How can I be my unique self and not live to please others?

Follow your dreamsIf you want to be unique and live not to please others, then you have your own ideas and what you want to pursue. Because you first understand what you want, if even you don't know what you really want, then you are sure that all your actions are from some sustenance to others, so for yourself, you are not trying for yourself to get anything, or accomplish anything, at this time all your actions and efforts can be said to be living to please others, because you are not pleasing yourself. Therefore, if you want to achieve yourself, you must first understand what you want in order to have a clear direction and a clear goal, which will make you more motivated and have an ultimate sustenance for all your efforts.

Please yourselfYou have to pursue what you want and be able to fulfill your dreams. Because everyone's dreams are similar, but for yourself that is the most special, when you really complete some of the things you want to accomplish when you were a child or in the process of growing up, then in the end your life is unique, and it is difficult for others to give, because your experience is difficult for others to get such the same experience at your age, so for yourself this is a unique life, because you need a clear direction and goal. <>

You must learn to please yourself first, and then others, and the most important thing is to be able to live happily. Because if you don't even know how to take care of your own emotions, then how can you take care of other people's emotions, for yourself, you should first make your life happy, so that you can have enough ability to make other people's lives happy, this is everyone's requirement, if you are unhappy in your own life, how to ensure that others can see you will become very happy. <>

I hope you can understand that you must have your own dreams, you have to fight for your dreams, and it doesn't matter if you have some setbacks or failures in the middle, because your process and efforts for this are a unique experience, and you are a unique yourself.

In life, we should not care too much about other people's eyes, we must adjust our mentality, and we must continue to improve ourselves and improve ourselves, only in this way will we not please others and live.

You must be an independent, self-reliant, self-respecting and self-loving person, don't care about other people's opinions, make a good plan for your future life, and have your own goals.

To be one's own self and not live to please others, you must first determine your goals, be clear about the direction in which you are going, and work hard towards your dreams, and do not live to please others.

In life, we must live our own lives, not put too much pressure on ourselves, and do not have too many desires, only in this way can we not live to please others.

When encountering things, think about yourself first, think about your own feelings first, and then think about others.