Ask a personal relationship issue for a relationship major

The difference between the two of you is ten years, I think this is a big problem, I think he should be a "veteran" in terms of feelings, and I am worried that you will be deceived or hurt. I think you should keep your eyes open, this kind of man really can't be entrusted for life! Besides, you've only been together for half a year and found out the problem, so there are many potential problems that you haven't noticed!

I mean, it's time to break off the relationship, and finding someone who is 2-5 years older than me is the most suitable.

Feelings need to be cherished by two people together If one party doesn't maintain it, then it's no fun Since you don't feel it anymore, let's separate In fact, in addition to feelings, you still have a career to be busy Feelings have to be paid sincerely If not, it's meaningless Feelings may be persistent But choosing to give up is definitely a right choice You are wrong in not knowing how to appreciate each other Cherish the person in front of you Feelings are two people's business Remember.

I'm not a master, but if you see this question from others, you will leave this man like me, your problems and future development of the relationship can be analyzed and very clear·· It's just that you can't let go of it in your own heart, so you can't make up your mind... I hope you can thoroughly figure out how to face the next choice, and I wish you to clear the dark clouds and see the blue sky.

Leave him, for the sake of your own future, the twisted melon is not sweet, don't be happy for a relationship, it's not worth it.

The premise is that you are separated, and you still have to be friends,,, wait until you are looking for a better man than him to be angry with him.

Don't marry her, don't have results, you can be together again if you both need it, but as you said, she's not fit to be your wife.

1.Finding a wife and finding a lover are two different things.

2.It is best to keep your distance from her.

3.Find an ordinary, knowledgeable, quiet director, and filial girl to be with.

4.You said that there is no problem in finding a good girlfriend on your own conditions now. I believe, and I firmly believe.

5.Do a good job in your career, and at the same time, there will be suitable girls who will take a fancy to you.

6.Don't get married for the sake of getting married, you must think clearly about what you want, your wife is at ease and will take care of you considerately. Once you choose to get married, don't talk about divorce easily, and be a responsible person.

7.Be cautious and find someone who loves you, provided you don't hate him, of course.

Hope it helps you ...

Many hypocritical words, suppressing the fear in the heart, saying self-deceiving words, lies, no kindness or malice, are themselves deceived because they cannot bear the consequences. What is mercy? Because I want to be helped, I have a rule to help others.

What is compassion? It is the fear of being treated like this, so reaching out to help, the virtue hidden in the depths of the human heart, the truth is the biggest and ugliest collusion of interests in this world. That girl just wants to conquer you to satisfy her sense of accomplishment.

The reasons why you have the above thoughts can be roughly divided into the following two points, and the others are not important, because this is the key, and it can even be said that it is your heart knot:

1. You know more about the entertainment venues where you are located, or you have heard others mention them, in short, in your consciousness, it is not easy for us to accept that as a girl, we often go in and out of this kind of place;

This can reflect that your tutor or your life circle is more conservative, and I deeply agree with this; It's a psychological problem;

2. In line with the principle of persuasion and not persuasion, your personality is suitable for finding an extroverted girl, just imagine if two people have a personality or little difference, but the two are difficult to get along, it is best to look more festive, cheerful and generous, and even a little nervous is the best, because your character does not like to be with too smart girls, or most men are not willing to live with a girl who is too smart.

Final suggestion: From the perspective of the life circle, you are not suitable, and not being able to integrate into each other's lives is a dead knot in itself;

Professionally speaking, you are not suitable for a salesperson, and you should be more psychologically clear about this than I am;

According to your addition: It is recommended that as a responsible man, there are only two options, 1. Two people love each other 2. Find someone you love; Both options have one thing in common, that is, men must love each other, because marrying someone they don't like is in itself irresponsible, why? Think about how good we can be to someone we don't like at all?

To what extent? There are always stumbles in the days, but what is the result? It can well be imagined.

You and her will never be able to experience the feeling of two people's hearts colliding and falling in love deeply! So you must break up with her! Find a gentle, shy and ordinary girl, be moved by her, it is worth paying for her, happiness exists every day!

No girl is born with a playful personality who loves to play and love to go to karaoke and dance, only girls who are not mature and have not really grown up will be like that! Or a girl who loves to pretend, pretending to be an alternative personality to win the love of the opposite sex, not love, it is the rebellious character of adolescence, you are inexperienced emotionally, it is normal to be confused by a girl for a while, and now it is difficult for you to disconnect from her, in short, I advise you and her that you will not be happy.

I can say for sure that she is not suitable for you Because what you see is her appearance Simply put, I know the river and the sea, I don't know the people, I don't know the face, I don't know the heart, and no matter what her character is, just say that your current conditions are really not ordinary, if you use your conditions, it's easy to find someone better than her Because everyone is very realistic I personally think that you should abandon your conditions to find that the one you find will coexist with you in the same way People have fate You can say that there is a fate There is a long and short fate The fate is scattered I hope you will find the person you like Hehe, otherwise you will regret it Because I have a deep understanding of it, hehehe.

I think it's best to find someone who loves you and the person you love, now there is no future is not necessarily not, but your fate has not arrived, find a person you love will live well in the future, and you will not quarrel because of saying some little things, after all, you like her,

Or are you not confident in your heart Because you have never had feelings You said that the other party is a master Your heart is full of panic With fear and yearning for feelings So it makes you very hesitant But people can't always not make progress You can't never fall in love Love can't never have problems What you can do is to learn how to cherish in the disappointed and sad heart What is there Who will not encounter problems Come on If you like it, rush forward Even if you fail But you learn how to get along with others in the future The next time you meet, you will not be so at a loss And you can see that you still have the heart, don't let yourself regret it in the future, come on

I wish you happiness.

