Asking the old man to take care of the child is really a great favor, how can I pay it back

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It is not illegal to owe debts, whether it is the elderly or children, and they cannot be used to collect debts. According to Article 244 of the Contract Law of the People's Republic of China, if the debtor fails to perform its debts in accordance with the contract, the creditor has the right to require the debtor to perform the debts or claim compensation for losses.

This means that only the creditor himself has the right to demand that the debtor perform the debt or compensate for the loss, and no one else has the right to claim it. <>

Can't you still ask the elderly and children to ask for money if you owe money?

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Debts are not still illegal acts, whether it is the elderly or children, they cannot be used to ask for debts. According to Article 244 of the Contract Law of the People's Republic of China, if the debtor fails to perform its debts in accordance with the contract, the creditor has the right to require the debtor to perform the debts, or the pure balance to claim compensation for losses.

This means that only the creditor himself has the right to demand that the debtor perform the debt or compensate for the loss, and no one else has the right to claim it. <>

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If the debtor refuses to perform the debt, the creditor can file a lawsuit with the court to request the court to enforce the debt. In addition, the debtor can negotiate on its own to resolve the debt problem and seek debt restructuring and bankruptcy reorganization to resolve <>the debt problem

The debtor never came back.

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The law of the country clearly stipulates that the debtor who disturbs the state shall not use the elderly, minors or disabled people to recover debts, otherwise they will be prosecuted and deferred by the law. In addition, the debtor cannot escape the debt through other means, such as evading **, refusing to reply to the lawyer's letter, etc. If the creditor wants to recover the money owed, it can be enforced through legal proceedings.

Legal procedures include litigation, arbitration, enforcement, etc., which can make the debtor consciously comply with its contractual obligations. In the process of enforcement, it is also necessary to be careful not to use violence, threats, intimidation and other acts, otherwise you will also be punished by law. <>

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In response to your problem, the debtor can take the following measures if he does not come back: first, he can recover the debt through the legal court, apply for a payment order or judgment through the court to enforce it, or even take measures such as sealing, seizure or auction. Secondly, a collection letter or ** can be sent to the debtor's family members or friends to inform them of the necessity of actively repaying the debt and the adverse impact of being collected.

Finally, you can also negotiate with the debtor to solve the problem, consider reducing the interest rate or extending the repayment period, etc., to seek a common chain solution between the two parties. <>

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It should be noted that creditors should keep relevant sales receipts and transaction records, follow legal procedures, and refrain from acting violently or harassing the debtor without permission to avoid violating the law. <>

I know that the old man should be given a grandson fee. However, from a legal point of view, there is no legal obligation for children to pay grandchild fees. Let's talk about it in detail:

1.Old-age security:

Pension is a basic guarantee for the elderly, and children are not legally obliged to provide additional pension expenses to their parents.

2.Family Pure Zheng Mao Responsibility:

Although the children have no legal obligation to pay the grandchildren's fees, the family members should have the responsibility of mutual support and care, if the family conditions allow and the children can bear it, the appropriate grandchildren to the elderly is a manifestation of filial piety and family responsibility.

3.Principle of Equality:

Parents and children should be equal and should not be seen as objects of support or other forms of financial support.

4.Contractually agreed:

In practice, if both parties are willing to sign an agreement and agree on the payment method and amount of the sun's fee, then such an agreement can be established.

5.The law stipulates that:

Under our law, children are not obliged to pay grandchildren's fees. However, if a parent or grandparent has an accident or illness during the period of bringing up a grandchild and needs financial support from the child, the child should fulfill the appropriate responsibility for support.

If your children don't give money, the elderly may also help you take care of your children. This is because the old man took the initiative to ask to take the child out of his love and concern for you. But understand that it is not the obligation of the elderly.

Moreover, the old man has brought you a child, and he can ask you for the cost of taking the child.

This may be different in each family's view, in life, especially in family life, there are not so many rules and regulations, as long as you are willing. It's okay for the children to give money to the old man to bring the child stool and jujube shengzi, but it's actually nothing if the old man is willing to bring it, depending on what he thinks.

Nowadays, young people are under pressure, with low wages and high consumption, so they have to go out to find jobs, do business, and let the elderly at home help take care of the children. But now more and more old people say that they would rather give money to Yueyue than take care of children, it is not that the old people have become selfish, the truth behind it is sad.

1. Poor physical condition.

In fact, poor physical condition is the main reason for not helping to take care of children. The previous generation received less higher education, most of them were either farmers or workers, and they were tired all their lives, and when they got old, they either had backache or leg pain, and serious heart disease, high blood pressure, etc., and it was easy to go to the hospital when they were tired and did not sleep well. In fact, children don't blame their parents when they encounter such a situation, they are really not easy, it is already great to raise our generation, and there is no obligation to bring grandchildren and grandchildren, and your parents must not get sick is the greatest care for you, once you enter the hospital, you have to serve, and you have to take money, what kind of work do you have, right?

Second, the concept of parenting is inconsistent, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good.

The elderly and the next generation have different concepts of parenting, and there are often conflicts in life. Many elderly people are afraid that their children will freeze and cover them vigorously, while young people think that children are afraid of heat and prone to eczema, etc., so the two generations have a disagreement. The daughter-in-law often blames her mother-in-law for eating indiscriminately, and her mother-in-law feels particularly wronged, she also took care of her children like this when she was young, and now the children are not very good?

After a long time, the old man naturally doesn't like to take care of children. In fact, if you put the child in the elderly, you should trust enough, even if you have an opinion, you have to say it euphemistically, after all, she is not a nanny, don't use a tone of disgust and blame.

Third, thankless.

Now many young people think that the elderly should take children, and some also require the elderly to take children and subsidize the family to help raise children together, bring it well, once it is not good, sick, fall and touch, but blame the old man for not being optimistic, come back to a meal of ideological criticism and education, can the old man not be wronged? From another angle, you will inevitably bump and bump when you bring it yourself, don't take the old man with the child as it should be, she has no obligation to do this, isn't it because she feels sorry for your little couple?

We must be heart-to-heart, and we may also become the one with children in the future, what do you think?

Today's old people would rather give money than help take care of their children, because today's children are becoming more and more naughty, and many old people are powerless. Then there are also some elderly people who think that it is not their responsibility, so they don't care.

Now the requirements for bringing children are very high, not only to meet materially, but also to take into account the education of children, the elderly with children education and living habits are not necessarily scientific, but easy to cause contradictions, it is better to directly avoid suspicion to economic subsidies.

It's not easy to take children, and now children are pampered, and grandparents can only coax them. The old man himself doesn't have so much energy, and if he comes to a small one, it's even worse.

The main thing is that the old people nowadays also want to live their own lives, and they don't want to put their whole lives on their children, so they are also willing to contribute part of the money to raise them, and they are not willing to pay for labor.

It is very tiring to take care of children, most of the old people have pensions, and they also have their own circle of hobbies, and they want to enjoy old age more.

Because today's children are very naughty, the old people don't have a lot of energy to take care of these children.