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The personalities of men who like to lift the bar are basically more stubborn, and they also have some conceit. It's their norm to like to argue with others, well, so when communicating with him, it may be that he will only express his own opinion and not agree with what others say. This kind of person still has a relatively low emotional intelligence in life.
If you weren't your best friend, you would never like this kind of person.
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People who love to lift the bar, especially men, have a strong temperament and a strong desire to perform, which is a character with strong preference.
People who love to lift the bar, to put it bluntly, are people who like to find a sense of existence. Regardless of whether this type of person is a man or a woman, they are all expressive people. Especially men, due to physiological aspects or male hormones, men will have a certain degree of aggression, which is reflected in both physical and verbal aspects.
As for the character, of course, it is a character with a strong preference.
The reason why this kind of person likes to raise the bar is that he hopes to attract the attention of others by expressing his own opinions, or in other words, he wants to use his expressed opinions to suppress the opinions that he does not agree with, so as to show his superiority.
We often encounter two people in our lives who have a conflict over a trivial matter. In the midst of such contradictions, if one of them will forbear, then such a contradiction will soon subside; But if neither side wants to hold back, then this kind of small matter will escalate into a quarrel or even a fight.
The reason for this is not how important the thing or thing that caused the contradiction itself is to oneself, but the psychology of wanting to gain the upper hand in the contradiction has become dominant.
If we have observed, we will find that in fact, such people rarely use rational thinking to deal with problems, and when they encounter problems, they will be dominated by emotions and become primitive animals who cannot think.
Why is this happening? In fact, in the final analysis, we have to talk about the topic of human nature.
People are self-centered, and everyone will consciously or unconsciously think that they are good and that their opinions are right. Some people are influenced by genetic factors and acquired education and experience, and they will think that they will always be right. As long as he disagrees with the opinion, he has to refute it in order to show that he is better than others.
If someone reciprocates him with the same attitude, then he will feel challenged, and this state of mind of maintaining "dignity" triggers the bodily instinct of the "defense mechanism" and thus enters a state of emotional rage.
So, my conclusion is:
Suppressing other people's desire to express too much is the essence of love to raise the bar.
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The man who speaks with a high bar I think is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence.
And the man who speaks and raises the bar is actually a kind of conceit, admitting death, and it can also be said that he is a person who is more upright and will not turn a corner.
If you say that it is okay to occasionally argue with others to raise the bar, but if you say that you are always competing with others everywhere, in fact, this is an extremely conceited, even selfish person.
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Most of the people who love to raise the bar are very eccentric, unlikable, so they don't have any friends, this kind of people are unwilling to admit their mistakes, no matter what the conditions, they are not willing to accept criticism from anyone, even if they are wrong, they are not willing to let others question themselves, and they resolutely do not admit their mistakes.
Whether it is in life or work, they are very emotional, do everything their own way, and have a very strong sense of possessiveness, very self, hope that they are the focus of the world, this self-type personality is the main bar, the biggest feature is that they do not take into account the feelings of others, always like to control other people's words and deeds and ideas, good at fighting for the right to speak in communication, after a long time, these people will also become a little picky, paranoid, and will pick out their own unpleasant "fault" for anything.
They usually don't like to be quiet, they don't like to be alone, they like to be lively, they are very sociable, and they all have an extremely terrible negative trait, which is to elevate themselves by stepping on others. They enjoy very much that in the process of raising the bar, others are angry and angry by what they say, and their faces are flushed, and they think that the other party is bowing their heads, so as to get inner satisfaction.
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Men who like to talk are generally more stubborn, and they will have some conceit, so when talking to others, he. will only make their own words different from those of others.
People who talk and raise the bar are generally more self-oriented, thinking how great they are, always denying other people's opinions, always feeling that their own ideas are right, and other people's ideas are not as good as their own, this kind of person has a stronger personality, self-righteousness, and jealousy.
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What are the personality traits of people who love to lift bars? The personality traits of people who love to lift bars are as follows:
First, the character of people who love to lift the bar is more paranoid, and they love to drill the horns of the bull to death.
Second, the character of a person who loves to raise the bar is more opinionated, and always thinks that his own ideas are not as perfect as his own ideas as others' thoughts.
Third, the character characteristics of people who love to lift the bar, can speak well, chew words, and love to be more truthful no matter how big or small.
Fourth, the characteristic of people who love to lift the bar is that they run to the dark one by one, and they recognize the reason, and ten cows can't pull it back.
Fifth, the characteristic of a person who loves to raise the bar is that he cannot listen to the persuasion of others, and he is a kind of person who does not enter the oil and salt.
Sixth, people who love to lift the bar are often immodest people, who always feel that they are great, feel that they are doing everything right, and do not listen to the advice of others.
Seventh, the person who always likes to lift the bar, his personality is not easy-going, and he is more stubborn.
Eighth, people who love to lift the bar are generally people with uncheerful personalities, who are lonely and unheard, inactive in thinking, unable to keep up with the trend of the times, and resist new ideas and new views.
Nine, people who love to lift the bar are generally arrogant, feel that they have words, they are the kind of people who go around the world with reason, and they have to find a step for themselves no matter when.
Tenth, people who love to lift the bar have a more eccentric personality, it is difficult to get along with people, and they have fewer friends, so such people are often more suspicious.
In short, a person who loves to lift the bar has a withdrawn, paranoid and weird personality, and sometimes he is strong and arrogant, even strong and aggressive.
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Personality traits of the bar lifter: 1. Like to argue with others, but unwilling to admit that they are wrong. 2. I like to argue with others, but I can't insist on it for a reason, or use unreasonable words.
3. Unwilling to argue with others, or unable to argue with others, but showing their own tough attitude, this is called "duplicity". 4. Unwilling to argue with others, or unable to argue with others, but showing their tough attitude, this is called "duplicity". 5. Like to argue, but unwilling to argue with others.
This is called the "pole lifter". 6. Unwilling to argue with others, or unable to argue with others, but showing their tough attitude, this is called "duplicity". 7. In interpersonal relationships, I like to argue, but I don't want to argue with others; Or not be able to argue with others, but show your toughness.
This is called the "pole lifter". 8. You can't argue with others, or you don't want to argue with others, but you have to show your tough attitude, which is called "two-facedness".
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People who like to lift the bar have stronger personalities. Most of them like to be competitive, and they want to prove that they are better than others in Zhenling, and they are right. Others must agree with their own opinions, and they will not give up.
In psychology, one. 2.People who like to raise the bar have a very collapsed self-esteem.
Even when talking to people, they have realized that their opinions are wrong, but in order to maintain their strong self-esteem, they are still unwilling to admit their mistakes, and even in various ways. 3.People who like to lift the bar are especially serious.
For someone who likes to lift the bar, even if he says something innocuous casually, he will argue with you, let alone something more serious. They like to drill into trouble.
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