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Anonymous users2024-02-06The best thing to do is to make yourself cheerful and live with confidence. As for the lack of appearance, it can be made up for by internal changes, so that you can become humorous, optimistic and confident, and approachable. It is enough to be steady and old-fashioned, and to have an active mind.
It's just a few matches, not to mention touching girls, even doing things is smooth.
A person's physical appearance is not the most important thing, but the mental outlook is important.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Summary. There are several main reasons why it is difficult to find a partner
First, if you don't take the initiative to express your inner thoughts, it's hard to have a story.
The second is the serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women around me.
Third, we may consider a lot of economic reasons.
Fourth, maybe our standards will be much higher.
The reason why it is difficult to find a partner.
There are several reasons why it is difficult for dear people to find a partner: First, if you don't take the initiative to express your inner thoughts, it will be difficult to have a story. The second is the serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women around me.
Third, we may consider a lot of economic reasons. Fourth, maybe our standards will be much higher.
Can you tell us more about your personal situation? Let me help you analyze it specifically.
It can help you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Hello dear I just inquired about the relevant information for your reference I hope it can help you 1. There are too few social activities that you usually participate in, which accounts for a large part of the reason: it may be because the Internet is now developed, and people can entertain and leisure even if they don't leave home. Therefore, this generation's desire to go out is very low, and it is difficult for them to go out regularly to participate in social activities, let alone make friends of the opposite sex with similar interests and ages.
As a result, it is difficult for them to find a partner. 2. The times have developed and the thinking has progressed: whether it is a man or a woman, they want to find a person who is rich, has good conduct, and is good to you.
As the saying goes: you can't have both fish and bear's paws. No one is perfect.
Bibi this, Bibi that, in the end, I was exhausted, and I felt that it was really difficult to find a suitable partner 3, the pressure of material and social life: parents want their children to live a better life, for fear that they will be wronged, and some have the phenomenon of comparing with each other. So the conditions are getting higher and higher, the cost is getting bigger and bigger, and now the children are getting married, except for the house, I am afraid that I will not be able to get it without hundreds of thousands.
There is too much pressure in material life, so it is becoming more and more difficult for young people to find a partner. 4. I look ugly, and I still think others are stumbling: This can be said to be the status quo of most people who want to get rid of singles.
This height is not enough, that ** is not good, there are a lot of people I have met, but I just feel that no one is worthy of me, while picking on others, I forget that I am neither Cai Xukun nor Yang Mi, you dislike others, and others also dislike you. 5. Chat Terminator: Appearance is important, but as the saying goes, good-looking skins are the same, interesting souls are one in a thousand, no matter how good-looking they are, if you can't catch each other's stalks when chatting, and you are always cold, even Cupid, the god of love, can't save you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03The difficulty in finding a partner in rural caves or young boys lies in the lack of cognitive and communication skills.
Therefore, we must work hard to learn and improve our knowledge and cognition, and at the same time, we must expand our horizons and improve our good quality, so that we can communicate and get along with each other more friendly, and form a happier, better and happier family.
1.Keep a calm mind when communicating.
It is important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your emotions, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.
2.Abandon your self-esteem when communicating.
Unnecessary self-esteem and pride can only become a stumbling block to communication, so at the very least, you should abandon your so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.
3.Be open and honest in your communication.
In the process of communication, it is very important to be honest with each other, do not hide it, and honesty is an important step for you to deepen the cooperative relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy communication.
4.State clearly what the conversation will be about.
No matter what the problem is, why, how, what the reason is, etc., you must fully explain to the other party, even if there is no reason to act, you must inform the other party of your own considerations and ideas, and get the other party's understanding and support in action will be of good help to the development of communication and the development of the next situation.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Personally, I have a hard time accepting the types of object jobs that are:
1.Professional criminals, such as drug lords, fraudsters, etc. These jobs are inherently illegal and can easily bring danger or trouble to life.
2.Workers in specialty industries, such as pornography. These jobs will cause great trouble in life and interpersonal relationships, and there will also be deviations from the mainstream values of society.
3.People who are chronically unstable or change jobs frequently. For example, temporary workers, unemployed vagrants, etc. Long-term economic and life instability can be stressful and not conducive to long-term relationships.
4.People who have abnormal mental states or who are too emotionally negative choose jobs. For example, jobs that require a high degree of isolation or are prone to stress. This can exacerbate the other person's existing psychological and emotional problems and put them in the thick of it.
5.Long-term work away from home, such as long-term flight work, unsuccessful work at sea, etc. It is difficult to maintain a normal family life and emotional ties in this type of work.
In addition to this, each person has their own other criteria and deflection chakra when choosing a partner. But in general, a stable and regulated career, a job that does not bring undue trouble or stress to life and relationships, will be more acceptable to most people. Jobs that can be dangerous, illegal, or morally distressing are difficult for most people to accept.
After all, a person's work already affects and determines a large part of the state and quality of life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01What should I do if the solution is not easy to find?
Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answer: not having an object is a very common thing, and it is also very normal. First of all, what you have to do is to relax, don't push yourself too hard, don't transfer your stress to finding someone.
Secondly, you can participate in more social activities, communicate with more people, and increase your social circle, so that it will be easier to find people you like. Finally, you can participate in more hobby activities, such as sports, traveling, etc., so that it will be easier to find like-minded friends and people you like. In short, don't overload yourself, participate in more social activities and hobbies, and you will be able to find someone you like more easily.
Not going to find a girlfriend for fear of being hurt is like not doing business for fear of losing money. If you don't try how to know the ending, some things need to be exercised and mature. It is impossible for all relationships to be smooth, and it takes failure to succeed.
Hello, you prefer to think, which may indicate that the subjective world is relatively rich and less dependent on the objective or external. Such a man has his own independent thoughts, does things in an orderly manner, and is more down-to-earth. The bad thing may be that you are diligent in thinking, and your habits, behaviors, and thoughts will be more stereotyped, not easy to change, and not easy to accept new things in the outside world, so your partner is better to be extroverted, that is, she will like to rely on the external environment, like more social life, like to try everywhere, see some new things, if you can adjust and accept your partner, you can get beneficial supplements from her, and it will also add a lot of surprises to your life.
In fact, my criteria for finding a boyfriend are very simple, as long as he is a mature and stable person, who has a sense of responsibility for life and career and family, he should be a suitable person for me, not requiring her to be too good-looking, nor asking him to have too much property, only asking him to be able to really love me, two people can, think about things and do things together, care for each other, I think this is enough.
Excuse! Some enterprising people think about some male stars, these are true....Ordinary people can't find this either because of their appearance or their economic base.
You shouldn't tell him that you're no longer a virgin, this should be your privacy, if it's not necessary, it should rot in your stomach, you must know that sometimes white lies are much better than the truth, the truth is always cruel, and if you think he can be entrusted with it for life, go ahead, there is nothing unworthy in the world, give up those bad memories of the past, otherwise it will become your spiritual baggage, people have to look forward, work hard for their own happiness, bless you.