My girlfriend is from the countryside, and I don t understand what she does at home

I feel that you are better not to be together, you and your friends have different understandings about many things, if you don't get a divorce, then that girl doesn't understand you at all, what she wants is to ask you to accommodate her when there are differences, after marriage you may have differences in many things, I am not very optimistic about this kind of marriage, you must have a common understanding in some things, it doesn't matter whether it is rural or not, the key is to see if that person is the same as you know in some things!

It's the customs of her hometown, it's not that her family deliberately embarrasses you, since you love her, and you've gone through so many difficulties, why can't you get along with the customs of her hometown?

Think about it, money is not so important, the important thing is that the people who love each other can be together.

This is the case in many parts of the countryside.

In their eyes, this is the security of your later life, and they will even see this as the strength of their feelings.

If you really love her, your wife is not because of the money, but just because of the "security" it represents

Convince your family, let's go!

That's right to say to the second floor, if you really love your girlfriend, respect her family is a must!Remember to cherish what you have!I hope you are happy!

Every parent wants their daughter to be valued in her in-law's family.

In fact, the so-called deposit is also a form of walking.

Don't worry, it'll be yours.

Then it's decided, you need to respect each other's family customs!That's a minimum of respect!

That's how we are, it's nothing, it's just a few thousand, not a lot, if you don't give it, it will make your girlfriend's family look ugly, and others will make irresponsible comments.

Agree with the upstairs, respect the other party's family !!

It's like this in the countryside. Not being engaged to you would make people laugh.

Do it according to the customs of the other party's family!

Give the other party some face!

Then order it, the countryside is like this, if you don't order, the family just won't say it, the neighbors will also say, if you don't order, they may say, how people love it, your family doesn't order, can't your daughter get married?I'm also rural, and that's the custom of the countryside.

What age is the custom now?

You try to put yourself in the other person's shoes and you will understand.

It's right to respect their customs, but what does she mean when she says you don't order it?

Because my girlfriend's house is rural, so I go to her house with a natural condescending feeling, of course I will not show this feeling, but because of this feeling, it makes my heart a kind of pin crack mold is very relaxed, father-in-law and mother-in-law will always ask you some questions, don't be too nervous, just ask what to say, you can go and talk about others, can't finish looking at it embarrassed, let alone burying your head in eating, as the saying goes, "eat without words, sleep without words", The tradition of our Chinese is to talk and laugh when eating, so that the source bend can be well integrated, otherwise the atmosphere will be very embarrassing.

It's like your father-in-law and mother-in-law will ask you if the food is appetizing, at this time, don't just say this: delicious, appetizing! You still have to pay attention to certain skills when speaking!

Maybe you haven't eaten much because you're nervous, but you also have to show that it's delicious, so to speak: Auntie, your craftsmanship is really good, it's exactly the same as what I make at home, it's delicious! It's very much to my liking, I really want to be able to eat it every day, etc., don't be blunt, this dish is salty, that soup is hot, which will leave a bad impression on my father-in-law and mother-in-law.

There is always something to drink at the dinner table, and we, as young people and juniors, should also pay attention when toasting, even if we don't drink, even if we drink drinks, we must have basic etiquette, which may be very difficult, but this is a major event in your life, so the first glass of wine must be for you to toast them, don't wait for them to come to you so impolite, you must know how to respect.

If you dislike that her family is rural, just break up. In fact, it's nothing in the countryside, you can create wealth together, and you don't need to support her family in the future, just support her alone, and the rural bride price is still less.

Your girlfriend is rural, very good, rural people are very simple by nature, your girlfriend grew up in the countryside, and she knows the hardships of life, she must be very mature and very considerate. All you have to do is love her well.

What's wrong with the countryside, didn't you know she was rural when you were with her? Since you dislike others, divide them early, don't force yourself, and don't delay others.

I think as long as two people love each other, it doesn't matter whether the girlfriend is rural or not, and rural people are generally very simple and honest, which is very suitable as a marriage partner.

I feel that rural people are very good, they are more frugal in life, and they are sensible, gentle and virtuous, and can do a lot of housework.

I think the people in the countryside are very good, their quality is very simple and hospitable, and you should accept your girlfriend's family of origin.

What's wrong with the countryside, if you really like her, you will care about her, don't have too many ideas, cherish the people in front of you.

Rural people are very simple and simple, and their girlfriends are very good in rural areas, at least they don't have too many hearts, and they are very simple girls.

I don't think there's anything in the countryside, it's 2019, I think it's not important whether it's rural or urban for a long time, what matters is whether you love your girlfriend or not.

There is nothing wrong with rural people, you should not have a different opinion of her because she is rural, rural people are very good, everyone is equal.

Rural people are very good, people are very simple, they don't have too much thought, and the air in the countryside is better than in the city, how good it is to breathe fresh air.

As a rural girl, I just want to ask, what's wrong with the rural girl?

