My boyfriend s parents don t agree, should I let it go

...... that doesn't require you to let goLook at him, after all, it's his family who is not satisfied with ......All you can do is love him, help him, comfort him, and let him know that you deserve to treat him like this! Then do your best, let his parents accept you a little bit every day, take your time, don't rush, love, all have to pay!

However, if one day, he can't hold on, then don't blame him, he really tried his best! He's a man too! Don't hate yourself either, you did your best!

So, since that day hasn't come yet, don't think too much about it now, as long as he doesn't give up, you can hold on to him tightly! Enjoy the present, no one knows what will happen in the future!

Maybe tomorrow, his parents won't object to it anymore?

I wish you happiness ......

If he can't even convince his parents, but complains in front of you all day long, he is very depressed, saying that he is afraid that he will not be able to hold it in the future... So what else can he give you in the future? There is still a long way to go, and there are many, many or even more difficult problems to face...

Will he be able to hold on?。。 If he is really very good to you, he will be willing to give it his all. - Will he?

You should know.

Resolutely don't let go, it's okay, what's there, his parents don't know you so they don't like it, and when they get married, it's good in all aspects, I don't believe what else they can say, but it's true to be filial to them, if you treat them well, they will naturally treat you well.

You shouldn't let go, you should seize your own happiness; Besides, no matter how stubborn the parents are, they will not stop their sons from pursuing true love. When people are young, they should suffer a little bit and live a good life on their own, and they should not sit back and enjoy their success. Time can dilute everything, and I believe that the man's parents will bless you in the end.

My boyfriend often says that love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. If you are separated because of your parents' opposition, you will never be able to let go, but it is very tiring to work against your parents like this. You haven't really met his parents yet, so why not take the risk?

It's none of your business, shouldn't you let go? It's about the child's attitude, he wants to let go, it's useless for you to insist, the decision is up to him. Life kills love...

Don't let go, you want to live with the current man in the future, not your parents, since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety are difficult to achieve, but now you will definitely regret it for the rest of your life after breaking up with him. It's not easy to find someone you love and love yourself.

If it's in a TV series, I would suggest that you insist, and if you have a lover, you will eventually become married. But this is the reality, even if he insists on being with you now, or even has a conflict with his parents for you, but in the future, you can be sure that he will not resent you for breaking with his parents. Let go early, let go early, and get rid sooner.

Then you can't let go, you can discuss it with your parents, do ideological work for your parents, and don't care what your parents say as long as you love each other.

Let it go! An unblessed marriage will not be happy, so you will all be very tired together, let him go, let himself go.

If you really love each other, one day your parents will see it and forgive it at the same time! Bless you.

Men should rely on their own efforts to support their women, family background is not good, the key is to see the efforts of two people, the difference between men and women is 10 centimeters is the most matched.

If it were me, I would have tried to get the consent of his parents. Two people really love each other, why can't they be together, parents are of course very important in each other's hearts, but they can't be unrealistic.

The days are your choice, your own path to go, what others say can only be opinions, and cannot determine your own life!

I hope you are happy!

Don't give up, love him well, and let your family see that you are happy together!

Love insistence, if you don't love, scatter attention, think clearly about the consequences before insisting, choose love, love choose, otherwise you will be adrift all your life.

If both parties really want to love, use true feelings to move their parents.

Can you withstand the pressure from his parents, how long can he hold on, how long can he last, these are all questions you should ask yourself.

Soap opera - Get ready for a long fight.

It's up to two people to decide whether to let go or not.

Don't want that kind of man.

I believe that when you encounter such a thing, you may be at a loss, after all, your other half of their family does not agree that they are with him, so that they don't get the blessing of their elders, everyone really doesn't know whether to continue to persevere, and they don't know how long they can last, so most people will feel frustrated when they encounter such a thing, and they can't figure out what to do after that. <>

I've never experienced anything like this myself, but just thinking about it makes me feel suffocating. In fact, there are many couples who choose to break up because of their parents, although we do not say that we have to obey our parents in everything when we become adults, but the opinions of parents sometimes have to be referenced, and many times we need to consider the feelings of our parents. I'm going to talk about what I would do if my boyfriend's family didn't approve of us being together.

For all couples who encounter such a situation, whether it is the opposition of the man's parents or the opposition of the woman's parents, the most important thing at the moment is to look at the attitude of the other party, after all, the relationship is a matter of two people, and only when the goals of two people are the same and firm can this relationship go through the ups and downs together, so if I encounter such a thing, I will look at the attitude of my boyfriend, and I will make the final decision because of his attitude. If he is willing to face it with me, I will not be afraid, but if he has the slightest idea of wanting to give up, then I will definitely not persevere, because I can't insist on it alone, and the key point that wants to change is with him. <>

If he is willing to face all this with me, I will not give up this relationship, after all, at this point I also know how difficult it is for us to go all the way, so I will do my best to change his parents' opinion of me, and I will also work hard for the future of both of us.

The boyfriend's family does not approve of you being together, and if his family is very resolute and has thought about your relationship with your boyfriend, then it is okay to break up.

I think if you and your boyfriend have a very good relationship and are inseparable, you can do the work of his parents, and every parent wants their children to be happy.

In fact, his family's idea is that it is your boyfriend who can really make decisions in his family. So you should look at your boyfriend's attitude towards you and whether he really loves you, and then you decide whether you want to be with him or not.

I think if your boyfriend's family doesn't allow you to be together, you should choose to give up, his family doesn't want you to be together, there must be unsolvable contradictions, if you force yourself together, you may not be happy in the future, after all, many marriages that are not blessed by the big family do not last long.

It depends on the boyfriend's attitude, whether he is willing to stick to the relationship, and if he wants, you can be together.

