Tell us about your criteria for finding a partner.

Updated on society 2024-02-08
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, my criteria for finding a boyfriend are very simple, as long as he is a mature and stable person, who has a sense of responsibility for life and career and family, he should be a suitable person for me, not requiring her to be too good-looking, nor asking him to have too much property, only asking him to be able to really love me, two people can, think about things and do things together, care for each other, I think this is enough.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because of my limited ability, limited university level, my own economic conditions, coupled with my physical condition, so the criteria for choosing a mate, of course, is to live, the other party is alive and is a girl, I don't like boys, it doesn't matter if she looks good or not, it doesn't matter if she has a good voice or not, she is alive and wants to be with me, then it's okay.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My criteria for finding a partner are actually very simple, the height is about the same as mine, I am 189, and she is about ten centimeters shorter than me. If you want to have some meat, it is best to be about 120 pounds, of course, the most important thing in the end is that you must be rich, and it is best to be Bai Fumei, because there is a difference between me and Gao Fushuai.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, I think that a requirement for finding the other half is actually very simple, as long as you know how to empathize, how to be considerate of others, and know how to care for others, I think this is enough, because if you live together, it is nothing more than communication and exchange, and everyone is comfortable together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's the same with me. Reason.

    Don't ask for kindness, but have kindness.

    Support gender equality.

    I like people who look like me.

    You don't need to be diligent, but you must not be lazy.

    After that comes the plus:

    Pretty. You will not be fooled by sweet words and have your own judgment.

    Super like me.

    Super like me.

    Super like me.

    It's important, so say it three times!

    Loved ACGN.

    Optimistic, guest ** people or things, I believe that most people are good people.

    Won't bind me.

    Receptive to anything.

    Cosplay or something ( ) o( ).

    Ahem, the following is omitted, anyway, I probably can't meet such a girl, and I don't deserve it (

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not too demanding. Gentle and not irritable, steady and calm in dealing with people. There is a certain sense of responsibility and responsibility.

    It gives me a sense of security. He will earn money to support his family, he will be considerate of his family, especially gentle and considerate to me, and he will be really good to me. Good looking and pleasing to the eye, not too fat.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Height 180 or above. 2.

    You can't love siblings. 3.Can't be in a long-distance relationship.

    4.Parents can't be teachers. Since I'm not short, I don't think it's too much to ask for 10 centimeters taller than me.

    Personally, I don't think I'm very secure or mature, and I don't have confidence in long-distance relationships or sibling relationships, so I want to avoid them as much as possible.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't have any hard requirements for finding a partner.,As long as the appearance is average.,It's OK to be able to say the past.。 I believe that there will be no problem in today's fast-growing society. As long as the family background is the duty of the family, there are no bad hobbies.

    The only thing is to understand me, and it's okay to be able to communicate with me.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Three views and harmony, like each other, can talk, look almost a little taller, and have a certain material foundation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The main thing is character and three views.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Must be above 170 in height, including 170

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. The appearance is not annoying.

    Whether it's a man or a woman, the first glance is especially important, and you will only get to know each other better if you don't hate them when you see them.

    If you don't have a good impression of him at first sight, then no matter how hard you try, it's just a matter of getting there.

    Feelings are two-way running, one-sided one-man show.

    Even if you can make a little progress temporarily, it is difficult to make the relationship last, and it is even more difficult to not give up when facing the trivialities of life in the future.

    When choosing a partner, the initial starting point is the appearance, which can be appearance, temperament, and figure, as long as you like it.

    2. Have income.

    Whether it is a man or a woman, having income is also a manifestation of generating value, and a person with income, even if he cannot be rich and expensive for the time being, at least he is constantly shining.

    Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion.

    As long as you are willing to work hard, God will always reward you with a bite to eat.

    When choosing a partner, choosing someone with income is also choosing a valuable person, and with such a person, your survival can be guaranteed.

    3. Good character.

    Character is the criterion for choosing a mate.

    The most important plus, especially for many people.

    A person with good character always has his own bottom line of principles in his heart, he will not betray easily, nor will he cross it casually, his education, the environment in which he grew up, and the surrounding relatives and friends will all affect him and not be too bad.

    People gather by like, and things by groups.

    What kind of person you are, what kind of friends you are around, a partner with good character, not only changes your own life, but also affects the prosperity of a family.

    4. Down-to-earth.

    When choosing a mate, you must see whether the other party is willing to be down-to-earth and grow diligently.

    There are countless ways for society to take back everything that is beyond the scope of a person's cognition, don't leave it to chance, and don't feel that you are the exception.

    Nowadays, people are becoming more and more impetuous, and they don't have much ability, but they have to be higher than the sky, and they feel that they are born extraordinary, until the society teaches him to be a man, and he can slowly restrain himself.

    The more bombastic the person, the less trustworthy he is, you just have to look at the other person's conversation, dress, and circle to see his whole life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, most of women's feelings are more emotional, often not as rational as men, and there are many standards for people to find a partner nowadays, because each one is very important.

    1. External conditions.

    Appearance, height, overall dress, I believe this is the first thing we see when we choose a person, everyone has their own favorite type, some people have eyes or very comfortable at a glance, the first impression is good, there is naturally the possibility of continuing to understand. There is also another situation, which is to fall in love over time, and some people, although they are not good enough in appearance, are humorous, have a good personality or have strong work ability, and they are just as shining in life.

    Second, whether the three views of two people are compatible.

    After all, sometimes a lot of beauty is imagined by yourself, a person's appearance is suitable for you, it does not mean that your three views are also compatible, the three views (world view, outlook on life, values) are not exactly the same, but of course, they must be compatible, two people can continue, otherwise there will be various contradictions in the future.

