Children are disobedient, skin, how to educate?

Smart children are more skinny, and the main thing in education is guidance. Pi's children often have some requirements that are not affirmed by their parents, so he will take some excessive behaviors to attract the attention of parents, which is also where he is smart.

Parents should pay attention to their children, don't think that he is constantly scolded, to tolerate him, encourage him, attach importance to him, try to meet his reasonable requirements, and reason with him for unreasonable requirements, the child is actually very reasonable.

At this time, you have to be patient, you have to hold her hand in the place where he is skinned, it is dangerous for her to do this at high speed, it is not right, it will cause you any damage. Or maybe you deliberately let him hurt once in his skin. Let him have a longer memory, and then you educate him a little more.

Many children have this situation, it is the nature of children to be naughty, and children who are too honest will be bullied, and I believe you will not like it. As long as it is not too excessive, there are no major issues of principle to follow.

It's too naughty, and you can't do it directly with him in this case, first follow him, and then slowly reason with him, I believe he will be obedient slowly.

In the future, it may be good to try to maintain a serious attitude when talking to your child so that he feels a strange atmosphere.

It is useless to tell him to stand and fight. Stand until you are obedient.

Knowing with reason, moving with emotion.

It's not good to be too obedient.

Children who are naughty and disobedient can be guided by healthy activities, give naughty children more opportunities to perform, and cultivate children's self-control ability.

1. Healthy activities guide children.

It is very painful for parents to be overly naughty. Parents are very worried about their children, so parents can find healthy activities that their children like, such as playing football, or playing ball and other healthy activities, so that children can release their own, and parents can accompany their children to do it together, so that naughty children will put more energy on healthy activities, which is not only good for children, but also for children to vent their naughtiness on healthy sports, but also to the relationship between parents and children.

2. Give naughty children more opportunities to perform.

Parents and teachers like to learn to be polite children, too naughty children many times parents and teachers will not give them performance, in this case naughty children will make something out of nothing, it is easy to come out naughty to do things, because children have nothing to do, so parents and teachers can give naughty children more opportunities to show and participate, encourage children to let naughty children slowly correct their behavior, so that naughty children slowly realize that they are not naughty teachers and parents prefer.

3. Cultivate children's self-control ability.

The child is naughty is not the child's intention, even the child himself does not feel that he is naughty, the child also thinks that naughty is a normal behavior, it is very necessary for the child to cultivate the child's self-control, the child is naughty when the child is a manifestation of the child's poor self-control, the child is used to poor self-control and is used to being naughty, and the parents have no constraints.

Therefore, children will infinitely amplify their own naughtiness, children have no self-control, and children will not think that they are too naughty, so it is very important for parents to cultivate children's self-control.

Children are naughty and disobedient, and the main education methods are to divert attention, find out the reason, and communicate more.

Divert attention, children will be a little rebellious in early childhood, and they can't listen to reason, you can divert attention, put the current things aside for the time being, let the child do other things, and wait for the child's mood to improve, and then educate the child. When encountering problems, we should pay attention to communicating with our children more, understand the reasons and ideas for disobedience, and solve problems patiently.

When children are young, their concentration is limited, and some external things can easily distract them. Parents are the first teachers of children, and parents' behavior will affect children's behavior, therefore, parents' example runs through the whole process of children's education, and it also directly affects children's disobedience.

Parents need to be patient.

There is also a situation where the child is crying and throwing tantrums, or the child feels uneasy in his heart, or does not know how to express his thoughts. It's useless to be a parent who only "reasoned and lost his temper". Teaching children the ability to express their own ideas, coupled with the kind and firm language of parents, children gradually learn to control their emotions correctly and express their own thoughts, and the problem is effectively solved.

When the child is crying in a public place, we parents can first take the child to a relatively quiet place with fewer people, and then let the child cry, and we look at the child quietly on the side to ensure the safety of the child. But don't be soft-hearted, otherwise with the first time, there will be a second and a third time, and this trick will be invalid.

1. Leave him alone, hang him aside, and when he sees no one coaxing him, he will naturally do whatever he should do; This situation is that he usually dotes on the child too much, and he can do anything, so that he can do whatever he wants. When you ignore him, he is naturally obedient. For example, if a child is disobedient at noon, he can be disciplined in this way.

2. Discipline him strictly, make unremitting efforts to correct bad behaviors, and after a long time, he should naturally come over.

3. Praise him, encourage him to guide him to develop good habits, and give necessary rewards. For example, let him develop good living habits, when he is naughty and disobedient, he can say that our baby is awesome and must be well cleaned up. Then do it well, give praise, and motivate it often, and you will develop good habits over time.

