Going out on a date with a boyfriend is all paid for by the boyfriend

Although it is natural for a man to pay for a woman, I will feel that I don't want to go, and I think it's not good to spend men's money all the time, after all, most modern women have independent financial ability and should properly share it for their lovers, so I sometimes pay for my boyfriend, but in order to save face, I will quietly stuff the money to him before the waiter comes to check out, he generally won't ask for it, I forced it, and he gave in, hehe.

I don't think it's normal, although to be honest, such a boy would feel good if it's a girl.

But it's always embarrassing for your boyfriend to pay for it, and it feels like you're being raised.

I think you can send some laughing things to your boyfriend.

My boyfriend told me that it's not just holidays that you can give, so I think you can bring some chocolate for him to eat when you meet up on a regular basis, and then you can buy him a scarf or something like this winter.

If it's me, I feel more reluctant to go, after all, I don't want to owe him, and my boyfriend and I take turns to invite him when we go out. However, girls who seek face will take it for granted that the man pays for it.

My friend on the second floor is right, you are indeed a rare good girl. Most girls fall in love with boys, and always feel that boys should pay for girls, and they don't know that girls also have a responsibility in love. It can even be said that those girls don't care about others at all, and only think about themselves all day long.

So I also want to say that if you don't have a boyfriend, I'll like you too, hehe

Men are like that, just like me, although I don't have much money, but if GF gives money, I will be very unhappy.

That means you're a good girl. It's a pity that you want a boyfriend, or I'll fall in love with you.

It's the same question I thought.,I don't want to go.,At the beginning, I was rushing to pay with him.,He just didn't want to.,I didn't grab it with him.,You can give him something.。 Another way.

I also feel bad conscious. That's why I often buy a lot of things for him.

My girlfriend didn't want to go, and she always wanted to give me the money back. But I didn't.

It's not good to be like this, and the good ratio is eight males: two females.

You can also buy something for him.

Don't feel embarrassed in your heart, just tell the other person that you will pay next time. If the man is satisfied with the date, he usually takes the initiative to pay, which is a matter of upbringing, and there is no need for the girl to be too prevaricated, and of course, don't think that the boy pays for granted. It's not easy for anyone to make money, before the two get married, the property is independent, the other party is willing to take the initiative to pay is a sentiment, the AA system belongs to the duty, it doesn't hurt to pay once or twice, if you want to continue to develop, don't worry too much about these small issues.

Some women are more independent and never want to spend other people's money, and after a date with a boy, if the other party pays the money, they usually send a red envelope to the other party afterwards, and this kind of woman is very rare, so it will make people feel uneasy after appearing. Because in the eyes of many men, paying for a date can show their charm, and not taking the initiative to pay will make them seem irresponsible. Although some people are unwilling to pay, for the sake of their own dignity, most of them will grit their teeth and take the initiative to pay, and it is a big deal to save some money for the rest of the day.

And some women are too snobbish, in addition to asking boys to pay when dating, they will often pull each other to go shopping, and let each other buy things they like when they see them, and on special days, they also let each other send them me a red envelope, and everything they do is asking for it, but they don't have anything to pay. They rely on their beauty and unscrupulously consume each other's patience, and this kind of person will only be abandoned in the end.

I saw a news before, there was a girl who was shopping with her boyfriend, saw a very beautiful bag, so she pulled her boyfriend to make him pay, the man was more grumpy, and refused the payment request on the spot. The girl felt that she had lost face and pulled her boyfriend's arm, and in the end, the man did not compromise and directly pushed his girlfriend to the ground. Although this push saved hundreds of dollars, it also lost his girlfriend at the same time.

But don't want this kind of girlfriend, many netizens praised the man for doing a good job after seeing it.