I think you should choose to let go, since the other party's family doesn't accept you, I don't think you need to wronged yourself like this, otherwise one day you will be hurt more.

Should you let go of his attitude, if he is brave enough to hold your hand in the face of family opposition, you have to insist on love. If he doesn't care, then you probably have the option to let it go.

If your boyfriend is very nice to you and is more persistent. You shouldn't let go, or it's better to let go.

You can be with your boyfriend and work hard to create a great future with your own hands.

If the two of you have a deep relationship, don't separate, after all, you are going to marry your boyfriend, not his parents. But if the feelings between you are average, then decisively divide it, it is difficult for the feelings that your parents do not agree to go on, and there are even few results.

His family doesn't approve of you being together, so what about your boyfriend's attitude?

Parents must be thinking about you from a realistic point of view, and what they say is definitely for your good. First of all, you should be sure of this. The most important thing is to know what kind of life you want, what kind of life you can't stand and what kind of life he can give you.

If there is no contradiction between them, you should have no problem with him. Plus, you have to think about your next generation. If there are only two people, you can do anything.

Yet can you tolerate your children living in relative poverty and your parents not being able to afford a good ward when they are seriously ill? I have a feeling that you are actually hesitating. If you really don't care, you won't say that much.

Only you know your inner voice best.

Love without material things is a plate of sand, which doesn't need to be blown by the wind, and it will be scattered after two steps. What I want to tell you is that no matter what parents do, please understand them. What parents want most is the happiness of their children.

Being in a relationship can make them feel secure. But if your boyfriend is self-motivated, he will work hard and be nice to you. They will see it slowly.

Now this society will never be poor as long as it is willing to work hard. As long as you're willing to work hard, it's only a matter of time before you can afford a home.

So when you look at a vision, you can't stop at whether he can afford a house or not. Your parents, because they don't know your boyfriend, will definitely look at something from the outside first. But you're different.

You get along day and night. You should know him better. It's worth judging for yourself.

The love that parents have for their children is unmatched by others. They don't talk about things for no reason. If this happens, it's likely that the person you're dating with is the cause.

It may be because of the other party's personality, character, work, etc., that they feel that if they give their daughter to the other party, their daughter will not be happy, so from the perspective of the people who have come before, they will stop it. At this time, as a client, you can't think that your parents are deliberately making things difficult. No matter how upset you are, ask your parents why they disagree and what they say.

You may not see some results, but your parents' analysis should give you some help and food for thought.

You shouldn't give up, if you really know him, and you like him very much, and he thinks he is very suitable as a marriage partner, then you should stick to your own ideas, communicate well with your parents, and let your parents discover each other's strengths, so that they can choose to accept each other.

I don't think you should give up, you should work hard, the relationship between the two of you is already relatively deep, if you break up at this time, then you may not find a better person.

You should give up, because parents know a lot of truths in life, since it is said that two people are not suitable, it means that the other party is not a very reliable person.

If you shouldn't, you should convince your parents that they respect your feelings, so that you can take care of both.

What shouldn't be should be better than your own cowardice, so that your parents respect your emotions, so that you can take care of both.

Shouldn't.

First of all, let's be clear: the love that the man's parents opposed, basically failed to get married in the end. The love that the woman's parents opposed basically became in the end.

Analysis: Generally speaking, the reasons for the disagreement of the woman's parents are basically related to the man's poor family conditions and the man's own poor strength. And these two points, if the man can show enough sincerity and show enough ability, such as hard work, hard-working and other qualities, and future development potential, etc., the woman's parents can see a acceptable future, and finally the woman's parents have the possibility of relenting.

More importantly, in love, girls are more blind than boys. They are more likely to look at love and ignore whether other objective conditions are suitable. Even if the boy fails to meet the above conditions, the girl will still be stupid and stupid, work hard, and insist on marrying the person she loves despite the opposition of her parents.

The reason for the opposition of the man's parents, in most cases, the woman cannot solve it by her own efforts. For example, the woman's family is a drag, the education is too low, the work is not decent, the age is old, the appearance is low, the height is short, etc. These shortcomings, girls basically have no way to lift like boys, and rely on improving their economic strength in the later stage to make up for them.

At the same time, compared with girls, boys are more realistic and pay more attention to weighing the pros and cons. When it comes to marriage, they don't just think about love.

Therefore, many of the love that the female Zhengzhi and Fang's parents opposed, have entered into marriage. And the love that the man's parents oppose, and the one who can enter into marriage, is very few.

This very small number of examples, I think, may be realized basically that the boy likes this girl very much, loves this girl, and does not hesitate to fight for her and his family. In reality, very few boys can do it.

Back to the subject's example, although I don't know what your boyfriend's family is dissatisfied with you, can you correct it and make up for it. But I know your boyfriend doesn't love you much.

If he loves you extremely strongly, he will tell you that although his parents do not accept you, he will not give up on you and that he is willing to give you a home with his own efforts. If you say yes, then then, when it comes to gaining support from his family or confronting him, he is your ally, and you can walk side by side.

In the worst case, you end up without the support of both parents, and you can also get the certificate on your own and become a legal couple. Since he didn't say that, and has already proposed a breakup to you, it shows that under the pressure of his family, he weighed it and chose to give up. He has given up on you, and there is no point in your redemption.

Because in this case, even if you try, the probability of you being able to recover is extremely low.

The smaller the probability, you have succeeded in redeeming it. But the previous problem has not been solved, he does not love you enough to help you overcome family resistance and lead you into marriage. So you're still going to break up.

To sum up, let it go, girl. Keep moving forward and look for someone who is a better fit. His family likes you, your family accepts him, and your union can be supported and blessed by both parents. This is the tone of a happy marriage.