    3. Family and economy.

    Family relationship and economic ability of each other, for friends who plan to get married, this question has to be mentioned, after all, love and married life are different, whether the happiness index is high, this problem accounts for at least half of the problem, of course, more importantly, if two people are firm enough, the relationship is stable, and they are willing to give everything for each other, since both people are willing to bear and work together, then these are not problems in the face of true love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    For the current reality, girls see the romance in front of them, and for boys, most of them put the reality in front of them and look at the right match.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There are many reasons to be single, but the pressure from parents and age is increasing. So what are your criteria for finding a partner? Here are a few things to refer to.

    1. The three views are the same.

    2. The educational background is comparable, and there will be no generation gap in speech.

    3. The age difference is not more than 5 years old (some people may also want to find someone of the same age, it varies from person to person).

    4. There is not much difference in the taste of eating, at least two people can eat together.

    5. Have a certain economic foundation, as the saying goes, a good economic foundation determines the superstructure, if two people are not as good as one person together, then what is the meaning of his existence? Some people may say that you are not so lonely anymore, but you have to endure so much unhappiness for such a little bit of loneliness after you have been lonely for so long. If you can, then don't say anything about it, life is up to you anyway.

    6. That person is happy with you, you may not believe in love at first sight, but sometimes the first meeting really has a big impact. Because only when he likes you at the beginning, will he be comfortable together.

    Why do you have so many feelings, haha, because Yiyi went to dinner with a blind date yesterday, and I felt a lot of emotion. When you get older, you still face a lot of pressure in all aspects, how can you get through this hurdle strongly, brothers still have to earn more money, be self-reliant, and be self-reliant, even if someone urges you, you have the confidence to scare them. A life is not a long time, and I hope to live more for myself.

    Economic freedom is the premise, don't grieve yourself, one by one is actually very contradictory now, and I feel that the blind date is a little inappropriate.

    Maybe people who have been single for a long time will feel this way, suddenly a person's life is broken, with the intervention of a stranger, under the guise of increasing communication, asking this and that, feeling that the balance of their lives is destroyed, and they have to deal with those irrelevant people in addition to life. It doesn't matter if it's not related, but when there's no clear relationship, I think it's still necessary to keep a certain spatial distance. Otherwise, it's really annoying.

    Probably because I don't feel very satisfied, I think it's a kind of pressure.

    complained about so many bad things about myself, in fact, life can't be immutable, more tolerant of others, more rich yourself, everything will be better! fighting!

    ps: Actually, I was already very hungry when I made an appointment to eat yesterday, and I was embarrassed to say, hey, I have been queuing for a long time, and I am not intimate at all. After all, the first time we meet, we have to eat something that everyone can accept.

    In fact, I have already said that a certain restaurant is slow to serve food, the table is small, and I don't want to go, but I still go in the end, and I really can't complain. If you score it, 6 points, it can't be more, I have a hunch of getting married late, and it's best to prepare.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. The three views are the same or similar: If the three views are the same or similar to the other party, then the perspective of looking at the world is also the same, and the spiritual resonance and fit can be achieved, and the soul is matched! When two people stay in the same room, even if they don't say a word, it will not be embarrassing, but a kind of comfort of mental and physical relaxation.

    2. Strength matching: you have an airplane, I have a cannon; You can write, I can martial arts; We are on a par with each other and support each other to go further. Being together is a complementary model, with each having its own strengths and weaknesses and being able to solve the problems we may encounter, rather than one person being dependent on another.

    3. Interaction: When you are together, you can always put forward what the other party thinks before the other party, and let the other party love yourself a little more at this time. No matter how long they have been together, they can interact naturally and casually, and the interaction in the relationship can always make each other more satisfied with life, and both parties will not be tired for a long time if they have intentionally or unintentionally maintained.

    4. Mutual attraction: Mutual attraction between men and women has the prerequisite for falling in love. A good relationship is what everyone is looking forward to, and it is also a good wish for everyone to need each other, support each other, and spend a lifetime together.

    5. Open relationship: It is said that parents are the first confiding object of their children, and of course they should notify their parents as soon as they have good things, and they can also inform their friends. A good relationship should not be an underground relationship, a good relationship needs to be under the sun, and it needs to be blessed by parents and friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you pay attention to external conditions, then choose a mate according to the criteria, if you pay attention to fate, know each other, fall in love, and love each other, maybe it is the standard for choosing a mate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The most important condition is that the two people really love each other, so that they will know how to cherish each other, and secondly, they must have a common language or common goal, because the life of intersection will go further, and it is not easy to have large differences, and they will also support each other and grow together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When looking for a partner, I usually ask them to have a stable job, and they must have this self-motivation and this sense of responsibility, which are the most basic must-haves, and if they don't, they will definitely not be happy with them.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, the criteria for choosing a mate are almost the same, first of all, I am a man, so the height cannot be taller than me, and it is best not to be too fat, otherwise I can't hold it, the most important point is that the three views should be all the time, and the appearance can be seen as long as it is passable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The little brother who used to chase me was over 180, and finally liked a man who liked sports and had a general belly because of the editor-in-chief of a publishing house, who was arrogant, interesting, could cook, and would be poor. Embarrassment, before I met someone I liked, I asked for a lot of things, and it was not a matter if I met.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I hope he is about 175 tall, good-looking, **better, it doesn't matter if he is rough, as long as there are not too many acne and spots, it is better to be in good shape, even if it is not good, do not have a beer belly!

    The family conditions should not be too poor, even if there is no money, do not be poor and unable to open the pot. Be responsible, self-motivated, and work hard!

    It's okay to sing out of tune, just don't be too ugly!

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