My BF likes me and another girl at the same time, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's up to you.

    If you think BF is worth fighting for and cherishing, then treat him well.

    If you feel that he is so hesitant that you are sad and sad, then don't be together and let him know that men should make decisions in time and not procrastinate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What do you like about such a man? There is one her today, there will be another her tomorrow, you will only continue to be sad, he is not in love with you, if he says he loves you, then he is lying to you, maybe he doesn't understand what love is at all. Loving someone can only be wholehearted, how can you be like him?

    It's clearly just a joke. I advise you to give up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Go force him now. Let him make a choice. Why did he step on two boats, just because he said, "I love you"? It's too fake. If he likes you, then he will refrain from liking someone else, which is responsible for you and for himself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, dump him.

    What a waste of youth.

    Fool. It's really not worth it for this kind of person.

    You will regret it. And sad for him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Guys will fall in love with two girls at the same time and for a long time, uh. You weigh La, is he as handsome as Xiaobei, I think it's better to let it go, he's not worth it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe he just didn't figure out his mind, talk about it with the three of you, don't be embarrassed. If it feels like you're really incompatible with him, divide.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since you love him, you have to accept everything from him, don't worry, love is to die and live.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Is it a netizen or a reality? Have you figured it out, if it's just online dating, maybe it's just playing, if it's true, why would he let you know that he likes others? You have to ask first

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This kind of person is not worthy of your liking, you know? Remember to give your best time and energy to someone who will love you for the rest of their lives!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Terminate the relationship, he doesn't love you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Please, what are those people going to do?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Me and my guy send hundreds of text messages every day, and I'm afraid he will run away.

    But what can it be?

    Of course, you have to make it clear with him!

    Look at your boyfriend's attitude and actions.

    If it's still like that, it's divided.

    There's nothing to hesitate about.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let's be clear, but good friends of the opposite sex are not necessarily girlfriends, if you think it's true love, you can grasp it!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't do that. Regarding this point, you have to learn the heroine Yuan Xiangqin in Mischievous Kiss. She's doing a great job of that.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Tell him that it's not what he sees, and if he's still angry, it means he cares about you, he loves you, and you should be happy! You might as well coax him again! Guys don't get that stingy.

    If he is no longer angry, it means that he loves you and doesn't want to lose you Think about it! I'm sure you'll be reconciled.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should find a way to tell him that you love him!

    Don't have to explain much!

    It's enough to let him know how much you love him!

    He'll understand you!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It should be said that if he knows that you love him in your heart, he will not blame you, but if he knows that you love him in your heart, but blames you, then you can consider whether the man in front of you is worthy of your life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't explain, the more you explain, the more you can't explain the problem, just let your boyfriend think about it. It's never too late to explain to your boyfriend when he's angry, right?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Explain to him, if he doesn't listen, don't explain, the truth will be revealed.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There's nothing more than mentioning such a boring game day.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let him go and think about it, wouldn't it be nice to have one more kiss.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Oh, cherishing your boyfriend now is your wisest choice, love is a thing that has love and being loved, and being loved means that you care about you and have it for you. He has the right to love someone, but you are the main character, and you have to make a wise choice in this matter, that is, you can't compare his love with your boyfriend's love, his love can only be said to make him secretly love. Suppose you break up with your boyfriend and choose to follow him, then this kind of love is not called love, because you are looking at love very casually.

    You have to remember that sometimes a kind of love that cares to the extreme cannot be equated with real love, because you already have love, and you can't do it anymore. To love others. In this way, there is no love.

    You just find a time to tell him.,A man can't do that.,Girls with boyfriends.,If it's still like.。。 If you break people apart like that, then what kind of way will he treat you in the future, because this is also a manifestation of human nature, cherish him now, and let other people not interfere with your world.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's like you're in the same situation with me. Do you know? I've had a terrible summer vacation.

    I cried at the beginning, and all three of them were uncomfortable. I wasn't ruthless enough at first, and it hurt as a result.

    Scarred yourself. Love now does not stand the test.

    We were a year of high school, my boyfriend's freshman year, and he waited for me for a year.

    Over the course of a year, he and I liked each other, but knew it couldn't be.

    Then I went out with him one night and he borrowed me books.

    My boyfriend saw it and got into a fight. I was depressed to death.

    It's a shame to say.

    Then his family asked him to apply for another school, and he did, and I was very sad.

    Sometimes love doesn't stand the test, especially when we're not yet capable.

    Now that I'm right with my boyfriend, some people are just beautiful landscapes in your life.

    It's okay to be nostalgic for a while, but you can't stop there.

    Really love to persevere, your boyfriend is the best, he will protect you and love you.

    Lovers are different, they don't have such a strong sense of responsibility.

    It is useless to hope that the wind and waves will be calm, and you must always be ruthless to one side, or you will never be able to solve it.

