Why does the benevolent never become the strong?

Wouldn't that be too cruel?

There is a saying in China: "Knowing the face of the person does not know the heart." "Living in such an era of inflammation, the word betrayal is no longer unfamiliar.

There are countless examples of being betrayed by friends and deceived by relatives. When you treat others with sincerity, can you be sure that they won't stab you in the back? What's more, Doss saved a brutal enemy.

Therefore, I think:

To be merciful to one's enemies is to be cruel to oneself.

Perhaps there is a possibility that Doss's compassion and great love touched those Japanese soldiers and awakened their conscience. But is the odds too small, and is the risk too great? These Japanese soldiers have been poisoned by militaristic ideology since childhood, and war has long been ingrained in their hearts, and they will probably not be swayed by a little kindness from Doss.

There is a saying in Hamlet: To live or to perish, this is a question worth pondering. And whether to save or not to save is also a question worth pondering, and it is common to destroy conscience.

During the Sino-Vietnamese War, Chinese troops repeatedly fell victim to Vietnamese children, because when Chinese officers and soldiers saw children in the midst of war, they couldn't help but feel sympathy. In the traditional Chinese view, children are innocent, pure, and innocent, but the Vietnamese are also taking advantage of this, and when the soldiers try to save the children, they never expect to face the baptism of bullets. These soldiers were merciful, but it was precisely because of this mercy that not only failed the operation, but also paid with their lives.

If the Japanese soldiers saved by Doss will take revenge, it means that Doss will send his comrades to the grave with his own hands.

Everyone has the right to live, and Doss has his own beliefs and perseverance. However, in the face of national interests, personal beliefs and interests can be discarded. And Doss is first and foremost a military man, and secondly a doctor, and a military man should put the country first.

Compassion is great love, and in a different context, Doss's behavior may be commendable, but on the battlefield, tolerance towards the enemy is connivance. Therefore, such good deeds should also distinguish between objects and situations, and everything should be transferred by time, place, and conditions.

There is a saying in The Legend of the Giants: "There is no greater sorrow between people than to be disturbed and damaged in a place that you think deserves kindness and friendship." Perhaps in Doss's view, saving the Japanese soldiers was well-intentioned, but the unpredictable results made people hesitate.

Life is a tragedy, life is not worth optimism, but we can only calmly accept all our encounters, and all the encounters we encounter must be encountered, everything that happens is bound to develop, and any seemingly small thing has its irrevocable inevitability.

Either lonely or vulgar", that loneliness and vulgarity cannot be both, and you can only choose one or the other, choosing vulgarity will make life lively, and choosing not vulgar and extraordinary will lead to a lonely life.

There is nothing to be happy in life, and even if happiness exists, happiness is very short-lived. Because, human desires are infinite, and when old desires are satisfied, new desires will arise. When desires are not fulfilled, we suffer; When desires are fulfilled, we are bored.

So, "Life is like a pendulum clock, oscillating between pain and boredom." ”

Attaching importance to people's morality, saying that a person should strive to improve his morality and personality charm in the course of pursuing happiness in life, and pay attention to his physical health, rather than pursuing money, beauty, official position, honor, etc., vividly illustrates that health is more important than money, honor, official position, etc.

But while emphasizing the importance of the intrinsic aspect of morality and human beings, we must not be too kind to anyone. "People are like children, and if you dote on them, they will become willful and naughty. Therefore, do not be too spoiling and kind to anyone. ”

The "anyone" here certainly includes your own friends, relatives and even family members, and if you dote on them too much, if you are too kind, you will only harm yourself and others. So, the rule of not being too kind to anyone, which applies to all, is a universal rule.

Borrowing money is a regular occurrence in our lives, so what do we do when our friends borrow money from us? Of course, there is no standard answer to this question. But in many cases, if we lend money to a friend, then we lose that friend.

If we are too attentive to someone, they will think that we are asking for them, and they will become arrogant, which will eventually lead to their own inability to accept him, which in turn will cause the balloon of friendship between you to burst in an instant, and it will not be possible to reunite. On the contrary, if we are arrogant or even arrogant when dealing with others, others will respect us more. If we really can't choose to treat others with arrogance and rudeness, we should at least be "neither humble nor arrogant" on the basis of "being polite", otherwise others will look down on you and ignore you.

Therefore, we should not be too merciful in dealing with some situations, and we can only deal with them decisively when it is time to make a decision.

The ancient Chinese said: Compassion does not lead soldiers, righteousness does not raise wealth! If you don't kill people on the battlefield, do you want to do charity?

In the past, wars were fought not because of the question of good or bad, but because our people were too good and did not have a little murderous spirit. Always thinking about treating the prisoners favorably, and the enemy always wants to put us to death.

Because there is a power that makes you stronger, that makes you motivated, and then makes yourself stronger.