What should be included in the rites mentioned by Confucius many times in the Analects? How to und

The etiquette advocated by Confucius is to be knowledgeable and courteous, to be polite to others, to pay attention to etiquette, and not to be rude. It is of great significance to improving the quality and cultivation of the entire nation.

The main meaning of "etiquette" advocated by Confucius is "code of conduct". The functions of this "rite" include:

1. Political role: the so-called "ritual system" and "ritual governance" establish various rules and regulations to regulate people's behavior in order to achieve the role of ruling the country.

2. The role of society: the so-called "etiquette" standardizes people's behavior through various social etiquette and etiquette such as festival customs, birthday celebrations, weddings, funerals, and rituals, so as to achieve the role of changing customs.

3. The role of people's self-consciousness: the so-called "people are not benevolent, what is courtesy?" This is the greatest contribution of Confucius, Confucius endowed the rigid "li" with a "benevolent" soul, hoping that through education, people can observe their own lives from the external norms of behavior, so as to awaken their own hearts and be a gentleman who is determined to cultivate morality.

The main meaning of "etiquette" advocated by Confucius is "code of conduct". The functions of this "rite" include:

First, the role of politics, using the so-called "etiquette system" and "etiquette rule" to establish various rules and regulations to regulate people's behavior, so as to achieve the role of controlling the country.

Second, the role of society, with the so-called "etiquette", through festivals, birthdays, weddings, funerals, sacrifices and other social etiquette and etiquette, to standardize people's behavior, in order to achieve the role of changing customs.

Third, the role of people's self-consciousness, the so-called "people are not benevolent, how to be polite", this is the greatest contribution of Confucius, Confucius endowed the rigid "etiquette" and "benevolence" of the soul, hoping that through education, people can observe their own lives from the external norms of behavior, so as to awaken their own hearts, to be a gentleman who aspires to cultivate morality.

"Etiquette" requires each member of society to abide by the established social relations, and also gives each member of society a certain moral responsibility. If people adhere to these relationships and fulfill their moral responsibilities, society will be stable, and if order is disrupted, society will be unstable. The rituals in daily life are quite detailed and elaborate, but it is precisely this rituals that regulate people's words and deeds while forming a broad basis for a stable social order.

Confucius experience. Confucius's ancestors were nobles in Liyi (now Xiayi, Henan) in the Song Kingdom, and Shang Tang, the founding monarch of the Shang Dynasty. After the rebellion of the three prisons at the beginning of the Zhou Dynasty, in order to appease the nobles and descendants of the Shang Dynasty, the Duke of Zhou was ordered by King Cheng of Zhou to seal the brother of the King of Shang, Weiziqi, to establish the Song State in Shangqiu, and worship the Shang Dynasty.

After the death of Wei Ziqi, his younger brother Wei Zhong ascended the throne, and Wei Zhong was the fifteenth ancestor of Confucius.

The sixth ancestor got Kong's family, which was for Kong's father. Kong Fujia was a doctor of the Song State, a former Grand Sima with a fief located in Liyi of the Song State, and was later killed by Dazai Huadu during the court civil strife. Confucius's father, Jiazi, Mu Jin's father, Mu Jin's father and son, Kong Fang's grandson, Uncle Liang Su is Confucius's father, Uncle Liang Su fled to Lu State to settle in Shanyi (now Qufu, Shandong) to avoid the war of the Song Kingdom, and his official position is the doctor of Shanyi.

Uncle Liang Su's wife, Shi, gave birth to nine daughters but no sons, and the concubine gave birth to his eldest son, Meng Pi. Meng Pi had a foot disease, and Shu Liang Su was very dissatisfied, so he asked Nayan's daughter to be a concubine.

The Yan family has three daughters, and only the youngest daughter, Yan Zheng, is willing to marry her uncle Liang Su. Yan Zheng was less than 20 years old at the time, and Shu Liang Su was 66 years old, the age difference was huge, the two were married in the ceremony, and the husband and wife lived in Nishan and were pregnant, so it was called "wild cooperation".

The essence of etiquette is respect. Only then do you show your respect in the form of external etiquette.

Confucius. Confucius believed that the social order was different from the noble and the low, the old and the young, and the relatives, and required people's lifestyles and behaviors to conform to their identity and social and political status in the family, and different identities had different behavioral norms, which was the rites.

Sun Tzu's etiquette is indeed conducive to social norms, and it is indeed not conducive to people who do great things.

I believe that the morality, etiquette, ethics and gossip of the world are just invisible shackles to the laity, and those who are bound by them will not be able to be free for life, unable to do what they want to do, and will become slaves of invisible shackles for life, and become good citizens of class society, like the walking dead to live in the world. I call it the vulgar man, the mediocre man.