Her family doesn t approve of the two of us being together, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-02-08
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Elope? unhealthy; It's better to wait for the opportunity.,(Parents are really sad about this threshold...)

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's big and there's nothing wrong with it, I'm bigger than my boyfriend, and it's nothing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    elopement: Either make her belly bigger first, and then she won't be able to do it if she doesn't want to.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As long as the two of you have no opinion, the adult door is only temporarily opposed If you go back during the Spring Festival, you will not be so opposed if you are really good As for the check, it is only when parents care about their children that it is understandable.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You two are too young to fit There is nothing wrong with people having such thoughts, the incumbent thinks about it in the long run, and other parents are also for the good of their children, you think, you are so young, if you are together, what happiness can you give her, no money to drink the northwest wind? You can't blame their parents, as parents think about it, although young people think that it is normal to take care of each other together, but the old people don't think so, they will plan for the long run, since it is a girl, they should not mess around, at least have a decent job, and have a life guarantee together in the future, so it is normal for them to oppose you, you say you can take care of it, and the family will say, what do children know, how to solve things when encountered, social experience is not enough, I'm afraid that you and their daughter will delay others together, so in this case, if you really like her, then tell her so, I like you, but you can also take care of each other, after all, both of us are from other places, although my parents don't agree, but I won't do anything to you, just take care of each other, if your parents want you to separate, I will agree, you say so to your girlfriend!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Give me your phone number, and I'll do it for you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This question requires you to think deeply about yourself, considering the feelings between you and your partner and whether you are ready to take on the responsibility of starting a family and taking responsibility for your own decisions.

    First of all, you need to listen carefully to the opinions of both parents, understand the reasons and concerns of their objections, and think about the reasonableness and desirability of them. After listening, you should also express your own thoughts and feelings so that parents can understand your situation and ideas.

    If you and your partner decide to stay together, you need to have faith in Wu Xiang's own decision and be prepared as much as possible, including actively communicating, solving problems, alleviating worries about the family's longevity, and so on. At the same time, you also need to understand the thoughts and feelings of parents, and try to incorporate their thoughts and considerations to a certain extent.

    Whatever you ultimately decide, it must be a deliberate and deliberate decision, and you must be prepared for long-term, constant communication and consultation. Finally, it is important to advise on the understanding and support of families and parents, but also to recognize that the decision-making power lies with you and that you are responsible for your own well-being and future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't think you're looking at the wrong person, leave the rest to time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Sit down with your parents and have a good chat, after all, they are people who have come and can see more of the story. If there is a change, if there is none, it will be encouraged. also tell them more good things about your boyfriend, your boyfriend will show up more, and your boyfriend will help you more when you have something at home, so that the elderly will know that this person is reliable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If, after a long period of contact, you feel that this boyfriend's character is worth entrusting for life, communicate well with your family members and persuade them.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Two people who love each other want the blessings of family and friends above all else. However, reality sees family love as the last test of love, and many relationships come to an abrupt halt in the face of family love.

    Many free love between men and women, which does not end up coming together, is nothing more than emotional disharmony, or the disapproval of parents. I don't think there is any regret if you break up because of emotional discord, it is not appropriate for two people to be together, for those who are in free love, but because their parents do not agree, I feel a little regretful.

    Express your determination to your parents and let them know that you are not in love with him, and that you are very firm and unshakable.

    Just because they don't agree with you doesn't mean your love doesn't exist, so you can only prove to your parents how inseparable you are by proving how much you love each other. Sometimes you can only do a little bit, but you still need to work on it, so on the parental side, you still need to show more. Believe in your love, your parents will definitely agree, both sides of love are both smart and stupid, you can't do anything for love just to be with each other.

    Don't be fiercely confrontational. For example, if your parents have arranged a blind date for you, you can go, but you should communicate well with your partner. That's what I'm going to do.

    I will tell you beforehand, and I will confess everything to you. When you come to an agreement, you can both get along with your parents.

    Plan well for parents to see. Your parents are never vexatious. They want their children to find a better partner, have a bright face, have a happy life, and it is normal to have requirements for hardware.

    But this is not absolute. You must understand that the decision of your future life is in your hands.

    Only if you work hard will you leave no regrets for yourself, and when you encounter problems, don't give up easily. This may make you regret what you did at this time in your later years.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Two people face the family together, prove with actions that the two of you are the right choice to be together, and do a lot of work for the family, I believe that over time, they will agree.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you really identify the other party, find a way to tell your family. Of course, when communicating with family members, you must pay attention to the method, not too emotional, not impulsive, otherwise it will backfire.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Emotional things will not be smooth sailing after all, the family does not agree must have their reasons, what is the suggestion is to first figure out what is the reason for the family to disagree, and then the two of them together to find a way to solve, the difficulties are solved, not to look worried.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be sure to communicate well with your family, after all, a marriage without the blessing of your family is unhappy, as long as two people don't give up on each other, you will be able to make your family agree, your parents are for your own good, you must work hard.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The first thing to do is to know why the parents don't agree, find the reason and see if they can change it. If your parents don't agree to marry far away, you should also understand that they don't worry about you going to such a far place alone. In short, communicate more with your parents, no matter what the situation, they will always be the one who loves you the most.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is a very real problem for two people to be together and the family does not agree, it is best for both of you to dress up well, bring what both parents like, and the parents sit down together to discuss, generally speaking, parents still respect their children.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then try to get the consent of both families if they still don't understand that the two of you are together. You can also ignore their opinions, after all, you are also an adult and qualified to decide your own marriage.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you really just like each other and the other person is worthy of your liking, then do more parental work, let parents know each other's advantages, know that you will be happy with him or her, generally parents are thinking about the future happiness of their children, and they will agree when they see that you will be happy in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think we should work together to communicate with your family, talk more about each other's strengths, and the most important thing is to make your family feel the determination of both of you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    First of all, we must understand the reasons for the disagreement of the family, the parents are from the past, their opinions have great reference value, if they are right, you may wish to be cautious, if they understand wrong, but also communicate well, do not fall out with the family.

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