You can choose to buy some small gifts, or buy some things for the other party to make yourself more balanced, or when you go out to eat, the other party invites you to eat, and you can choose to invite the other party to watch a movie or drink milk tea. In the relationship, in fact, many times it is necessary to go both ways, and the love time of two-way running is longer, if you always let one party pay, the other party will feel that she is a very material person. <>

One. You can choose to give each other some small gifts.

Not only girls, but also many boys want to receive gifts from their loved ones, and when they receive gifts, they will cherish these gifts very much. If your object likes to play basketball very much, or usually likes sports, you can buy a pair of basketball shoes or buy gifts such as basketball for each other, which will make them feel that they are a very caring person, and they can also get some balance in these things, and always let the other party blindly pay. <>

Two. Asking each other may balance your mind.

When you have dinner with a couple, the other party will compete to pay, so you can choose to buy movie tickets for each other, buy a bouquet of flowers for each other on their birthday, and give back to each other with the same romance, so that each other can live in a romantic and happy atmosphere. In life, you can also buy couple clothes for each other, so that two people can also feel each other's true love, which is based on human love, especially couples in the student era, many times should pay for each other, rather than let each other pay, which will make each other's life very stressful, and in the long run, it may change the other party's attitude towards themselves, and they also feel very indebted to each other in their hearts, which is very unbalanced. <>

In love, you must know how to pay and reap the rewards, blindly paying, will only make the other party not feel love, and even have some extreme views, many times are mutual, so that the love can last longer.

If you feel sorry not to go, then you can choose to AA with the other party, or this time he will please, and the next time you please.

No, women are like this, love themselves more, it's not good if a man's money is not spent.

You can buy him a gift that he likes very much and give it to him, which can be considered as a kind of compensation, so that he will be very happy.

Summary. Good evening, dear, glad to answer for you. If he will pay money or time in this relationship, it means that he just thinks that the relationship should not be paid by one person, but if you are always paying or paying, it means that you are just a payment machine for him, if he will pay in other aspects such as paying and buying you gifts, then he may be because he has no money this time, or feels that you also need to pay, then there is nothing wrong with it.

Otherwise, he's a scumbag, he's not worth it, and you should stop your losses in time. Dear, if you have any doubts, please ask, I wish you a happy life.

Good evening, dear, Naqiao is happy to answer for you. If he will pay money or time in this relationship, it means that he just feels that the relationship should not be paid alone, but if you are always paying or paying, it means that you are just a payment machine for him, if he will pay for it in other ways, such as paying for you, buying you a gift, then he may be because he has no money this time, or thinks that you also need to pay, then there is nothing wrong with it. Otherwise, he's a scumbag, he's not worth it, and you should stop your losses in time.

Dear, if you have any doubts, please ask, I wish you a happy life.

Never gave me a gift during the holidays.

She kept asking me for money and asked me to buy her clothes.

I didn't send red envelopes either.

No. Not a penny has ever been spent on you.

Not. So how embarrassed is he to spend your money, does he really use you as a cash machine.

Doesn't it hurt his conscience to just ask and not give?

As long as I talk to other men, he gets jealous and loses his temper.

Dear, this is normal.

It's just that if he doesn't pay for you, it means that he doesn't care much about you.

Don't spend money on him.

Why didn't he admit that I was too close to other men?

If he still chooses to be nice to you and is willing to pay for you, then your effort is worth it. If you don't pay, why should I pay alone?

Because he's afraid you'll be fine with other boys.

I'm afraid I won't have you to pay him.

Maybe this is the main reason, and the guy is possessive and thinks that his woman is his own.

You can be nice to him, but don't spend money on her.

Give the boys face, and the girls don't rush to pay the bills when they eat, but if people invite you three or four times, you can go back once in other ways, such as watching a movie. In addition, if you want to buy something yourself, it is better to pay for it yourself. Personal views only.

If you're looking for a long-term boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, you shouldn't have to pay for it all by guys.

