order to avoid the worries of parents, you still don't say it's better, because parents will worry about their children falling in love, and you are still a girl, wait for you to be in a while, always wait until the time is ripe, sister, tell your boyfriend, if he really loves you, he won't care about this day or two.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why haven't you seen each other for half a year after falling in love?

    In fact, you have to have a sense of self-protection, he is your middle school classmate.

    What was his character like at that time? What he did to you in the six months since you confirmed your relationship.

    You can seriously think about it, or you can just meet up with ordinary friends.

    But try not to go to places with few people, or a little too much.

    Come out for two or three hours and go home, what's the next appointment, if he really likes you, even if he looks at you, he will be satisfied.

    There will be a chance in the future, if he persuades you to persuade you to learn to refuse.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It doesn't matter if you fall in love, as long as you communicate well with your family, you should be able to do it, don't be afraid, the people at home won't embarrass you, as long as you don't act rashly, everyone cares about you, and there is nothing that can't be discussed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is recommended not to talk about it, it will be very hard to deviate from the feelings of your parents, since you are in this family background, you should be a good child that your parents expect.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    20 years old is too young! But the country is getting more and more open, and I think it won't be a problem soon.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Did you go to college? If you go to college, it's not a puppy love. People in the old days got married in their teens, and that's fine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, for today's society, 20 years old is not too early, so if you want to talk about it, you can talk about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Ah、、I don't know what to say,

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, at the age of 19, you can talk to your parents about falling in love. Maybe you feel that you have reached adulthood after the age of 18, you can call the shots, and you can not tell your parents, but after all, 19 years old is also a very young age, and there is not a lot of experience. In love, parents can give you a lot of guidance and can help you check the gates.

    Another aspect can also be considered. If you are a parent, do you want your child to tell you about yourself? Of course hopefully, because you care about them and don't want them to finish their journey, right?

    If you know what it means to be a parent, it is helpful to share more about yourself in order to enhance your relationship, and they must be happy if you tell them about you. There are also some people who don't want to tell their parents about their love because there are some unreasonable factors in their love, and they are afraid that their parents will blame them. There is no need to boldly tell your parents about this worry, he will give you advice for your benefit, instead of simply interfering and blaming.

    So be bold and talk to your parents, and wish your family happiness and harmony! <>

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    At this age, we should confess to our parents that we are in love, falling in love is a beautiful experience, when we reach a certain age, there will be a need to fall in love, so as to make ourselves feel the sweetness of love, and in the eyes of our parents, we are always some children, so they will still not worry about us falling in love.

    For their worries, maybe they are afraid that the other party is unreliable, or they don't know enough about our concept of love, and they are afraid that we will regret it, then we should do something, and then let them really rest assured of you.

    When you start to fall in love, you should let your parents know about it, and let them see your relationship dynamics at any time, they will invisibly reassure you, and will more and more agree with you to do such a thing, because you still have to face marriage discussions, so they still want you to see some better results.

    Therefore, you should always share your love experience and feelings with your parents, so that they can understand your relationship, so that they can really reassure you that you are in love.

    If you have nothing to say to your parents, you can let them feel your love situation anytime and anywhere, and when you usually go home, you can sit with them and talk about your love situation, tell them about your recent interesting things with your lover, and also bring them into your emotions, so that they can empathize with them, and slowly close the distance with your heart, and they will agree more with your relationship.

    For parents, the reason why they are worried about your love is actually because they don't understand each other's temperament, so they will feel bottomless, so you should often talk to your parents about your lover's personality quality, so that they can have a general understanding of your lover, so that they can really have a detailed understanding of each other, so that they can really rest assured of you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    At the age of 22, you can legally get married, and you can already fall in love, and you should definitely confess to your parents. And at the age of 22, I have graduated from college and am going to work, and if I have a stable relationship at this age, my parents will be more assured, and now many parents hope that their children will fall in love and get married as soon as possible.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Should. 22-year-old is not a child anymore, and it is not very out of place to fall in love, and confess to your parents that they can accept it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It should be confessed to the parents. Girls are 22 years old, it is normal to fall in love, you don't have to worry about your parents to blame, tell your parents that they can give you reference advice in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's okay, you've reached the age where you can confess to your parents, don't hide it, you've grown up, it's time to have your own life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, at the age of twenty-two, you have grown up, and you can confess this relationship to your parents, it doesn't matter, your parents also know that you have grown up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Falling in love is your own business, and there is no need to confess it to your parents. If your parents ask, you can generously admit that you are in love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, you can already fall in love normally at the age of 22, and your parents will not blame you, on the contrary, they will support you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    should be confessed, it is already the age of marriage, and parents should be asked to know about their boyfriends and help with the counselor.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Should. 22 years old is the age of love, if you confess to your parents, your parents will definitely understand, and they may be able to help you consult.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    At this age, you can tell your parents that you are in love, after all, you have grown up, and your parents will not care too much about you, and will help you with your staff.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Many parents are always at ease with their daughters, fearing that they will be deceived. 22 years old is not too small for them, but it is not too big either. In addition, the most secret psychology is that if the daughter is in love, she will no longer have parents in her heart, and when she gets married, she will leave them, and the selfishness of love will sometimes make her parents "naïve".

