My parents wanted me to be at least 20 years old and fall in love, but now that I have a boyfriend,

Hello friend. 1. Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true!

For love, we don't expect it to be complete, but we can make it true. Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What the future holds, who thinks so far?

So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money... At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society?

Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers. . . When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it.

2. If one day, someone who can't come back disappears, and someone who can't leave is gone, it doesn't matter, leave a wrong person, in order to meet a right person, time will bring the right person to you. Before that, all you have to do is to take good care of yourself, make yourself better, I believe that there is a person who is walking on the road to meet you, life is a grand encounter, if you understand, please cherish it.

How old are you now? If you're too young, either give up or tell your parents or you'll get hurt.

I think you'd better take control of yourself!

This is youth, and you will understand later

I don't think this kind of relationship should continue, because you can't get the support of your parents, and under the collective opposition of everyone, your relationship will not be happy, and the age difference is so big, you are prone to generation gaps and contradictions, and it is better to end it as soon as possible.

I don't think it should continue, the age difference between you is too big, and it is not unreasonable for your parents to oppose it, so the relationship is very unstable, and when the man is younger and older, you will not be happy.

I don't think it's necessary to continue, because the age difference between the two of you is too big, if you continue to be with him, it will inevitably be indispensable to quarrel in the future, after all, there is a generation gap, not a person of the same era, your parents are against it, in fact, it is for your own good, you must listen.

It's normal to disagree, because you're 20 years older than you, that's almost the same generation as your parents, the generation is messy, and it's also embarrassing for relatives on both sides to meet and call each other, and it's easy to say from your own family, but the relationship between three aunts and six mothers-in-law is very messy, which is actually one of the inducements that indirectly make the relationship between family members disharmonious, of course, you don't care about these, what you care about is the family of both sides. In addition, if you are 20 years older than you, then you face a very real problem, now he is taking care of you, you are very secure, but it will not be long before you have to take care of him, if his parents are still alive, you are equivalent to you are now supporting your grandparents - because your boyfriend is the same generation as your parents, his parents are equivalent to your grandparents.

So the question is, what if your boyfriend is old and needs you to take care of him, and your parents are also old and need you to take care of you? You may not feel anything now, but on the day it happens, can you be a little girl with so many responsibilities on your shoulders? You can observe the physical condition of your parents, and you can almost know how long your boyfriend can give you a sense of stability.

Of course, if the boyfriend is very rich, it is an exception, at least money can solve many things. Obviously, you can get a considerable inheritance in the future, regardless of whether your boyfriend is particularly rich or not, but as long as you have insurance and a property, then the inheritance will also be a considerable amount. But at that time, if you have children, you have to be alone until you grow up, if you don't have children, you are old and helpless.

This is your vision for the future, it's not hard to imagine, right? It's all a logical thing that happens. If you think you can deal with all this, you don't care, then it's good, it doesn't matter if the family agrees or not, the household registration book is stolen, and the certificate is obtained.

If this had happened to me, I would never have allowed my daughter to marry an old man and would not die, because I knew what my daughter would face in the future. So don't be delusional about getting your parents' approval and blessings, because your parents know that your happiness is short-lived now, and you will face misfortune in the near future.

Day after day, year after year, and so it passed. As soon as fate arrives, it is a natural couple. The hearts of parents all over the world are for their children.

We should understand the urging of our families, take the initiative to make friends, and start a family as soon as possible, but our parents have a heart. Have a happy time, a Prince Charming awaits you in the East! As soon as fate arrives, it is a natural couple.

The hearts of parents all over the world are for their children. We should understand the urging of our families, take the initiative to make friends, and start a family as soon as possible, but our parents have a heart. Have a happy time, a Prince Charming awaits you in the East!

The family was also very anxious, urging again and again, making the marriage delay again and again. In this case, if it is a personal reason, lower the criteria for mate selection should be moderate. If it's a job reason, then stick to work, and the marriage is not wrong.

Then again, if you don't have a boyfriend now, you can't say you haven't had a boyfriend before, right? On the one hand, it is a natural law that cannot be changed as days go by; On the other hand, people are more open in front of nature and appear full of confidence. If you really haven't had a boyfriend all the time, there are also some people, some people are born not to be likeable, some people are born with the opposite sex, and there are people around her all day long, no way.

<>Of course, there is a good marriage, in your current situation, it may be a situation that everyone encounters, the big idea has to be taken by yourself, the family is not wrong, you are not wrong, the fault is the people's fault"Discerning"I can't see the road ahead, marriage"Siege"Inside, is it sweet or bitter?? This problem is a wordless book, and you have to put footprints on it before you can start reading it and start understanding. If you want to meet excellent people, you must first make yourself better, it is useless to be beautiful with a bare face, you must make yourself wiser and nobler.

If you bloom, butterflies will come. ”

So I ask you really looking for it? Have you looked for it carefully? As long as you really look for it and look for it with your heart, how can you not find a boyfriend?

It's supposed to be the child's mother. In addition, I want to say that if ** is you, do you mean not to ask questions, but to let everyone praise you for your beauty. Then your purpose has been achieved.

I should communicate my thoughts with my parents and express that I want to have them, but I haven't met the right one. Tell your parents about your mate selection criteria and let them introduce you.

25 years old is also the age of making friends, why haven't you got a boyfriend yet? Is there any difficulty? Tell your parents about your difficulties and thoughts, communicate well with your parents, and believe that your parents will understand you.