There is no incivility, of course, you have to ask back, and you don't have to be as clear as the AA system, I think it's okay to do him seven times and you three, ten times let him pay seven times, you pay three times, if you don't pay the bill, it's okay to buy him a gift or something once in a while! Like a shirt or something!

There is no incivility, of course, you have to ask back, and you don't have to be as clear as the AA system, I think it's okay to do him seven times and you three, ten times let him pay seven times, you pay three times, if you don't pay the bill, it's okay to buy him a gift or something once in a while! Like a shirt or something!

There is no such thing as a deed or not. But boys are generally machismo, and girls don't see how much money they spend, so it's usually boys who pay. But if the burden on boys is relatively large, girls must be considerate of boys, and I have seen many people break up because of this kind of thing.

Although some girls like to be cheap.

But a lot of girls are used to men paying their bills, and sometimes they feel that if they don't let a man spend money, they will lose face.

Maybe it's not a character issue.

If your girlfriend is mature, maybe she cares about you, but she just doesn't show it.

As for you, it's better not to go to obvious temptations.

Otherwise, she will be even more indifferent when she sees that you are tempting.

I'm a girl, I feel like both of them should spend, it's just a matter of how much, even if girls don't spend money, they should usually give boys a little more care and care, care about whether the living expenses are enough to eat, can't make people hungry! This is the law of conservation of energy, hehe!

This problem has led many men who are not financially well-off to take measures to marry.

When it comes to equality between men and women, it's just that in some ways, it usually seems that men pay for granted.

Personally, I think that as long as the economic conditions of men allow, it is normal for men to pay.

But in the case of not being rich, you can AA, even familiar boyfriends and girlfriends, and women pay the bill.

If a man pursues a woman and must use money to attack, then there is no need for this woman to chase her.

It would be good if the woman understood and would share. Of course, this refers to men who are not in a good financial situation.

If the landlord is pursuing a girl, and if the landlord's economic situation is not good, don't pretend to have money, just put it in place.

While many dates are expensive, there are also big and small options.

Sure enough, money embarrassed men.

Not necessarily, a man pays because he looks gentlemanly, after all, now that men and women are equal, they can pay.

Yes, but you have to pay attention to the attitude of the girls. If she thinks it doesn't matter and squanders your money at will, then she doesn't want this kind of girl.

To be honest, it's certain that the man spends a little more, but the girl can't think that it is completely deserved, right? There is not even half a kind word, this phenomenon is a lot in reality, falling in love is a matter of two people, and they should be responsible for each other as usual. If you are a man, you have to be frank, unambiguous in love, and spend a lot of energy.

But do what you can, breakfast, watching movies, and occasionally going to dinner don't cost much, for love, for lifelong events, the value of spending, spending should also be happy. I think that in love, although most of the men pay the bill, the women still have to ask back a few times from time to time, and they can't always rely on the men, so that in the long run, the men will have a sense of imbalance in their hearts, and the women have a sense of deservedness.

<> if you don't want to, and you can't bear it, then confess to your girlfriend. I think an empathetic girl won't embarrass her beloved boyfriend. Obviously not normal, I don't know when it seems to have formed a habit:

As long as it is a blind date or a date, the man pays the bill. Even if it develops into the presence of a man, it will be like this. Since equality between men and women is emphasized, where money is spent, it is unequal.

Generally speaking, it is the man who is the main consumer, or who is afraid of breaking up who consumes more, to please the other party, the fair way is who takes the initiative to date and who pays, don't care if both parties have intentions, they should talk about each other as soon as possible, they should be decisive, and they should love with their hearts.

If you feel that it is a little difficult for you to pay, then you have to think about whether there are financial difficulties in the next place, don't hold on, and only bring it up in the end, hurting others and hurting yourself. I think you can't always use the man's money, they are all equal in love, everyone's money is hard-earned, from the perspective of college students, college students are still consumers, money is not their own, they spend their parents' hard-earned money, and they should think from the perspective of others. Depending on the situation, there is no absolute and there will be no certainty.