    In fact, the solution is very simple, you can not tell your parents first, talk seriously, if you feel that this boy is what you are looking for, parents should be able to accept, just find an opportunity, tell your parents, or introduce to your parents, and know how to listen to your parents' opinions, although sometimes it may make you disappointed or sad, but don't be impatient, communicate slowly, but also think about whether what your parents say is right, don't let yourself become "mentally retarded" because of love (girls in love are most likely to do this). What's more important is to care for and love your parents as always, and you can't reduce the time spent with them too much for the sake of love, otherwise your parents will be jealous, and they will also be "hostile" to good boys.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are 22 years old, you can call the shots, so you don't need the consent of your parents to fall in love. Because at this time, the decision made by the parents was wrong.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you want to fall in love now, you should still tell your parents about your thoughts, and hope that your parents can understand you, so the best way is to have a good communication with your parents.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then they are not in a hurry now, and when they are in a hurry in the future, see if you are in a hurry or they are in a hurry in the end.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Whether or not you want to tell your parents about your relationship depends on what kind of people your parents are.

    If the parents belong to the old-fashioned kind and fall in love at the age of 20, in their opinion, it should be early love, not a serious job. It is estimated that what will usher in is a scolding from your parents and a disapproval of your feelings, so if your parents are not very enlightened, my advice is not to tell them and talk about a non-** relationship.

    Some parents will be more open-minded, and they will suggest that their children can find a partner when they are about 20 years old, so I don't think it matters to tell parents, it's just that they have more gossip about your feelings, and sometimes it may be more annoying.

    I'm a person who is in this situation myself, and I think I still regret it after telling my parents, because my parents want to inquire about the generous situation in every detail, which will make me feel very irritable, although I can understand some of their starting points, but it's really annoying to ask too much.

    My mother used to belong to the type of free-range to me, since I knew that I had a boyfriend, she always sent me ** invitations, and asked me to face her various questions, I felt very speechless, I always felt that when falling in love was not yet the step of talking about marriage, it should be the business of both parties in love. Parents should not interfere too much, and if I can choose again, I will choose to continue to hide it from my family.

    If you feel that your parents belong to the kind of long-winded personality, my advice is not to tell the family about your relationship. Especially the mother at home, when gossiping can make people head two bigger.

    Now I feel like my mom knows her boyfriend about the same thing as me, and I feel scared to think about it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think you don't have to tell your parents if you can keep the bottom line, because your parents will always choose to intervene when they know your love life, so that your love is not very simple.

    I have a friend who she can't help but talk about with her mother.,Since she was a child, anyone will tell her mother.,Her mother is also open-minded.,A few words of advice won't interfere too much.,Until she got to college.,Have your first boyfriend.,She felt very excited.,After I finished talking to her mother.,Her mother was just a little curious at first.,Very routinely asked the boy's basic situation.,Didn't say anything.。

    After she and her boyfriend got along for a long time, she found out that the hometown of the two families was together, so she told her mother again, and her mother quietly asked people to investigate, and then began to oppose her relationship, saying that the boy's family was too poor and had no interest, my friend was particularly embarrassed, but was aroused to rebel, because she had not resisted anything since she was a child because of her parents' understanding, but as soon as she fell in love, nothing was determined, and her parents began to interfere in her life. At that time, I was actually very supportive of her, and I felt that my family background was nothing.

    So then the more and more stiff, the boy's parents were also involved, and they themselves were under a lot of pressure, this relationship has completely deteriorated, it has become a tug-of-war, everyone is very tired, and finally broke up, and then she told me that although her parents were right, she was looking at the wrong person, but maybe if they didn't interfere, she would slowly see it herself, instead of being so painful like this. A 20-year-old girl is already an adult, and I think it's never too late to talk to your parents when you feel like you've thought about getting married, so enjoy simple love until then.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I don't think you need to take the initiative to tell your parents for the time being, but if your parents ask, then you can still tell your parents, so that they will be prepared in advance, and they will teach you more life lessons.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Yes, because this time is already mature, if you can talk about marriage, it is better to talk to your parents as soon as possible.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Look at your own wishes, and if you don't want to tell, don't tell. In your 20s, you are already an adult, and you should have your own opinions.

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