The person I love is getting married to a woman I ve known for less than a month

I was very touched when I read it, but what I want to say is that love is not a mistake, but you are people from two different worlds, boys and girls in the countryside are married very early, but you are an intellectual, and the education you receive is different from that in the countryside, just like people and ghosts, they come from different worlds, and this is the difference between the city and the countryside. All you can do now is bless them. Forget about him silently!

Love is not possession, life is also a loss and a gain, you should also look for your own love.

Think about it, he later insisted that his own opinions have his own reasons, from your point of view, others are more persistent, if he really said that, he couldn't let his grandmother see his happiness before he died, that was his regret, of course, it is not ruled out that he didn't want your method in the first place, so, if you want to open a point, there are many good men, why bother to keep this one.

I want to open a point. Forget about him! Now that it's a foregone conclusion, you can live well!!

I believe that in the distance, there is still a person waiting for you.

There are some things that he can't control, he is a filial person!! There are many things in the countryside that are helpless!!

Now it's useless even if he loves you again. Because now it's not about you and him, it's about three people, and two family things, and you have to think about the girl who is engaged to him, if she is repented of her marriage and is in the countryside, then what should she do!!

I can only say that you are not sure to be him, let the fate between you and him slip out of your hands!!

Others always say to forget, feelings depend on fate, only you can really appreciate the happiness of the past, the pain of the present, whether it is to redeem or forget depends on how you want to do it, no matter what, as long as you do not regret it, people live once in their lives, there is a lot of helplessness in life feelings, others give you just opinions, life is still your own, giving up sometimes may not be bad, let it become a memory.

Alas, it's very touching, I don't want to say anything floating by...

You're immature --- naïve.

Don't deliberately change one thing, time will show everything as it is, he is not a responsible man--- don't prove your love with actions, love is not responsible - no matter how much it is in vain!! It's just people's own desires--- it's not about love!! It can only subvert love - and the result of subversion is --- injury!!

May you face it calmly and be responsible for yourself!! So that others can be accountable to you!

Fate is a thing that can be killed, since he is waiting for you like this. You don't have to think about him, time can make you forget everything.

You are a professional **, to be precise, you have feelings to write such things.

Put this feeling in the bottom of your heart, many years later, when the two met, they smiled in their hearts and said to him:"I loved you once and now. "

Now that Grandma has passed away and you are engaged to someone you don't love, will Grandma's heavenly spirit be comforted? Is this his filial piety?

You ask him with this sentence.

If a girl who has just known you for a short time says she wants to marry you, you should consider it carefully, and it is really a bit hasty to propose marriage without understanding each other clearly for a month. Maybe the girl is young and dizzy for a while, but as a hidden man, you must be cautious and cautious, and generally there will be the following reasons for this situation.

1. The two of them are in love, and they live sweetly every day, and the girl has no love experience selling celery, so they decided that you have to do it, in fact, this is a good thing. But you still have to think about it more, marriage is different from falling in love, falling in love is to eat, drink, drink and play every day, but marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is trivial, couples who can fall in love together may not be able to be husband and wife, and both parties still need to run in for a period of time.

2. It may also be that the girl has had a lot of relationship experiences, and the previous relationship experience is more unforgettable, she may have been hurt a lot, so she thinks your conditions are not bad, and she feels okay, so she wants to get married. This kind of girl has actually lost her longing and yearning for love, and just wants to find a suitable person to marry, she may be very suitable for marriage, but remember, she doesn't love you.

3. There is also a possibility that the girl is insecure, she needs a home, a home that can shelter herself. Maybe the environment in which the girl lives from childhood to adulthood is relatively poor, not only the economic difference, but the poor spirit and family affection, maybe the girl has not received any care since she was a child, but in the matching hall, she has found the long-looking sense of security, therefore, she is eager to marry you, but marriage is also urgent, and the two sides must examine each other.

Understand the situation you mentioned. Marriage is a decision of great significance and responsibility for many people. Some people feel scared and stressed when faced with the idea of marriage. When a girl often talks about getting married, she may be thinking about the future and trying to understand your perspective.

First, you need to be honest with her about your thoughts and feelings about getting married. If you don't have a clear idea of marriage or are not ready yet, then you should be honest with her. It's important to maintain open and honest communication so that you can avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and differences in expectations.

In addition, you can also ask her why she finds it scary to get married. She may have some specific worries or fears, such as uncertainty about married life, pressure of responsibilities, or family changes. By understanding her positions and concerns, you can better understand each other and find common solutions.

Most importantly, give each other time and space to think and grow. A month together may not be enough time for you to get to know each other fully, so don't rush your decision too much. Marriage is a lifelong event that needs to be carefully considered.

Finally, if you have significant differences in ideas and values, or have different expectations for your marriage, you may want to consider whether it is appropriate to move forward. Marriage is based on a shared understanding and shared vision, and if there are major disagreements, it can cause confusion and conflict for you.

In conclusion, it is important to communicate thoughts and concerns about marriage with the girl you have known for a month. Maintaining honest and open communication, understanding Maruyama and respecting each other's points of view will help you better handle the topic and decide where to go in the future.

In fact, it's up to you to talk about this matter yourself, and the Spring Hall is too hasty, and it's not a good phenomenon. Therefore, if you call the tomb and say that you still have to know the roots, and then know yourself and the other in order to win all battles, this must be measured clearly.

Has this girl been married before? And it's a failed marriage! Leads her to such pessimistic and negative values!

I probably like it, and I want to have a result soon.