    Now I'm still in the same pain and don't know what to do.

    But the boy and I had already figured it out.

    I think he will still think, but understand that he is just an episode.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Well, it's up to you, don't delay and hesitate, this is a hurt to the three people, people, or be selfish, think about who you want, don't dump the current one, regret it in the future, don't hesitate to follow the new bf and be afraid that it is not good enough, as long as you think about it now, anyway, don't think too much about it, the important thing is to live in the moment and communicate with them well.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Calm down, close your eyes and think about who you want someone to be if you choose to marry, follow your instincts, and don't drag your feet.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's so tangled, you hurry up and choose one, don't make all 3 people miserable.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Online dating, me too, I don't know what to tell you how to do.

    Well, mine he is very good, very good,,, but, the distance of reality, in the contradiction. Trapped in the heart.

    What is good for a good man? How is yours about her? LOVE IS TO BE PRACTICED SENSIBLY ...

    Perhaps, after many years, you don't think it matters anymore.

    I missed a lot of opportunities to meet the right person.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If that person is more powerful than you, I probably won't be able to do it.

    If it's not as big as you or not, hehe, just find a few people to scare him, and if you can't be scared, throw your fist, don't use force, and warn him.

    The woman will definitely thank you and thus have a good impression of you next

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Maybe that's what she says about her BF about you...

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Yes, as long as he is not married, of course he can continue to date, maybe he will marry you one day? If it's you, ask him out and find a place to sit, drink, and chat! It's very simple, it takes courage to chase girls, and it takes a little money to spend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Forget about online dating, let's find a realistic one...

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Emotional problems should be thought twice, I say a word in line with the attitude of being responsible for the landlord, in fact, this kind of network throbbing is normal, and your situation is very unreal, you can get along with her in reality for a while, and if you feel good, continue, that girl's bf is not an obstacle. But if your relationship can't develop in reality, it's better to break it, after all, there is a big gap between the Internet and reality

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    How do you know she likes you for being amorous?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Get her? This is not good, after all, there is a first in front of it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Men love mystery. You have to keep surprising him! A man's mouth can never be trusted.

    Even if he says he loves you and doesn't want you to change anything! Surprises include the material, the spiritual. I recommend a combination of 2!

    The so-called material means to give him some handmade items, and he will be moved! or some items. The spirit is about encouragement, surprise or showing another side of you or something.

    And your appearance, not always one style! And. Don't listen too much to him. Because men can't get used to it. Get it right. Otherwise, sooner or later he will lose interest in you! Because your boyfriend is outstanding!

    Often coquettish, often play a little temper, often gentle. Always cute, you know?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    A good person will love everyone.

    A kind person who will like it.

    An empathetic person will be liked by anyone.

    Anyone who can use others leniently will like it.

    A person who always thinks about others will like you to get tired of it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Everything is as it is, don't think about it deliberately, but use your own sincerity.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Don't be very, very nice to him!

    And don't be obedient to him.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you are leaving, put a long line to catch a big fish.

    Only those who have gained something through hardship will cherish it. It will last a long time.

    Let's boil it slowly...

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Be tolerant, give each other a little space, trust and then be silly, beautiful stupid woman, as long as you know that your IQ is not low

    Hey

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If the feeling of leaving is the best, you must not give him a feeling that he can't live without him, you don't tie him too tightly, let him feel that you can't live without him, the more you hold him tightly, the more he wants to get rid of you!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    In fact, there is no good way, just don't be blind even if you like it yourself. Every once in a while, let yourself calmly analyze him and then make plans.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Stay on top of the two of you in your relationship. Let him feel that it is not okay to leave you, and that you can leave him. He will cherish you doubly.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Trust him. Since he has said that he loves you, what are you worried about? If two people want to live together for a long time, they must first choose to believe in each other.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Men's eyes are very special, it depends on whether you can behave or not.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I think that's how to carry out your love to the end.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    My secret – never ask who loves whom more.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I don't think it's He promised his friend first, so he can't eat with you Your boyfriend is very responsible, hehe.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Not exactly, you have to know what he thinks.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    You're a flowery, two-boat man! Hehe, in fact, seriously, you just treat another boy as a big brother and want him to protect you, you have no love for him, no liking, that is to say, you use him as a punching bag! You love your BF, because you like him, that's why you will share happy things with him, and you don't want him to feel sorry for you!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    You can think about yourself, think about your past and present, are you happy? Do you think you'll be happy together? Be sensible, think before you make a decision, I wish you happiness.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    You like your boyfriend and always want to share your happiness with him, but in essence, getting along with that boy who likes you is your true self. If you and your boyfriend haven't reached or can't get to the point where you share happiness and sorrow, there are two options: give up and accept

    Give up your BF and accept the boy who loves you. Otherwise, when you have sorrows, it's better not to bother the person who likes you, because for him it is a disservice in itself!

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