4. Walk into the child's world, be friends with him, and don't blindly accuse and scold him. When you know what your child really thinks, you know how to educate him.

5. Let the child play more, when he has enough activity every day, his naughty personality will naturally decrease. Because it is a child's nature to love to play, for some children who are naturally active, let him play more, and the problem of naughtiness will naturally be reduced.

6. Reason with the child, let him understand that the consequences of doing so are wrong, and he will not fool around when he understands it. Of course, be patient and reason with people what he understands, so that he understands. You can be persuaded by cartoons, or real things in life.

7. Establish the authority of parents, and at the same time, parents should not quarrel in front of their children, and create a loving and democratic environment for children. In this way, children will care and love others, and parents should spend more time with their children, which can relieve children's naughtiness and anxiety.

For children's education, we must teach them according to their needs, and correct problems in a timely manner, but we must pay attention to strategies; Children focus on encouragement and praise, find out his shining points and praise them, and he will become more and more obedient.

At this time, you need to let the father have a serious conversation with the child alone, and make it an agreement between men, and the content of the conversation can introduce the consideration of the mother, the father and son should protect the mother, and let the child establish a responsibility and make an agreement on it. As for whether the child can do it well, that is, in the later implementation process, the father should punish the child. Remember, this punishment must be valid within the conversation agreement, and other naughty matters are not.

The purpose is to protect the mother and reduce the pressure on the mother.

Pay great attention: the child's naughtiness is not a sin, you can't let him be a good child for the rest of his life, then you are not a good parent, as long as the child does not hurt others or affect the social order, it is allowed. Don't set too many rules and conventions, praise after each good job, and make an agreement between men2, and the child will be slowly influenced.

Children need to be patient with parents, because children will definitely have some abnormal habits in the process of growing up, and parents need to be patient to educate their children how to become talents.

1. When the average child is disobedient during the rebellious period, parents should not control the child too much, as long as the child plays by himself and knows what he wants, the child will be able to live the way you want. In fact, when the child loses his temper, parents should not coax him, it is best to pretend that he doesn't know anything, and he will do his own thing.

2. In fact, it is very common for children to be naughty, if the child is a little naughty, parents can ignore the child, but the child's naughty things touch the original problem, parents must strictly discipline the child, insist on correcting his bad habits, so that he has self-restraint behavior and awareness.

3. When the child has good habits, parents had better encourage the child, of course, if the child is naughty and disobedient, the parents should also criticize appropriately, and the child's education should have a strict system, so that the child knows what he can do and what he can't do. Teach children to combine encouragement and criticism.

If the child is naughty and disobedient, if the parent wants to deal with it, then we need to find the child. The main reason for this behavior is that the child is naughty and disobedient, probably because he does not like the parent's parenting style very much. So parents can sit down and talk to their children and ask why they behave this way.

If the child is disobedient, it is also recommended that parents should sit down and talk calmly with the child, so that the child can better accept it. If we don't manage it all the time, the child will get worse. Parents should not always beat up their children after they are naughty.

Otherwise, it will also cause very serious damage to the child's psychology. And we will also find that children will become more and more disobedient, so it is also recommended that parents should change their education methods, and it is very important to sit down and talk with their children.

If parents want to educate their children correctly, then we must give them a chance to explain and listen carefully to their children's psychological voices. If parents choose to hurt their children by themselves, then the children will not only become naughty and disobedient, but also likely to turn against their parents in the future, so parents must change their education methods. Don't always scare your child with a stick, and don't always verbally abuse your child.

I hope that parents can pay attention to this situation, and also hope that parents can know that educating children is not the same as scolding children, and this kind of education method of beating and scolding children is not suitable for children. We should make improvements, and we should also put the main cause of the problem on ourselves. Children are the mirror of parents, what does a child look like?

So what does a parent look like?

When the child is naughty and disobedient, you can first let the child stabilize his emotions and then talk to the child, if the child is particularly willful, at this time you can let the child think about it by himself, and then talk to the child when the child is more calm, and tell the child that it is wrong to do something, or what the consequences of doing this will be.

We should teach the child well, let the child change the current attitude, in the face of the child naughty we should criticize the child fiercely, do not spoil the child too much, when the child makes mistakes, we should make a correct guidance, so that the child can grow up better, and the child should develop a good habit.

If the child is disobedient, the child's behavior should be dealt with in a timely manner, if the matter is the child's fault, then the parents should promptly make a punishment of preaching and reproach, if the child is doing the right thing, but its method is wrong, then we need to give it positive guidance.