It's better to give you the most straightforward answer; This girl really wants to marry you, she's tired of playing, you know? If you want to find a stable and honest man, that is, she is likely to marry you.

But I don't know if you can accept it, she will marry you, but she may not love you.

Living with the person you love is the happiest, the person who loves you will become your burden, if you like something, you don't care if you like it or not, as long as you buy it back and have it, you will be very happy, buy something you don't like, sooner or later you will still pursue what you like.

First of all: to correct the point of view: no one (including yourself) can guarantee that if you are in love, you will get married, and what is even more terrifying:

If you get married, you must not get divorced. Be rational about love and marriage!! It's really not suitable, and it won't leave if it's married, and it's harmful to the happiness of two people, and even the happiness and future of the child.

Of course, the purpose of getting married is not to divorce, but there is no guarantee that you will grow old. It seems that you are really not the opponent of this girl, you have to try to give the two of you a chance, make friends deeply, and try to live together as a couple; If after 6-10 months of trying, you still can't feel whether it is suitable or not, that is your problem, not her pretending to be skilled. Love also has to pay tuition, I hope it will help you.

You are so lacking in faith! Men should have a domineering spirit! To be a man who stands up to the sky!

Ask your heart, do you love her or not? If you love her, you have to believe that you can change her, and that she will be what you want her to be!

There is no bad wife in the world, only a bad husband! I can't even manage my own wife, and I don't deserve to please my wife!

Seeing people's hearts for a long time...How can there be anything in love that doesn't hurt. You can't always doubt her, or you're going to get along.

You don't need to see if she's really true to you, what if she's sincere, didn't you hurt her? In daily life, it is the small details that make it easiest to see the heart of a person. You can start with the small details and observe and observe.

If you always get along with her with a skeptical heart, do you think it's still interesting? Try to understand, to be considerate. Everyone's personality is different, what kind of personality she is, it should be up to her to decide, and you can't completely change anything about her.

So you have to accept it. In love, if you really like each other, then there is nothing that will not hurt, otherwise how can there be a divorce, how can there be a big quarrel. Since you have chosen, you can't give up easily.

Even if you get hurt, it's an experience. You have to choose what you love, and you have to love what you choose.

To love someone is to see if you are happy when you are with her, do you have vitality? Yes, it's love, and vice versa, it's not love!

Figure out love and dislove first, and then talk about it later.

lz You just relax a little bit When you're with your girlfriend Try to give her all the space so that you can see the other side of her and you can better know whether you love her or not If you're with her for a long time and you still can't change your personality, you try to get your girlfriend to change it or it won't be hot and it will be gone.

First of all, you have to distinguish what kind of girl you like. Second, the person you love, if you don't love you, you will be very tired, you want to give her your best and love, in your heart you feel that you are the only one in the world who can do this to her, but you don't know that she doesn't need you at all, of course you will be sad, very sad, maybe in the end she will be with you, but that is not love. You have to know that sometimes what is good to a person is also wrong.

It's the same if the girl you're talking about loves you very much, but you don't love her. If you love her, she loves you, learn to understand. Learn to be tolerant, because of love, you will do everything for her, and in the same way she will become for you what you imagined.

If there is still love, hurry up, isn't it, because of love.

Are you a boy who is afraid of losing out there? Don't go straight to what you're afraid of, feelings are something that you have to have the courage to try, if you don't try, you will never understand! You have a strong sense of self-preservation, but sometimes you have to learn to trust someone.

As for whether the circle of two people is compatible, this is not the key, the key is that you are willing to accommodate each other, if you don't accommodate each other, two people in a circle will also pinch each other. Since this is your first love, then love boldly and don't leave any regrets!

It's all about being happy.

Maybe you've met a better boy than you.

After all, you don't have an emotional foundation.

She doesn't love you enough, is that a reason?

Now that it's gone. Then live your own life, don't think about her anymore, and wish the landlord a happy one.

It's all wishful thinking! What's wrong with you, what's so angry with you? Do you have a crush on someone, who has to wait for you to chase someone?

Maybe it's a cheat to eat and drink, since it's not in touch, it's over, isn't this how you wake up from a dream, a memory, you think of it as beautiful, it's beautiful, you think of it as painful, then it's painful, people's hearts are hard to guess, not to mention women's hearts, so ah friends, just put it down, it's a good experience.

Those are the ones who "do those things" who usually talk to you very well at first, and then ignore them, and I've encountered them.

As when talking about boyfriend and girlfriend, remember:

1.Love must definitely be for the purpose of getting married, 2Love is not 1+1=2, but. You have to learn to get rid of half of your personality, and you have to be mentally prepared to make compromises and concessions, so that you can come together.

Today's young men and women are often attracted by each other's "edge" at first, but they will also be injured because of the other party's "edge".

3.Love is not intimacy, but tolerance and "intermittentness". Everyone has their own circle of communication, and the two sides are sometimes vague and reserved, but they are more attractive, giving others space, and also giving themselves freedom.

Remember, being in love is not possession, but union, and the so-called union, like an alliance, must first respect each other.

4.Men are mud and women are water. So the union of man and woman is nothing but "harmony and mud". If the "legal principles" are studied in everything, it will only make both sides very tired.

When two people are together, you have to know if the other party cares about you, you have to feel it with your heart, if there is nothing else but moving, you have to consider whether it is true love!

Learn how to deal with feelings first!