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In fact, you already have the answer to this question in your heart, so why ask for the opinions of others?
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Don't make a decision lightly because of this, love always has a stable period, you must learn to create surprises, make life together vibrant, and things are done by people
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It's real to distinguish life!!
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I like someone, but I don't feel it, whether I like it or not, and I'm confused.
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Give something specific, such as time, etc., if it's long, don't divide it! If you can stay in that door for a long time, there will definitely be something that connects you both! Be good at discovering!
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How can we be together without feelings?
If you feel it, you can only be together, why don't you feel it after a long time? Is there a common search for the cause? If there is a problem, it will not be solved.
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If you don't even have a common language, divide it.
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Alas, if you don't feel it, you break up, what is it like?
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When two people are together, they have to rely on emotional connection, and you can only feel whether the emotion is still there.
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You've said how you feel, what else do you ask, ask yourself, you're the one who knows you best.
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When you're separated, you'll know what to think.
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Of course, it's divided, and I don't feel it anymore, so why waste time together.
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If you don't feel it, let's break it up, so as not to drag it out and make it uncomfortable for both of you.
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Why many couples lose to the cold period.
Two people have been together for a long time, feel that they understand each other, and they slowly reduce the time spent on each other, many times, they feel that it is a small thing, not to, but life is composed of some small things, which also determines the direction of your emotional life in the future, we must have a sense of ritual and attach importance to any little thing between two people. Maybe the other person will love you more because of this. Some people will say that these are flashy things, they are all formalism, and they are not interesting, but it is undeniable that it is these formalisms that will enrich life, and your love will not become rough in the ordinary.
What is the sense of ritual like.
What is the sense of ritual like. As it says in "The Little Prince": "You'd better come at the same time every day."
For example, if I come at four o'clock in the afternoon, then from three o'clock, I start to feel happy. The closer the time, the happier I am. At four o'clock, I would be restless; I will find the price of happiness.
But if you come at any time, I don't know when to prepare my mood, and there should be a certain ritual. "Sense of ritual", it seems that in real life, the sense of ritual is everywhere, and it is the most direct way for people to express their inner feelings. It can be faith, a love of life, a recognition and pursuit of a refined way.
Life is meaningless, and we are responsible for finding a meaning in our own life. And the sense of ritual is what gives time a special meaning, and to put it bluntly, it is to treat the seemingly ordinary little things in life with heart. There is no fixed standard for the sense of ceremony, there is no need to be extravagant and wasteful, and it is simple and warm.
How to make yourself feel ritualistic.
Give each other a hug before going out every day, and encourage each other, although the outside world is a little unkind, but two people warm each other, it is extraordinarily warm, and prepare a gift for each other on your birthday, it does not need to be too expensive, but this is your expression of emotion to each other, is a deep love. Cooking dinner together, enjoying it, hugging each other and sitting down to watch a movie after the meal, the sense of ritual that life needs is precisely reflected in the little things that we inadvertently ignore.
Give each other a hug before going out every day, and encourage each other, although the outside world is difficult and impersonal, but two people warm each other, it is obvious that a delicate breakfast can evoke the spirit of the day, love, is the sense of ritual in the plain, coarse tea and light rice There are also people who create surprises for you, rather than forgetting love in the ups and downs of life. The so-called sense of ritual in ordinary life, even if you are busy, you have to do something solemnly, even if you just eat a spicy hot, you have to use a delicate bowl, red leaf net, and look at each other with a satisfied smile after eating.
In a specific festival, prepare some gifts in advance, gifts do not need to be too expensive, but you must be careful, after all, although money can buy a lot of things, but you can't buy sincerely.
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Summary. There is no feeling of first love, only the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life.
There is no feeling of first love, only the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life.
What if it's off-site.
If you only see each other a few times a month or a year, you still have that feeling.
If there is no novelty, will the other party feel that it is beautiful to live without themselves?
This won't, as long as two people really like it, even if there is no freshness, two people's hearts will be together.
Will the likes that have no freshness fade with time?
It won't become rotten, it will become that you have me in your heart, and I have you in my heart, although there is no freshness, it will become you know me, I know you.
It's just that you don't need too many words, you know each other in your heart, right?
Yes. What happens if you don't contact each other for six days in a long-distance relationship.
6 days is a bit long, you can call ** and ask him about his recent situation.
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No. There is no attraction to each other, and they should be separated as soon as possible. The union of men and women to form a family is rooted in feelings, and without the maintenance of feelings, the family will lose the foundation of its existence and will be dispersed sooner or later.
It is better to have a short pain than a long pain, so two people who have no feelings must separate as soon as possible, which is good for everyone. The matter of feelings is an inner monologue and a resonance of the soul, so feelings must not deceive themselves.
If you look at it subjectively, I don't think it's necessary, it depends on the relationship with him at the beginning, if the relationship is average at the beginning, and you can't force yourself together with the mentality of trying together, it's quite boring, there is no feeling of heartbeat together, I think this kind of love is meaningless, affecting yourself and delaying others, it hurts a lot to infiltrate him, and it is also a kind of mental torture for yourself, so it's better to separate as soon as possible, there is no need to hurt each other, and there is no need to deliberately wronged yourself to stay with him for this comfort. If two people don't feel together, where does life come from, and if there is no fun and taste, then what's the meaning of being together?
So from an objective point of view, if you have no illusions and expectations for love, and just feel that life is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, then live together, once you choose to accept it, take it seriously, and don't open your eyes and have a playful mentality, because this may make you lose someone. I think you can not accept the love of a person you don't love, but it is still necessary not to trample on this sincerity.
Now your choice can look like this:
1. Take the initiative to talk to the other party about your feelings, see how the other party feels, see how the other party feels about you, and then make a decision whether to continue to stay together, 2. Choose to leave directly, so that you can save your mind and effort, and your spirit will not be tortured.
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