At this time, you must communicate with your parents, and let them realize that this matter is urgent, and you must seize every opportunity.

Talk to your parents about what you want to do now and when you want to get married. Tell them about your plans, and maybe they won't urge them to marry again.

In this case, you should have a good talk with your parents, or you should get a boyfriend through a blind date.

In fact, I think this is abnormal, although maybe your parents want you not to be hurt, in fact, it is even more wrong to protect you in the greenhouse, they always hope that you don't fall in love when you are studying, and it is best not to even contact boys, but when it comes to work, when you reach the age of marriage, there will be suitable boys in front of your children, and then you will be together, fall in love and have children.

My parents thought the same way, not to mention that I was 20 years old, even when I was 23 years old, my parents didn't let me find a boyfriend, saying that in college, boys all played with us, and few were serious. That's what my parents probably told me since I was a child, and they wouldn't tell me that men don't have a good thing when they were studying, but I don't understand at all, there are no good men when they are studying, and when these bad men work, will they get better? It wasn't until I started working that my parents began to help me Zhang Luo, asking me if I had a boyfriend, introducing me to some 30-year-old men, what conditions are good, they are some people they think are suitable, I was really disgusted at the time, why did they choose me to marry someone, not my own choice, I have lived for so many years, I don't have the right to choose the person I like, is it because those men are rich, I can find me a good job, I have to be with him, am I sick, do you buy and sell like this?

Parents are sometimes too protective of us, sometimes it is counterproductive, we as children want to find their true love more than their parents, after all, parents cannot live with themselves for a lifetime, and the person who lives with themselves is my object, no matter how I have to choose a person I like.

I think it's normal. Because my parents are like this, I am 20 years old this year, and I will be in my third year of college at the beginning of the school year, probably because I went to school early, so my parents kept silent about finding a boyfriend as normal in college. They always thought that I was still young and not old enough to find a boyfriend, so one of the things they told me the most was that I must not look for a boyfriend now, concentrate on studying, and it will not be too late to find a boyfriend after graduating from college, you are still young.

Every time they say that, my ears are calloused. I think the reason why they are like this is that they want me to take my cousin as an example, because my cousin was about the same at the time, I went to college at my age, and then I studied hard in college, and I was admitted to graduate school, and when I came out to work, I found a girlfriend in my own job, and they both worked in the same company, so naturally they were together, and then they got married, and now they have children, and the family is happy. So my parents also want me to wait for college graduation to work like my cousin, and find someone who has the same language as me in my job, so that in the future, not only can we live together, but also work together, and I don't have to worry about the risk of divorce because I work in a different place.

I don't know what my parents would have thought if they knew I already had a boyfriend, I think they might have objected. But after all, feelings are not something they can decide, and fate is a matter of time. Of course, my ideal age for marriage is 28 years old, so I might as well talk about it now, and then when I get married at 28, I will say that I met him at work, and then they probably won't say anything.

What I want to say is that if you don't have a boyfriend now, then your parents don't want you to find a boyfriend, then you can take a break for a while and focus on studying, but if you really have someone who likes each other, then you don't have to wait, have a good relationship, and it is also very good for both parties to promote together.

I think it's very normal for parents not to let their children fall in love in college. If you want to ask why, I don't know, because my parents didn't let me fall in love in college because I was always stopped, so I felt normal.

My parents are the kind of people who are very traditional, my family education has been stricter since I was a child, my parents have always forbidden me to fall in love, saying that I am still young, and falling in love is fruitless, saying that when I work in the future, no one will take care of me, I will be free, I can do whatever I want, they have always felt that I am too young to fall in love, forbidding me to fall in love, afraid that I will impulsively do more dramatic things, afraid of regretting it later, I remember once I talked to my mother, I wanted to fool her, I said Mom, I fell in love, Then my mother said excitedly over there You have grown up and your wings are stiff, right, what kind of love are you talking about at such a young age, break up quickly, I said, if not, my mother said directly Then I won't recognize you. Then I comforted her and said no, it still doesn't work, I repeatedly promised that she would calm down after that, and from then on, I decided not to tell my parents if I have a partner in the future, and to do a good job of confidentiality.

I don't think it's normal, but now, my parents won't let me find it, and I'm going to force you to get married in a few years. Nowadays, parents usually have such a problem, they are not allowed to fall in love when they are young, and they are urged to get married when they are older.

I don't think there's anything out of the ordinary. Parents just feel that their baby daughter can't just let people run away like this. But I don't think it's appropriate. Because they are already adults and have their own ideas. It's time to have a boyfriend.

There are some things that can't be rushed ......

Some things have to be on your own, even if you look for them, you can't look for them in confusion, and you have to get along in all aspects. For example: personality, preferences, behavior, values, family environment, etc., don't underestimate these, sometimes it is often these factors that make two people miserable (two people get along for a period of time, both are invested, and they are not willing to give up, but it is this simplest factor that hurts each other, which is the most deadly).

Love is responsible for yourself, but also for another person, or even two families.

Judging by your current age, you shouldn't rush it, you can observe as you work, who are suitable for you, and then take a closer look. In addition, you can also introduce yourself through relatives, friends, colleagues, classmates, etc., and give full play to the power of the masses to introduce, and your own social circle must be limited.

In fact, I would like to say that love and love, love and marriage are completely different things, and they cannot be confused. The process of getting to know a person is very long, and it takes a long time for two people to run in together, and you can't just see one side and hurriedly choose to be together or decide to marry for life.