As a rural girl, I just want to ask, what's wrong with the rural girl?

Isn't a rural girl a girl? Does it have to be worse than the city girl?

Really, what era is it, men and women are equal, and there is no difference between rural and urban hukou, why do you dislike rural girls? In addition to spending money, what advantages do city girls have?

As a rural girl, I never felt like I was missing anything from a city girl!

Would you mind if your girlfriend is from the countryside?

Who are you? Is it a rural guy from the same countryside?

If you are also from the countryside, grew up in the countryside, enjoy the joy of rural life, and you just want to go to the city when you grow up, and you just want to find a beautiful city girl, aren't you afraid that people will dislike you? Disliked your parents? Do you hate that you're from the countryside?

If you are a rural guy and dislike a girl from the countryside, you can only say that you have no heart and no lungs!

Who are you? Is it a city dweller who grew up in the city?

Where did your natural sense of superiority come from? Did your parents give it? However, counting up three generations, who has no rural relatives?

Even if you don't have any relatives in the countryside, isn't the food you eat grown by the peasants? Also, since you look down on rural people, don't look for a rural girl, just find a city girl with your ability! As a man, don't like people on the one hand, and dislike them on the other, it will make people look down on you!

Rural and urban people may have different living habits, but there are also too many advantages. First of all, you get to eat a lot of free produce, and secondly, you get to go to the countryside several times a year. Third, rural girls are diligent and capable, and they can also run a family.

The current rural girls are very popular, and the rural hukou is still very good!

If you care, please let go in time and leave the rural girl to a good man!

I am a rural person, an authentic grassroots farmer, and my ancestors were born as farmers for three generations. For me, a grassroots person, I don't care about such a question.

Here I want to say: What's wrong with rural people, rural people are simple, simple, kind, not hypocritical, pragmatic, and able to bear hardships and stand hard work. Of course:

Now that society is developing so fast, the difference between the city and the countryside is not so big, all aspects of education have been greatly improved, and the knowledge and vision of rural children have made great progress, so I hope that as a materialistic society today, there will be no such prejudice. If you choose a "rural" or "city" girlfriend, I don't think you will get true love!

In fact, I think, what kind of girlfriend to find, in the city or in the countryside, these are not the point, the most important thing is to be suitable for you, not for you, from ** is a later story. I don't know if you're from the countryside, if you're from the countryside, I don't understand who gave you a sense of superiority. If you are from the city, then you should not do this, otherwise it will only make many people look down on you.

Like a person, I think he will definitely not care about these so-called secular statements, what is right and knows the roots. You have such thoughts, which only proves that you don't like your girlfriend enough.

Here, the point: there are no rural people, what to eat and drink in the city. There is a good saying: the city routine is deep, I want to go back to the countryside.

I don't care if my girlfriend is rural or not, as long as the two of us are in love with each other and I know my girlfriend is a good girl.

Of course not, the girls in the countryside are very good, they are virtuous, gentle and single-minded.

I don't care if the girls are rural. On the contrary, girls from rural areas are more likely to take care of people, and they are more likely to do housework, which is reasonable.

No. Regardless of whether she is rural or urban, what I value is whether my girlfriend makes me feel emotional, gentle and kind.

No, the countryside is very rich now, and it is no longer as poor, miserable and uninformed as in the past, and there is no problem for her to come from the countryside.

I don't care, I just care that we both love each other, that we treat each other sincerely, and that she has a job and can support herself.

I don't care, what about the countryside, dozens of generations above, who is not rural, as long as he is consistent with my three views.

I don't care if my girlfriend is rural or not, I think as long as I love my girlfriend, my girlfriend loves me too.

I don't care, as long as two people really love each other, it doesn't matter if they're from**, girls in the countryside won't be too pretentious.

I don't care, because what I like is her person, not her family, so she is rural, and I don't affect my liking her.

Won't care. As long as my girlfriend is good to me, loves me, and is gentle and generous, I don't care about my background.

If you're curious, I want you to think about why you care so much if you really like the other half, if you care so much, it means that you don't like her enough, then you still don't have any relationship between you, since you don't like it, why do you have to have any relationship, right, so I think when you do something, everyone should think clearly about him, and think about the consequences of it in the end, because in many cases, don't do it because you have done something, Or I regret not doing something.,And I think that the girlfriend really depends on fate.,If fate comes then I will like it no matter who he is.,If there is no fate, even if he is the pride of the sky.,I won't fall in love with him.。 I hope that a lover will eventually become a family!

Urine primitive people, now what kind of urban and rural areas, everything is related to personal conditions and quality, and has nothing to do with geographical location, not to mention that now 80 percent of urban people come to the countryside, I am a rural person, but I have two houses in the city, so by my son's generation, I have become an urban person.

I care, especially in underdeveloped provinces and regions, the feeling is generally not atmospheric, and it is even rarer to go to a prestigious university, and I like the girls in Shaoxing Town, Zhejiang