How can we be colder, colder??? 20

Ruthlessness is ruthlessness, ruthlessness is cruelty, cruelty is badass.

Your mind has become a bad guy?

In fact, the most powerful ** thing about girls is cuteness.

Boys can't stand it.

Coldness is more often a derogatory term You are so small You shouldn't become a colder person If you want to live more like yourself You can change yourself bit by bit For example: try not to rely on others Solve problems on your own Stick to your own point of view when others are wrong Don't be afraid of other people's opinions and opinions Be brave and confident in learning Life.

This knowledge you idealize.

And it's not good, I've thought the same thing before! But then... Failed!!

If you really want to learn, you will be enthusiastically devoted, and spend more time with a group of people who love to learn the most, including eating or something. Naturally, they are influenced by their habits to learn together. And you spend more time with those who love to learn, and less time with those who don't like to learn, which indirectly realizes your "coldness".

People and life are essentially lonely and helpless. Therefore, it is necessary to interact with people in order to understand each other. But is mutual understanding really possible?

No, impossible, fatalistic impossibility, attempts to find understanding are futile. So, why bother working hard? Why can't we change our attitude—if we can't try to understand it, it's good to live without trying?

In other words, instead of reluctantly eliminating loneliness and resolving helplessness through interacting with others, it is better to go back and play with loneliness and helplessness...

Why be a cold girl, I want you to be a sunny girl! I suggest you learn to smile anyway!

I want to talk. I want to laugh. Just slap your face and look at it.

Watch more action movies (with the exception of Jackie Chan and Stephen Chow), and Schwarzenegger's movies are especially recommended.

My personal experience of this must be carefully examined.

When you are silent in front of your classmates, when they say funny things, when you really can't help it, when you think about sad things, sad things, you can't laugh anymore, and you just calm down and say to them, "Is it funny?!" Then throw a pair of health balls and they will be embarrassed and the purpose has been achieved.

Other people's requests are less agreed, such as borrowing books, just say that you don't have them, and there are many more. Anyway, you can't laugh!! It's critical.

What kind of person are you? I also want to be ruthless, but the reality is cruel, and I still can't change it like before. If you are ruthless, then, first, study harder, and study well.

Second, you should control your emotions well, and when you hear something unexpected, you should show that "cut, I already knew" expression.

In fact, it's quite difficult to be cold, if it doesn't suit you, it's better not to be cold.

Personal opinion, don't worry about it.

I used to have thoughts with you, but then a friend of mine inadvertently said, Be yourself, be yourself! Cherish the opportunity to be yourself in the future society is not what kind of person you want to be I'm afraid it's impossible to be yourself hypocritical... Society.

Don't dress up, be ugly, and naturally no one will bother you.

Looks like you want to be chic! Let me tell you a word! Only those who learn to be chic can truly be chic!

If God gives me the opportunity, I want to swap your personality.

I understand how you're feeling right now. To be a cold person, first of all, let's analyze what the word cold means. This one is divided into two aspects, one is to be cold, and the other is to be cool.

Let me elaborate on how to do both. Cold. You have to make people think you're cold, so you have to wear clothes that are thicker than others.

If others wear short-sleeved shorts in the summer, you have to wear long-sleeved pants, and if necessary, you should also wear autumn clothes and pants. In spring and autumn, you have to wear winter clothes. Sweaters, sweaters, sweaters, thermal underwear, down jackets are a must.

At this time, you may have questions, what to do in the winter. At this time, there are two choices: first, put on winter clothes and wrap them in the quilt; Second, wear one more winter coat, such as two down jackets.

If you have done the above, you will be able to do a good job in this aspect of cold. Cruel. How to do it cool.

It's a technical job. But kid, you're lucky.

Although, you don't need to say anything about persuasion, but I still have to say two words, 80% of a person's personality is innate, and it is more difficult to change, it takes a long time or a big blow to change.

The cheerful personality is actually quite good, okay, don't talk nonsense, hand over how you become cold.

First, let's explain the coldness. Ruthlessness is not the same as cold-bloodedness. Being cold will easily make you lose a lot of friends, and your relationship with your classmates will be cold. You have to understand.

Cool Approach: 1Talk less, learn more, observe more, think more.

2.Less curiosity, unrelated things, don't ask, don't ask, don't look, do your own thing (study).

3.Make yourself more mature than your peers. Do things steadily, speak concisely, and laugh as little as possible.

You can pretend to be very cold, but don't date and hold grudges as you said upstairs, don't change your nature, talk less every day, don't say what you shouldn't say, don't say it when you say it's useless, don't say it, don't be nosy, don't care about other people's affairs, over time, everyone will think that you are difficult to get close, they will think you are very cold, but I hope you don't attract the attention of your parents in this way, which can only make you go farther and farther, as a person who has come to persuade you to be yourself, Let him go with the flow, and maybe you'll find that the results are different.

A person's personality doesn't change when he wants to! It is caused by the environment, the relationship between people and a variety of factors. First of all, you have to recognize that others know that you have your existence!

