The boyfriend s salary is not enough for the basic expenses of the two of them, and they also subsid

I can't say anything about you, just to help you analyze it; 1.In this way, we can understand that he is a very loving family, very filial, and very grateful person, 2Maybe his family is also relatively backward, and it is not easy for a family to provide for a college student to graduate, and he is also a recent graduate, maybe it will be fine in the future3

Since you are boyfriend and girlfriend, what do you want to know, what do you want to know, then talk to him, there should be nothing inconvenient about this relationship, a couple must learn to confess for a long time, understand each other, and accommodate each other You have different concepts because you don't communicate well, if you love each other, the rich lady can also marry a small man in the countryside, and the rich young master may also marry a mountain girl4economic aspects; If you have any good plans, you might as well talk to him, such as managing your finances, laying a foundation for your life, or something.

Is it that his family is very difficult, and the conditions of your family are relatively better.

If so, be considerate of him.

Because it is difficult for a person who has not lived a poor life to understand his behavior.

If you value this person, communicate more and understand each other.

If you value family and the economy very much, I think the two of you have different consumption views, and there may be a big difference in family background, you can consider changing the person you are talking to.

All I want to say is that you don't have a job ? How to save money? Could it be that your family posted it upside down, girl? And your sentence "We don't have enough for ourselves, is it all your boyfriend who pays for your expenses?"

It is useless to say more sincerely.

There's no good solution to this situation, it's all up to you, the man doesn't go online and doesn't smoke, what do you let him do.

He spends 2,000 a month, is he not enough to take you, or is it not enough for him to spend alone?

In addition, men like this are actually very common everywhere.

Since you follow him, if he is good to you, understand him a little bit, be understanding and tolerant.

After all, there is no way to change the status quo.

Now most of the men out there think that they are too young to save money, so they spend lavishly, or they think that their parents are responsible for everything, and they don't have to worry too much about it, and they have to put an end to this dependence, otherwise it will be too late for him to realize the problem.

Actually, this problem is very common. Of course, this is an unwise choice, and it can also be seen that your boyfriend is not very old (23 years old), and as for whether you are moneyist or you don't know him, the problem is complex and difficult to solve.

This is a problem with your communication, and you usually need to know more about what he is thinking and doing. Is there something wrong with your relationship, so that he doesn't want to go out to surf the Internet if he doesn't want to be at home, you must control the man's wallet, otherwise there will be a problem.

It should be that both sides have not reached a consensus on one family! If we want to continue on the road, shouldn't we have a certain economic foundation? Otherwise, how will the two of them live in the future? This man is not calm enough!

I think you need to think about it.

I don't think you're a good fit to be together. I won't discuss who is right and who is wrong, there are so many problems before you are married, and there will be more problems when you are married and have children. Fortunately, I didn't get married, so I really can't divide it!

There is no money as a foundation in today's society, and everything else is floating clouds.

Smoking addiction is not small, two packs a day.

Girlfriend gives as much as she wants.

Some are overdrafts. Some are not spent on 1 point.

It depends, as far as you can.

There is no obligation at all, isn't that woman still married to him Girlfriend is nothing.

The work of copying was almost scarce, and with the widespread use of photocopiers, printers, and other equipment, the work of copying was almost extinct. Newspaper advertisements for transcription (including typing) are almost always deceptive in this name.

As for typing? You can go to the office business center where typing is particularly busy to pick up work, and it is said that the typing speed is fast and good, and the price is low. Delivered the next day. I'm sure you can find a job.

**Ticket, buy**!

Copying and typing are mostly deceptive!

It is not recommended to **ticket, buy**.

It's all bubbles!

Is he usually nice to you? If it's good, it means that he didn't take care of you because of his work,,, if it doesn't treat you well, it means that he doesn't have the original feeling for you, it's time for you to make a decision...

At first glance, it's just a casual perfunctory.

Does the woman have a job? Are you planning to get married?

1. People's desire to control is different, and wanting to control money is also a matter of control.

2. If you can't trust each other, it will hurt the feelings of the husband and wife.

3. Husband and wife should communicate with each other and don't hold their words in their hearts. If you can't express your inner feelings, after a long time, it is likely to become a fuse, and it will not be good to break out.

4. Talk to your husband about your psychological thoughts, hoping that he can understand you and give you a sense of security. Hopefully, he will give you the satisfaction of your sense of responsibility for the house.

5. Also, find a good time to talk about this topic. Before speaking, test the other person's mood.

6. Have more time to communicate with the other party in other aspects.

7. A more reasonable plan, set up a house purchase account, and everyone transfers money into it every month, and the living expenses are also given together; Or mix all the money together.

8. It is still necessary to strengthen the trust of husband and wife, if the man has a strong desire to control, the woman sometimes has to "overcome the rigid with softness", if you are weak, you will not "hard" with your husband, so that the other party feels that this problem will not be a problem, and it is easy to solve it. If the other party also thinks that you are as sensitive to the problem as he is, it will only increase the difficulty of solving the problem.

9. I hope you can understand the art inside, and I hope you can understand what is the most important thing for you.

10. May you live a happy life.

Very clever to find out about their ruse!

Now you tell him to buy a house, the family will contribute a part of the money, and the property will be distributed according to the proportion of the money. Otherwise, let him find a stupid woman who doesn't know what to do for himself to marry him.

Just buy a house and put your name on it.

yes, so you said that the wages are put together, and then I'm going to take a part and save it. I'll give you your pocket money. That's it. There is also the title deed with your name written on it.

It's just your boyfriend. Isn't that impulsive and sloppy for you? Don't you leave yourself a little back? You can think about it so rationally, it can be seen that you have not been carried away by love.

Move out, don't live with them, or he and his mother thinks you owe them rent, so you should stick to your boyfriend.

Of course, if you think that you have just graduated and have no money to rent a house, then calculate it, it is you who pay more to go out and spend more on the rent, and I personally think that living in your boyfriend's house has much more to pay than the rent.

As for whether you want to break up with him after moving out, it depends on your relationship, in addition, you should know more about this man, an adult wants to eat out or socialize, 400 a month is too little, what is the reason for their family to do this, whether he himself has a basic financial concept, these are all things you need to know further. Basically, everyone knows that working outside is not just about eating working meals, if you don't subsidize him, you can see how he uses 400 for a month, and analyze whether his values are close to you.

If you're particularly concerned, divide it up quickly.

In the future, when you get married, the conflict will be even more prominent.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law dry frame, and your husband should be two-sided glue.

1.If it is not enough, it can only be used in the necessary or urgent place, in your case, it must be the most important for the family, first for the family, and your boyfriend even if he needs money to do business, you can also ask his family and friends to borrow.

2.Your salary is not high, and he asked you to ask for it, so why didn't he ask his friend to borrow it? I'm in business, and the funds needed to do business are much more than your salary, and generally boyfriends don't ask their girlfriends what they want, because even if they do, it's not enough, and your boyfriend's friends are not right, what is it called not being able to date without supporting his career?

Is it considered to support his career by giving him all his salary? Isn't it okay to have backing?

If your boyfriend is angry or something, it just means that he is not a suitable person to be a boyfriend, or does not love you at all.

I wish you happiness and work hard!!

If it were me, I would choose to help my family pay off the debt!

I also think that man is incompetent, and he is embarrassed to faint to death with your money.