Why am I afraid of being praised by others, and when I am praised, I am afraid, I feel that I am not

It can be seen that you do things not to get the affirmation of others, not for the praise of others, but you feel that you should do it, you don't want your behavior to attract the attention of others, as soon as others pay attention to you, you will lose motivation, feel that you do what you do for others, feel that your behavior is affected by the praise of others, you don't want to do something good because others praise you. Subconsciously, Ni feels that he should act freely, and does not like what he is doing for what or for what he wants, and you want to act very freely. So when others praise you, you will feel pressured and unworthy.

Actually, there is a way. When others praise you, you laugh at yourself, for example, your mother praises you for being diligent, you can say, I have always been so diligent, and finally found my advantages, you can also say, occasionally be diligent, if I am diligent, no one in the world is lazy. After saying this, you will be very natural, do whatever you want, and will not be distressed by other people's praise.

Don't think about whether or not to praise you.

You are yourself.

Just know it in your heart.

Others boast hypocritically.

Temporary.

Inferiority??? Fear that you can't do well, others don't have confidence in you, or scold you. Find a psychiatrist.

This is a good sign that you are not doing it to get their praise.

Is it inferior? Don't care too much about what others think of you, you are yourself, just be yourself.

Robinson: Perseverance and creativity. Living independently on a desert island.

Jane Eyre: Self-esteem, the pursuit of equality The pursuit of equality, and finally marrying the person you love.

Alyosha: Kindness, Courage tells about the life of her thoughts.

You can choose to buy a larger type of clothes, the same style of clothes, as long as the child is not too big, you can choose a larger size than the existing clothes, you can also use it for a long time.

If you are satisfied, please give me an adoption, and if you are not satisfied, you can also ask me, it is my honor to serve you

Push through the clouds and see the rainbow - after reading "Robinson Crusoe".

In a shipwreck, Robinson was stranded on a desert island, where he struggled hard against nature and established his own home. Although, he was unfortunate and thought about giving up, but the tragic fate made him survive and become a strong man. More than 20 years later, he left the island and returned to his hometown.

What a legendary story! It has inspired countless people in distress to cheer up, it has made many people lost, and Robinson has become a figure of admiration in the hearts of people with his extraordinary perseverance. It's not so much that the reader is fascinated by the bizarre encounters in this book, but rather that the spirit of the protagonist, Robinson, touches us.

Even a small grass will know how to survive tenaciously in difficult situations, so how many people in this world have wisdom that other creatures do not have, and surrender in the face of setbacks? In life, the important thing is not to enjoy joy, but to endure pain. Adversity is the best university, and we need to continue to grow in adversity and live better in adversity.

The secret of success is "fall in **, get up in **." "Don't give up a chance to get back on your feet for the sake of a momentary loss.

Difficulties are not terrible, fate is not predetermined, as long as through hard work, difficulties will become a stepping stone in your life, and fate will be in your own hands. The situation we are in is not absolute. Inertia will make what you have disappear, and industrious hands will give you wealth in life.

Robinson has lived on the island for more than 20 years, although the environment is so harsh, but he has a firm belief to overcome one difficulty after another, and create miracles, which is enough to show that misfortune is sometimes not bad for us, and some people will become a capital person because of misfortune, so that their will is stronger, and lay a solid foundation for the future road to success.

We should challenge misfortune with a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, the great man becomes greater because he is tempered by misfortune, and the cowardly man becomes more cowardly because he is tormented by misfortune.

When we face the cruel reality, we must accept it calmly, do not run away, and cannot give up. Everyone will go through setbacks in the process of growth, some people fall in front of the difficult gate, some people walk into the city of setbacks, and after several struggles, they finally get out of the city with glory. Even if it falls, it is respected by people.

In the wind and rain, some people never cried, never complained, and finally after the rain, the sky cleared and saw the rainbow, and the clouds and mist were cleared to see the sky, they were successful people, as great as Robinson. The future is not given by others, but built by themselves, although they encounter thorns on the way, but they will use a sickle to open up a road, in the wind and sand they move forward bravely, to reach the other side of success, on the shore ** sunrise shines on the brilliant flowers they cultivate.

There are so many difficulties on the long road of life, although there is the pain of failure, but more is the joy of success, I believe that I can defeat the difficulties, and more importantly, I must have a brave and strong heart in my life to engrave a glorious page after overcoming setbacks!

Hello! Defoe, Robinson Crusoe