If others think you are good, you will lead others to think of you. When others are optimistic about you and think you are important, you can look down on others and stop calling others, and slowly become cold and cool.

Insist on not laughing every day, learn to hold grudges, and slowly become very cold

You are cool when you are really discouraged and miserable, but it seems that you still have hope, and if you don't persuade you, you want to say that your existence is necessary, and every person created by God has a reason to play your role.

In fact, it's very simple, just don't care about anything, even if your mother is dead, don't care about what others say, go alone, OK

Sounds depressing, beware of depression... It is most convenient to find a psychological counselor, anyway, the principle of the counselor is to remain neutral, but it can give more pertinent advice, and it can also help you find out whether you really want to be cold.

Watch more cold-blooded ** or anime with characters.

I feel like I've been half affected.

I don't know what you think, but I'm also very cheerful, I love to laugh, and I joke, but I'm really lonely, and I don't like to talk, I can't say I don't like to talk, I only tell people I know, people who don't know me will say that I'm a little cold, and I want to be a cold person, and I can't achieve it overnight

Hello boring, you can think about it from another angle, I'm in the fifth grade now, and I want to be ruthless, but, anyway, I tell you love, if you have this attitude,,, not only will you not become indifferent, but you will lose a lot!!

Hate it, little ghost, your heart is full of hatred, and you will become a strong .........

Cruel to everyone. , but you don't have to hit them, talk, have less expression on your face, pretend not to care about anything on the surface, talk less is like this, it has nothing to do with me, so what? , Cut, if a friend asks you to do something, just say that, let them do it, it's okay, I'm a live test subject, it's OK anyway.

It's very simple: pretend to be absent-minded when others are talking, and don't laugh when others are joking.

He doesn't care about the affairs of the people around him, treats people coldly, and his eyes are empty.

After a conflict with someone, it is a good thing to act like nothing after a few days, and there is no need to force yourself to be indifferent.

This is how you interact with others, and everyone will inevitably make mistakes. If others make mistakes or make mistakes yourself, you should look at them correctly. will have more friends, instead of making yourself more indifferent and ruthless.

2. Learn to be lonely, no one will protect you as a treasure, the world is always lonely.

3. Learn to be strong, in fact, a person can live beautifully, laugh at himself, and cry to himself.

4. Learn to be patient, shut up when you should shut up, and be silent when you should be silent.

5. Learn to cherish, there are not many friends who know each other, and if you go again, you will really only be left with yourself.

6. Learn to turn a blind eye, choose to ignore disgusting things, choose to block disgusting things, and no one will make me unhappy.

7. Learn to be satisfied, and the so-called contented people are always happy.

8. Learn to be independent, no longer blindly trouble others, do your own things, as the so-called asking for others is better than asking for yourself.

9. Learn to grow up, and you can't be so willful, so naïve, and so childish.

10. Learn to be serious, serious to people, serious to things.

11. Learn to be cautious, don't know people you shouldn't know, and don't meddle in things you shouldn't meddle in.

12. Learn to forget, you can't live in the past, the memory is gone, and continue with the present life.

13. Learn to give up, some people will never belong to themselves, so let go happily, don't drag the mud and water, which will not only affect others, but also exhaust yourself 14. Learn to be cold-blooded, only good to people who are good to me.

15. Learn to be happier than before, even if you are sad, you have to face it with a smile.

16. Learn to be cruel, kill those who should be killed, and be indifferent to everything how to deal with it. Everything is indifferent. Everything is laughed at. There is no heart. There is no affection.

Because a sentence will collapse, that is, you have experienced too few things, the world is so big, there are many unfortunate things you have not seen, when you have a certain ability, in a limited time to continue to enrich yourself, improve yourself, the future will have unlimited possibilities, with money status, then you will become the leader, my personal understanding is so.

Why become apathetic, what can't you think about, relax, relax your mind. Calm down. Make yourself confident. Engage in more rewarding activities. Learn more. Communicate more. Don't turn yourself into apathy. Express yourself.

If you don't care about other people, don't smile at others, don't talk to others, and put on a picture where nothing matters to you, then you are indifferent enough, but the price is that you will lose a lot of friends.

Why be apathetic! Sometimes I want to, but it doesn't work! Don't force yourself to change your personality because of how many people you have in your life! You know! That's stupid!

Make the brain go blank! Make your face pale! Make life gray! Make life white! This is the real indifference, but the indifferent person is often full of heart!

If the other half, it's best to go back to the place where you were born to find it (in short, it should be a fellow countryman), and if you have time, you will meet this year and get married in 21 years.

You have experienced so much at the age of sixteen, and I sent you a sentence from Mr. Yang Jiang, you just think too much and do too little.

Restraining one's curiosity, ignoring one's surroundings, and sinking one's heart will stab one's eyes.

In this way, friends will not think that this person is very cold and difficult to befriend.

Forget about everyone and be indifferent.

It's okay not to care, not to take the initiative.